Rishbala - Selflessness in shades so bright_ - Page 6

Originally posted by: dreams-reality

wonderful analysis

Originally posted by: ANJALI_SAMARIYA

Superb po$t.

RK's is the selflessness that is harder to recognize as such because it is very much both grounded and ambitious. He considers it his prerogative to provide for that person, a duty rather than a favour, a responsibility rather than a choice.

That person being materially benefited is worth any hurt or harm he himself may suffer, and yet he cannot and will not consider emotional benefit or hurt for himself or that other.

And it is in this trait of his character that may lie the seed of Madhu's enforced rise to stardom.

So long as RK and Madhu are not established in mutual recognition of their love for each other, that trait may not be as unrestrained.

But once that point and phase is established in their relationship, once he is sure that his love is reciprocated, that he has her loyalty...

The man who cannot think of being indebted in any matter without some grudging and bitterness will never consider such absolute love and loyalty as anything less than the greatest of debts.

It would never be enough for him that he reciprocates that love and loyalty in equal measure.

But if he can raise the woman he loves to that height where she would be feted by the world at large, his cherishing and adoration for her reflected in the world's gaze, that would be some measure of thanks in his mind for the happiness their relationship will have brought him.

And for Madhu, who has never had any vanity of self, her priority may be a different sort of tribute in return. Not as her husband may have it for her - where others must adore her because he cannot consider his own love truly enough. But rather, for him, a healing of wounds and a fulfilling of dreams that he won't ask but that already matter greatly to her for his sake and may someday be what matters most.

Two people in whom selflessness has always been nearly obsessive and will be even more so when burnished with love.

Originally posted by: 0-SD-0

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A selflessness that does *not* absent thought of self, but rather preserves that person's wellbeing even at cost to oneself.

RK's is the selflessness that is harder to recognize as such because it is very much both grounded and ambitious. He considers it his prerogative to provide for that person, a duty rather than a favour, a responsibility rather than a choice.

That person being materially benefited is worth any hurt or harm he himself may suffer, and yet he cannot and will not consider emotional benefit or hurt for himself or that other.

And it is in this trait of his character that may lie the seed of Madhu's enforced rise to stardom.

So long as RK and Madhu are not established in mutual recognition of their love for each other, that trait may not be as unrestrained.

But once that point and phase is established in their relationship, once he is sure that his love is reciprocated, that he has her loyalty...

The man who cannot think of being indebted in any matter without some grudging and bitterness will never consider such absolute love and loyalty as anything less than the greatest of debts.

It would never be enough for him that he reciprocates that love and loyalty in equal measure.

But if he can raise the woman he loves to that height where she would be feted by the world at large, his cherishing and adoration for her reflected in the world's gaze, that would be some measure of thanks in his mind for the happiness their relationship will have brought him.

And for Madhu, who has never had any vanity of self, her priority may be a different sort of tribute in return. Not as her husband may have it for her - where others must adore her because he cannot consider his own love truly enough. But rather, for him, a healing of wounds and a fulfilling of dreams that he won't ask but that already matter greatly to her for his sake and may someday be what matters most.

Two people in whom selflessness has always been nearly obsessive and will be even more so when burnished with love.

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Agree

Originally posted by: manesha76

Leela , Waiting for your reply on my comment 😉 .

Originally posted by: leelaa9

Sorry for the delay re. Abhi dhoond ke reply karti hu.😛

Originally posted by: manesha76

Hey no worries aaram se reply do but dena zaroor 😛.

Arre I reply separately without fail to every comment. Lekin promptly reply karo toh most aren't around to see the reply, so I got lazy on this and the previous thread.😕😆 Sorry. Heading for your comment now.😊

Originally posted by: leelaa9

Arre I reply separately without fail to every comment.😛 Lekin promptly reply karo toh most aren't around to see the reply, so I got lazy on this and the previous thread.😕😆 Sorry. Heading for your comment now.😊