Sorry From DDians To VD fans For Everything - Page 32

Originally posted by: deepak148

@mandy if that happened that's really sad. taking fun as bashing is just stupid. i never saw tanzie posting in forum. see dear me 2 hurted by some remarks by frnds and it hurted badly. But we should try to move on. not saying we should do frndshp but just need to move on and try to forget the past. i know it is not easy

Thats what I am trying to say Deepak It hurts a lot n now by just making one post doesn change things. We shd move on, true but at the same there has to be a stop to this negativity. Cant take more of it anymore bcoz my friends quit the forum itself bcoz their freedom of speech was denied.

Originally posted by: ..mandy..

<font color="#0000ff" size="4" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">I appreciate ur efforts 😳but I suppose more than words only actions can convince us. I totally agree u guys adore DD n I like her too. I dont get y v need to get personal over any actor when none of us know them personally. Y should we get offended by anything? V r not their PRs to take care of their images. I can give one simple example - When VD's last interview where he credited his wife Vahbhiz there were a couple of DD fans who mocked at him. So now should VD give credit to his co-star who works along with him or his wife who manages everything for him? If u guys love ur fav co-star dont throw them on others faces. U like them, its ur choice n try to respect the fact that others have their fav who according to them would be the best. Liking somebody to the point of insanity where u end up insulting others is definitely not what a sensible person does. Plus is DD/VD ur family, friend for whom all of u r fighting so much? I doubt if ur even going to fight like this for ur own friends n here there r fights going on over people who r no where related to u. Sorry but I have had enough. Maybe I wasn bashed in this forum but there was a case when I was reported for no fault of mine n I very well know who was crazy enough to do that. I made a stupid post for discussion sake in another AT in another forum but then some of u all took it as a conspiracy n started bashing my friends here. I am talking abt the fun stupid post I made on plastic surgery. I was not saying DD should be replaced. I was just applying an Ekta Kapoor logic n laughing it out with my friends. But DD fans took that as an excuse n then the no. of bashing posts that followed was well I could see infinite. The worst part is I made that stupid remark for fun. That wasn even serious n ppl who were not involved got bashed like Cari, Koyel n Tanzie some of whom r my friends here. Is this the way civilised ppl treat each other? </font>

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<font color="#0000ff" size="4" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif"><em>I appreciate udear for extending an olive branch but if u really mean what u say then please prove that point by not bashing other actors. Also I can tell u one thing. Many VD fans liked DD as well but bcoz of a few overbearing DD fans we ended up despising her for no fault of hers. Bcoz at the end it got down to VD vs DD which doesn make sense when this show is all about RishBala n DVD. Also please learn to give others their space n only then these fights will reduce. Am sorry if I sounded rude but seeing my friends being bashed has hurt me a lot Worst part they even quit the forum bcoz of this madness.</font>

Same is the case with Many DD fans who have been hurt, not just one side. Most of my friends were bashed for no reason, Still This post I won't go who did what & where as it will create a mess again. This post is to forget everything, not to start who did what. And regarding VD praising Vahbhiz, DD fans not liking it. Well, that's your misunderstanding if you guys thought we want him to praise DD instead. We dd fans don't even want DD to be near VD or anyone. Saying why VD praised Vahbhiz doesn't mean we want him to praise DD. In fact many of us would've been more mad if he did that. Neither any dd fans said that they want him to praise dd. It's you guys yourself thought that when we don't even want dd to be in any of her co-stars interviews in regards to such things.

Originally posted by: duaa92

well thats nice

is this from all DDians😊

bashing and all just portraynegativity

and we areall MEIEJians here before DDians and VDians

hope in future VD/Rk bashing will be stopped

reallyappreciatethis👍🏼

Thanks.

Originally posted by: carisma2

This is really sweet. Thankyou. Your gesture is really appreciated. Count me in. Huggs...xx

Thanks Cari. 😳 I hope now everyone clear the misunderstandings & move on .

Originally posted by: -nee-

am in!!
wont be bashing from now on!!
hope this works madz!!! nice try

Thanks Meenu. Yes, let's try to not react anymore & just be positive. Let's hope things work out.

Originally posted by: Cutieee1992

Same is the case with Many DD fans who have been hurt, not just one side. Most of my friends were bashed for no reason, Still This post I won't go who did what & where as it will create a mess again. This post is to forget everything, not to start who did what. And regarding VD praising Vahbhiz, DD fans not liking it. Well, that's your misunderstanding if you guys thought we want him to praise DD instead. We dd fans don't even want DD to be near VD or anyone. Saying why VD praised Vahbhiz doesn't mean we want him to praise DD. In fact many of us would've been more mad if he did that. Neither any dd fans said that they want him to praise dd. It's you guys yourself thought that when we don't even want dd to be in any of her co-stars interviews in regards to such things.

Originally posted by: rajjji

if people really want this,then people of dd/vd AT should be active in vd/dd AT -then it would be possible..before i used be active in both AT-how many can do this?? good gesture by Tm

Good idea. The more the communication, the more will be understanding & friendship. 😊

As for me, I am not active in any of ATs as I always find ATs boring or I can say I am not used to them. I go to DD AT sometimes, & that too because of monitoring it but now will try to be active in all ATs including RishBala AT.

@Mandy i don't know who u are but wanna say you are whole blame on DD fans just to let u dear Talli ek hath se nahi bajati, So Dear plz don't bring old matters, If not friend atleast we can move on n behave civilized

Ok...i am not sure why is everyone just digging deep in the CC link...guys it was a genuine attempt by madz and we really want peace in the forum...

I wish u guys can trust us this time...coz all this is not fake

Originally posted by: ..mandy..

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<div>I can point out the specific posts but as u said even I dont wish to waste my energy on this. I didn say u made a post like that nor did I say all DD fans r like that but if u want I can look up n give the link to such posts that were made when the interview came out. There was no need to mock him for that. I am not interested in whodunit now but if u really mean what u say then I am happy as well. I appreciate ur attempts at damage control but its already gone beyond repair now for many of them who quit will never come back here. Atleast we can make attempts to not spoil it further. We can give it a try provided we learn to give each other space.

Hi Mandy, See misunderstandings are the root of all these fights. You said you were just joking when you said dd's plastic surgery, but dd fans didn't know that & thought it was serious.


Now coming to VD-Vahbhiz interview, some dd fans didn't mean anything bad or wanted him to praise dd. They didn't even remember dd at that time. The only reason why they said why he only praised. Vahbhiz because they found it unbelievable him not giving credit to his parents & later him PH. DD wasn't even in their mind which you guys thought. Again a misunderstanding you see. It was just that. DD was out of picture. Many of us DD fans don't like Manish aka Mukund because he would always used to take DD'S names & about her in his interviews which we didn't use to like. , so why do you think we would want VD to do the same & go talk about dd all the time? We would've been more mad if he gave credit to dd or something like that. Anyways, I hope now the misunderstanding is cleared. And. Many of us have been hurt a lot too, but we are trying to move on. I hope you guys do the same :)

Do let me know what you think! :)