Painful realisation for me finally

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I was always the 1st one to say RKs love was real and not revenge and why wouldn't I ? even now when i recall those mesmerising moments, it seems very real. even not being able to tolerate rks taunts to MB during mandap scene and post breakup, somewhere i did not want to believe the truth deep down. but after todays epi, im shocked and have come to accept revenge theory. Even when pouring his heart out in a drunken state he said 'badla...', that is clear indication as any that it is revenge. If it is revenge then his love was never true, i dont buy this half baked theory that in the process of taking revenge, he fell in love and did not realise it until he lost her because i truly believe that if you love someone, you can NEVER hurt them intentionally, esp not to the degrading level like RK did, truelovers take on all of their lovers pain even if they are apart and cannot be together they protect them from pain, not give them pain. Some of the things that Rk did to MB in the name of revenge were unforgivable, but i was prepared to forget them if there was a big reason behind what i believed to be fake revenge and if his love was real.
I did have some hope when he said 'mere swaal ka jawab do...tum ne aisa kyun kiya' at that point i thought that maybe he took revenge cos of a misunderstanding, ie maybe someone has told him that MB has betrayed him in someway or done something behind his back. But that did not happen and it began to dawn on me that it is revenge. SO disappointed and feel badly let down, i really had hope that there was some reason. It did not even have anything to do with rk maybe feeling guilty for the Ballu fiasco or putting her life in danger which some viewers thought could be a reason for the breakup or just that he felt he is unlucky in love and pushed her away toprotect her from himself.
I know it is an indian serial and anything is possible, but this revenge storyline is too much to stomach. Even if you dont fall in love with someone, but after spending time with them like MB did with RK during the time of their marriageand caring for him after shooting, you would warm to the other person and become close, even as friends etc just in the name of humanity, but positively hating them is not the done thing.
finally, i did not like the so called confession or revealing of true feelings in a drunken state. for me it belittled it and felt like an insult to it all. I think if they said it all when they were sober would have been more effective, eg during an angry outburst like the 5th slap and dupatta scene which was really gripping. The drunken state made a mockery of it all intertwined with dance sequences. It lacked the intensity and passion of the 5th slap scene. also, once the hang over and effects of alcohol have gone ppl dont remeber what happened the night before and so there is a question mark over whether they would remember what was said and so it would lose its purpose, i suppose they will remember cos its a serial. Alternatively, It may back fire if MB thinks RK spiked her drink and that he was lying once again as part of revenge for 5th slap. And who would blame her, the only way he could have been redeemed is if there was a big reason forhim pushing her away and faking revenge, but it was obvious from todays epi that there is not.
if it is revenge, i dont think he can redeem himself, maybe in the serial he can, but he wont be able to in the viewers eyes, its gone too far for that. The heart is shattered beyond repair.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I know what you mean. I still cann't forgive RK for what he did to Madhu. He loves her for sure but to go that extent for revenge is a bit too much and he still hasn't accepted his love for Madhu in normal state. After watching today's episode specially when RK got hurt knowing Madhu hates him I felt a lil awww for him but I am still not accepting RK. Lets wait and watch what happens in the future. RK has to do something epic to gain the trust back which is still not happening for me. Hope CV's will come up with something extraordinary.

btw I loved both DD and VD's acting today <3
Edited by nekochan - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Poor thing. I really felt sad after reading your writeup. You seem like over involved with the characters here. Wake up dear, just take things easy.
This world doesnt work the way creatives do in their serials. Now a days they play with viewer emotions.
This is one of the types. I know nothing can redeem RK back in viewers eyes but some thing creatives will cook up which all viewers will accept and pity for RK and excuse him and accept him back for MB.
Just dont take anything serious. if you want to really have fun. Just observe the characters and how they change in situations as an outsider. You will not get affected any more. Dont involve your feelings with the story. Its not film story so it changes every time u think something and director think something different.
so chill and enjoy. :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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naina, but still one has to be able to relate to plot, no????
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: hadiya

naina, but still one has to be able to relate to plot, no????

yeah i agree with you 100%. I see most of us here got over trusted RK. There were many hints given by the lead character RK himself in the show, that he is taking revenge.
I never felt there was any reason behind his actions other than ego.
But now, RK is one such character that he is potrayed as dark hero. That means he did what he did to MB but he feels for her now. Deep down his ego gone for a toss and his heart has taken over ego.
Earlier he used to drink himself to bury his heart and build his ego to rule this ruthless world. But it was not meant for MB who eventually turned out to be his love. Now he is drinking to bury his ego to bring his heart out.
If you think, a person living with so much made up attitude for a long time, It takes some jerk or shock to make him realise himself. and what he really is. RK never ever thought he would meet someone who is his dream to believe in. But God has gifted him MB but he could not realise it until he played with it and tested it. Becoz for some bad experiences in childhood he lost faith in all the relationships.
He started living life which he hates to live with but he cannot help other than live it in a different way.It back fired him so badly that he hurted the most important person in his life. That is his love MB.
Now its very difficult for MB to trust him. One and only way is MB has to love him as he is. This will only bring them together forever, otherwise its very difficult for them to clarity or justify each other anytime in their lifes.
Edited by naina2010 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Not only is madhu's heart broken. So is the fans. Their love seemed so real. 💔
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: orchid70

Not only is madhu's heart broken. So is the fans. Their love seemed so real. 💔

Yes their love is ofcourse real. You will see that going fwd. 😊
Edited by naina2010 - 12 years ago

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