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Billu-Maamma

@Billu-Maamma

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Posted: 12 years ago

#41

ok dear..and very nice step to bring peace in forum.👍🏼

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Arnav90

@Arnav90

Stunner

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Posted: 12 years ago

#42

Well thats an amazing solution Shifu, I loved it, I am totally in with this solution of ur's...

I don't mind being boring n enjoy boring forum like my friends, For me they are the most interesting n loving people...

I was Mum from last two weeks but still people are targetting me n my friends so decided to let it out...

1st.

I did'nt asked people to add me in their posts n link me with the chracters on the name of fun, I took the posts as a fun n enjoyed it...

But People need to relise if u are making fun posts on someone and in return the person will make fun post on you, You have to accept it instead of behaving like coward...

2nd.

Nobody is asking you too to like DD or VD both, Nobody is forcing u too like the actor...

Its just we all expect some support, When we people can support u on bashing post then we can expect the same from you...

But What we are getting in return is bashing, Instead of Supporting us n thinking abt our support they prefer bashing over some "Newbie Post" who has nothing to do with the show...

3rd.

People are calling us hypocrites, Cheap immitaters, Fattu n What not...

So let me tell them we are not the one who followed us to JDJ forum n started bashing in between the healthy convo...

4th.

We are not the one who call fans crybabies, lesbian n Crazy fandoms

When people make appriecaition posts then they are boring n there posts are repetative...

But when people make 5-6 explanation posts on expression on same day then the posts are funny, What a joke...

5th.

When you are making 4-5 mocking post on some chracter of Madhu then its fun...

But When i made one fun post on Rk n Bittu toh its bashing...

6th.

When people use vulgar emos in their post n in comment its funny, When people made post on licking hairs n taking off thier saree then its funny...

But when I made post on Rk n Bittu ka dostana without any vulgar emos n words its vulgar why so...

7th.

When people are bashing VD we have to be together n support

but When people are bashing Drashti then we have to support the TM n say its just his/her POV...

Why these double standered...

8th.

When people made apprieciation post on VD then its healthy n love

But when people made same apprieciation post on DD then its called temple...

9th.

When u made fun post then its original

But when other made fun post then its copy why bcoz they use same font, colours n emos...

Ohh Come On nobody make there own font n emos here all copy it from other sites...

10th.

When somebody post article n pics of Vivian we see only Vivian n comment for vivian

But when its comes to Drashti article they see everything except Drashti, What they see KSG, GC, KW n Barun...

When people reply Back they are bashers and when they Ignore they are hyprocrites, Cheap, Fantic n all...

11th.

Somedays before some people were claiming to love the MOD bcoz She was friendly n now When MOD took one healthy desician for sake of peace in the forum She is bad...

I did'nt expected people to bash MOD for no reason

For me this solution of no fun post is amazing

I can write much more but not in mood of digging the past expreience

Shifu u asked me to stay out of this mess n not reply n i did it, Me getting bashed here from last two weeks for no reason still i did'nt gave it back only for my friends...

But as u made this thread so I decided to let out frustation over all this Drama...

When its comes to me i prefer supporting my frineds instead of some "Newbie" coming and bashing...

I apprieciate VD alot as Rk but i don't give a damn what people think n i am not interested in giving proof here...

I know i apprieciate DVD thats enough for me, I don't give a hoot abt Society

Don't Quote my comment, its my POV so better take it as POV

Edited by Arnav90 - 12 years ago

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momi

@-BreakingDown-

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#43

ok boss 👍🏼
ap ka hukam sir aakhoon pe😆

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Sadnya

@sadumaneet

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

#44

Hi Shifu I really don't know weather u had taken right or wrong decision but i surely can see this forum had litarally forced u to take this decision DD and VD fans are equally responsible for this kind of harsh rules. Every othe fun post turns into mocking members, characters and then actors which leads to fights which are never ending at all.

