Is it really so difficult to accept CRITICISM - Page 2

Originally posted by: Vivu_barun

ya its enough i agree wid u even i sometimes lose my temper over any topic against my fav actually its wrong i know .good post

😃 There is nothing like accepting a mistake and rectifying..I have erred in the past too..but try not to repeat my previous mistakes..

Babes, you have not seen anything yet. Ever been on ipkknd forum? Crazzzy!

I dont get too bothered now. Like you said, mostly i am a bird in transit on most forums depending on which show caught my fancy for the week. But on the more permenant one, you usually find a group of ppl who r open minded, and not obsessed by a star. Now i find these hyper vigilants really amusing. And a thick skin helps

Oh i forgot. The yrkkh forum is another masterpiece. For the lamest show on tv, it has really rude, hyperactive fans. For some reason i find them hilarious

Hi
I agree with ur points...bt want 2 ask u 1 thing...wht do u mean by Criticism ??? Its abt saying tht he/she was weak at ths scen...nt tht...he discomfort is becoz of his personal life or fiance...n thn v have some members who say ya its right...Criticism is nt abt questioning the capabilities of an actor n askim hm to quit..


Somebody here said tht in this forum saying bad abt DD is criticism...n the same 4 VD is bashing...WELL I want to say tht...its the othr way round...sAY the the femlae lead was nt gud at this particular scene without bringing her personal life...u will get bashed...4 questioning the prowess of the lead...😆...Bt call the male lead expressionles..or anything its critisim...Its becoz of the same reaon tht many of the gud writers have stopped...coming into this forum...n stopped posting their posts...mainly 4 the reason tht If u have criticised DD the great Goddess of the forum...U r posts will turn into warzone n it will be closed...thr is no scope 4 criticisng of the char of MB/DD...WHTEVR BASHING GOES on is for Vivian...According to some ...in this forum...Whtever good happens with Vivian its becoz OF DD...he performed well..becoz of DD...n blah blah...😆...nt becoz of his hard work..n say something abt DD the same people ..will bash u n tag u as haters...😆


Evrybody have their own fav...bt y the hell questioning or bashing an actor...BY BRINGING THEIR personal life into it...I dnt find DD perfect a bit ...same applies 4 Vivian...I dnt consider DD as the princess..whr I need to drool over her...Neither 4 Vivian..becoz he is nt a prince 4 me...

Originally posted by: pennu

Everybody has their own favourites... even i doo.. and sometime i like and enjoy whatever my-favourites do... but feel weired about my non-favourites ... its quite natural...

but i don't understand why people fighting and trying to proove what ever they are feeling about their favourites is the Good.. and the whatever others feeling about their favourites is entirely wrong...

Nice Post..

Originally posted by: bips

Babes, you have not seen anything yet. Ever been on ipkknd forum? Crazzzy!

I dont get too bothered now. Like you said, mostly i am a bird in transit on most forums depending on which show caught my fancy for the week. But on the more permenant one, you usually find a group of ppl who r open minded, and not obsessed by a star. Now i find these hyper vigilants really amusing. And a thick skin helps

I have migrated from IPK..so a part of what I wrote today, a big part has been long time in the making..
I too usually stick to like minded people..but just needed to get this off once..

@ being thick skin: this is a big advantage in IF..helps in survival..

@YRKKH: never been to that forum..though I agree..the show is lame IMO too..

Originally posted by: carisma2

Nice Post..

See this is the one forum where fun is not allowed.. Other than they're fav they cannot be here for anyone else, Infact for their fav they wud stab their on best mate in the forum..

Which is fine - that's their call..

BUT then you cannot give an opinion on a character if you have a pref for the other one.

And if you do - then instead of saying I hear what you say - I would like to share my pov, this is what I think. Infact they will play tit for tat - and even if the topic didn't involve your fan - he/she is dragged in...

Then multiple posts are made just to make their star shine brighter.

Everything is taken personally and attacks are very personal too...

We can only discuss what we see..

But some make it a bigger than a Parliament debate abt it.

Parliament debate..😆...

Originally posted by: zoozoo123

Hi
I agree with ur points...bt want 2 ask u 1 thing...wht do u mean by Criticism ??? Its abt saying tht he/she was weak at ths scen...nt tht...he discomfort is becoz of his personal life or fiance...n thn v have some members who say ya its right...Criticism is nt abt questioning the capabilities of an actor n askim hm to quit..


Somebody here said tht in this forum saying bad abt DD is criticism...n the same 4 VD is bashing...WELL I want to say tht...its the othr way round...sAY the the femlae lead was nt gud at this particular scene without bringing her personal life...u will get bashed...4 questioning the prowess of the lead...😆...Bt call the male lead expressionles..or anything its critisim...Its becoz of the same reaon tht many of the gud writers have stopped...coming into this forum...n stopped posting their posts...mainly 4 the reason tht If u have criticised DD the great Goddess of the forum...U r posts will turn into warzone n it will be closed...thr is no scope 4 criticisng of the char of MB/DD...WHTEVR BASHING GOES on is for Vivian...According to some ...in this forum...Whtever good happens with Vivian its becoz OF DD...he performed well..becoz of DD...n blah blah...😆...nt becoz of his hard work..n say something abt DD the same people ..will bash u n tag u as haters...😆


Evrybody have their own fav...bt y the hell questioning or bashing an actor...BY BRINGING THEIR personal life into it...I dnt find DD perfect a bit ...same applies 4 Vivian...I dnt consider DD as the princess..whr I need to drool over her...Neither 4 Vivian..becoz he is nt a prince 4 me...

By criticism I mean their acting..I by no means am concerned by their personal life..

And like I said before..I have seen both sides at fault..one maybe more than others..I dont mean that all fans are the same, but there are few fans of both the leads who cant tolerate a word against their favorites and tend to get personal..and that is what leads to this entire war..

It is tolerance that is lacking from both sides..