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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: DonnaHarvey


the idea that one has to choose between a family and a career is (at the moment) beyond my comprehension. mostly because I look at Scandinavia and say if they can do it, so can everyone else. one has to be independently in every sense of the word before getting into a marriage. standing on your two feet. I was one of the most judgemental pre-teens I knew. I would find faults in everyone. It took me a lot of reading and conversations to realize the false nature of dichotomies. Some things culturally learned are best unlearned.



being independant in every sense of word before getting married would be an ideal situation..something that everyone should adopt.. but have lived in India all my life, it goes without saying that the situation is anything but ideal..the situation is changing at but only at snails pace and that too maybe only in cities...and its not just being independant before marriage..but even after it too an extent..because there are quite a few independant women who give it up as a compromise for a married life..
I used to agrue with almost everything when I was a teen..especially the the cultural and society biases..I still often do..but I have become slightly cynical aswell to know that not everything can be unbiased and perfect
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Posted: 12 years ago
updated my comment 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
Loved the update 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: kendra

he gets suspicious when madhu is out with her best friend and then he hopes her to forgive him!!🤢

that is Rishabh for ya
that s**l dipali is here also !! she is surely a home wrecker!!😔
i don't know what's going to happen at the end but i love your writing and stories jass !!

thank you kirti. I am glad you like it.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: -GhostOrchid-

being independant in every sense of word before getting married would be an ideal situation..something that everyone should adopt.. but have lived in India all my life, it goes without saying that the situation is anything but ideal..the situation is changing at but only at snails pace and that too maybe only in cities...and its not just being independant before marriage..but even after it too an extent..because there are quite a few independant women who give it up as a compromise for a married life..

I understand, I have lived in India for sometime and I can safely say there are multiple dimensions to the nation.
I used to agrue with almost everything when I was a teen..especially the the cultural and society biases..I still often do..but I have become slightly cynical aswell to know that not everything can be unbiased and perfect

Cynicism is my protective shield also. I remember this Afghan woman saying the only way to change tradition is follow abide by it. Subtle critique is often the safer route when compared to straight up rebellion.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: aksuji

nice update...

ah m growing a big fan of bituji
and for RK and deepali...unke liye to kuch kehna hi bekar...both r of same type😔...who dont care for other's but just themselves...
I dont want RK to redeem...but want want madhu to make him regret and leave no way for his repentance and redemption

thank you. RK's redemption: I really have no idea if you are upset with RK or the one in the show or bothšŸ˜† either way nimmi we will go with the flow.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: --Udhay--

Loved the update 😊

glad
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Posted: 12 years ago
Once a person has cheated on another... how can he expect anyone to stay loyal to him.. He starts to view everyone especially the ones he cares about through the blurred glasses of a cheater...
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: DonnaHarvey

thank you. RK's redemption: I really have no idea if you are upset with RK or the one in the show or bothšŸ˜† either way nimmi we will go with the flow.


m upset with both but m always satisfied with your ending so...I have faith on u for this one too
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: luvera

Once a person has cheated on another... how can he expect anyone to stay loyal to him.. He starts to view everyone especially the ones he cares about through the blurred glasses of a cheater...

šŸ‘ well said. must be horrible looking behind your back for a stabbing. but then again, he brought this upon himself.

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