Ur right abt it Deepak - at the end of the day its affecting those who like both the actors Even if someone pokes fun its taken seriously like somebody is conspiring against someone! Wat else can I say?
For those who point fingers at others, I'd only suggest they have a look at their own backs. If one person is constantly being thrown on ur face ur not gonna like it much now, are you? Then y everytime one sector of the fan base bow down while others always get away with anything n everything they do? 😡 A joke that was discused in another forum is being blown out of proportions. I just wanna ask one thing. Are ppl so desperate that they like to stalk others on other forums as well? One person discusses a crazy impossible theory for fun n now we see that an entire CC has been created just to teach us a lesson. WOW! I applaud the hard efforts put into the task! Wat more can I say? Freedom of speech is allowed only for some n not for others is it? This forum is nothing but hypocrisy at its very best!
Ppl fight over whom? Actors? What do they even mean to us? Do we know them personally or do they know us? Who r they to us? They r actors n they r doing their job n they get paid to do it, just like most of us professionals who work in different fields in life. R they the only ones who sacrifice their personal lives for work? Think again. There r many who work for more than 12 hrs a day non stop in diff fields. These ppl r no different either n they get paid well to do that as well. True we do appreciate them for the hard work they put in n feel happy when it gets acknowledged before the world. But shd we fight over VD n DD? Who r they? Are they our friends? Family? Someone we know? NO! They just portray 2 characters who have become a part of our life. We get so personal abt ppl we dont even know. Are we their PR's? Are we paid to maintain the image before others? Or have we taken the responsibility to become moral police in a public forum? Or cant the celebrities handle it themselves?
I can give u one ex - when one of my friends bashed DD bcoz DD fans bashed her fav actor I told her not to blame DD for wat her fans r doing n viola I get reported for that as well n I very well know who could have done that! I am not interested to take names here! I can check my dashboard to know who's keeping a tab on me 🤢 Makes me feel disgusted to know that I dont have anything called privacy but hey, isn't it a public forum? So I suppose anybody n everybody have the right to meddle in others matters!
First it started with bashing the show - FINE, ACCEPTED!
Then it moved onto characters - FINE, thats accepted as well coz they r characters after all n we are all entitled to have our views!
Then it moves on to their personal lives - Really Now? 😛 N we end up fighting for their honour like we know them. Does this make any sense? 😕
N then if tats enough members here start bashing each other and their family calling them names n wat not? All in the name of fighting for ur celebs!
Ppl lose their peace of mind over someone they dont even know! Well no point debating coz I can make out a lost cause when I see one! U asked y there is no peace but the answer is right before u. Its not just one segment of fans alone but its abt the whole lot in general!
Edited by mandy1024 - 12 years ago
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