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You see there is always an advantage of being a sociology student . I heard even DD majored in sociology in her uni days naa? Well guess what? Characters can also be used as studies for not only psychology but sociology as well now . Thanks to RK the great.😡
So RK mahashey 😡 . Hum sab jaantey hai ke aap ek lost , disbalanced 11 saal ke bacchey hai jo kabhi bara nahi hua hai . Lekin yeh kaisa naya tareeka hai apne frustrations ko nikaalna? Revenge aur apna life destroy karke chain nahi mila ke phir se Madhu ko sazza dene pe tuley hai aap? 🤪 Thanks to Gari , jisney SBS session post kiya , we saw a peek into a future Rishbaala scene where RK says that her not answering him in where she is going and with whom is going to cost her a price soon.😡 Yeh ladka khud ki baand bajata hai. Aur phir jab baand bajta hai , toh doosrey pe anger displacement deta hai .😡 Now coming to Piaget theory . Madhu , tuney ek bacchey se kaise pyaar kar liya mujhe nahi pata . Lekin Madhu's crack can also be explained by Piaget theory , though in Madhu's case Freudian theory would be ideal.
RK the insolent cracked child's socio study case - Jean Piaget's theory .
credits given to my Socio book by Anthony Giddens.😃 moving on.Sorry for this bhasshan.
Piaget's theory on childhood divides the periods of childhood into 4 main stages:
1. Sensorimotor stage - [from birth till 2 years] Here in this stage children learn by touching objects around them and physically exploring their environment. However in this age they cannot differentiate the objects from one to another. However they realize by 2 , that their environment has different and stable properties.
2.Pre operational stage- [2-7 years] In this stage , children learn words to represent objects and images in a symbolic fashion.A 4 year old can use a sweeping hand movement to represent an aeroplane , for eample. Children are ego centric in this age . Actually they develop egocentrism according to Piaget in this age. As the child is only able to interpret the world in the terms of his own little understanding. Like , a child holding a book in front of you will ask you to see the pictures despite the back of the book being turned to you.
3. Concrete operational stage- [7-11 years] Children master abstract and logical notions. They can by now recognize false reasoning .However they fail to perceive perception . For example , they won't be able to understand that a wide container will hold more water despite the level of water being lower than in a narrow thin container.
And NOW FINALLY THE CATCH. The final stage- Formal operational stage [12-15 years] helps us understand things like the water example given above..BUT. Yes there is a big BUT over here.Many people around us FAIL to achieve the last stage of normal childhood around us due to the dysfunctional conditions of our family. Therefore this stage helps to make children develop seeing all types of possibilities for a problem but people who fail at experiencing this stage due to a broken back ground and broken surrounding , cannot differentiate all the possibilities and REMAIN EGOCENTRIC. DOES IT FINALLY CLICK NOW? RK NEVER WENT THROUGH THE FORMAL OPERATIONAL STAGE. I'M QUOTING, " ADULTS OF BAD BACKGROUND OR LIMITED EDUCATIONAL ATTAINMENT TEND TO THINK IN MORE CONRETE TERMS THAN TRYING TO UNDERSTAND A SECOND PERSON'S FEELINGS AND THEREFORE STILL RETAIN LARGE TRACES OF EGOCENTRISM." Therefore , RK and many people like RK have never been through the proper last stage of childhood and therefore their flecks of past childhood transitions remain the way they are as they grow into adults. For the reason , we still see a very complicated screwed up child inside RK cause that is what he is . His childhood process has been screwed up and handicapped and therefore what you get is a screwed up kid inside a physically grown up looking adult . KAAPISH?
Madhu's crack - Freudian theory.
Okay . So all of us wonder why Madhu's ego tug of war , hatred , "i will break your ego and show justice" , loathe , care , pull , attraction and indelible love is for this crack pot of a child? I'll tell you why . Madhu knows her dad was a domestically sick and screwed up man . Madhu slowly saw a potential redemption in RK's character that resembled the descriptions of her father never giving the love her mom deserved . Madhu however knew that unlike her father RK is no psychotic killer and physical murdering abuser with ice cold blood in his veins and so she saw the possibility of redeeming him and making him a better person , and in this way she grew attached . How and why did she do this? Because the psychology here is , to redeem her fathers actions in her mind and to forgive and moreover RELEASE him and his actions in her eyes , she wants to redeem guys like him who can still become better people and be proper husbands which her mom, Padmini never got . By making RK a better person , she would be able to RELEASE HER BITTER EMOTIONS AND FEELINGS ABOUT HER FATHER. This is a symptom of girls who have not gone through a proper process of the Electra complex , ie having sexual sub conscious feelings for your father that is repressed and displayed through a daughterly love. Since Madhu never had a real father , the memories and words about her father had to be released through nurturing a guy who is bitter like her dad but has a chance of redemtion and so that is why Madhu tried her best through the Ganpati track , Radha-RK track and etcetera . Sorry for boring you guys. buhbyeee 😃.
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