There is no DVD fans exist in this forum and those who are DVD fans they are more or less silent because they are just not at all comforatable for making post in the fear of consequences thats the truth. But want to ask u something do u really think with this rule things are going to change because i really don't think so most of members are unhappy with this rule but i also think they solely responsible for the same don't know were its going to lead.

Hope as u said this forum will be peaceful because of this rule.

At the en of the day DEV team know better all the best.

P. S. I don't have any problem with this rule. Because i came here only for analysis of epi nothing else read only those stuff which i can digest. I tried to fight or arguing but somewere i came to know iam not really good at and more i felt irritated so i went back to my silent mode and iam happy with that now. I have realised that i really made a long post so i better be stop now.

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ShinSegi

@Befikre

Trailblazer

+ 7

Posted: 12 years ago

#45

The biggest problem with this forum is not FUN POSTS or BBB posts🐷

The biggest problem with this forum is that people sleep with the hatred they carry from this forum and bring it back again the other day. They are obsessed with the actors and not characters. Can you do anything about DIVISION? DD fans do not comment on VD fans' posts and vice versa.

I like DVD and Rishbala both. I was behaving in this forum till constant mocking started in this forum.

And why do people carry forward the issues of what happens in other forums here? If someone bashes DD or VD in other forum, then why do their fans have to vent it all out in this forum? The mods of the concerned forum will deal with it.

And I'll be really frank here. Anything said about Madhu, Malik or supporter of Madhu becomes a great deal here whereas the same people call other characters like Dipz po*n star and stuff?😕 And if Malik is boring, he is boring, deal with it. Just because he supports Madhu, doesn't make him interesting. Same goes to Radhaji. Just because she loves RK doesn't make her interesting for me.

People need to stop behaving as though they own DVD🤪

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The Witch

@carisma2

Stunner

+ 8

Posted: 12 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: Arnav90
Well thats an amazing solution Shifu, I loved it, I am totally in with this solution of ur's...
I don't mind being boring n enjoy boring forum like my friends, For me they are the most interesting n loving people...

I was Mum from last two weeks but still people are targetting me n my friends so decided to let it out...

1st.

I did'nt asked people to add me in their posts n link me with the chracters on the name of fun, I took the posts as a fun n enjoyed it...

But People need to relise if u are making fun posts on someone and in return the person will make fun post on you, You have to accept it instead of behaving like coward...

2nd.

Nobody is asking you too to like DD or VD both, Nobody is forcing u too like the actor...

Its just we all expect some support, When we people can support u on bashing post then we can expect the same from you...

But What we are getting in return is bashing, Instead of Supporting ur n thinking abt our support they prefer bashing over some "Newbie Post" who has nothing to do with the show...

3rd.

People are calling us hypocrites, Cheap immitaters, Fattu n What not...

So let me tell them we are not the one who followed us to JDJ forum n started bashing in between the healthy convo...

4th.

We are not the one who call fans crybabies, lesbian n Crazy fandoms

When people make appriecaition posts then they are boring n there posts are repetative...

But when people make 5-6 explanation posts on expression on same day then the posts are funny, What a joke...

5th.

When you are making 4-5 mocking post on some chracter of Madhu then its fun...

But When i made one fun post on Rk n Bittu toh its bashing...

6th.

When people use vulgar emos in their post n in comment its funny, When people made post on licking hairs n taking off thier saree then its funny...

But when I made post on Rk n Bittu ka dostana without any vulgar emos n words its vulgar why so...

7th.

When people are bashing VD we have to be together n support

but Whnen people are bashing Drashti then we have to support the TM n say its just her POV...

Why these double standered...

8th.

When people made apprieciation post on VD then its healthy n love

But when people made same apprieciation post on DD then its called temple...

9th.

When u made fun post then its original

But when other made fun post then its copy why bcoz they use same font, colours n emos...

Ohh Come On nobody make there own font n emos here all copy it from other sites...

10th.

When somebody post article n pics of Vivian we see only Vivian n comment for vivian

But when its comes to Drashti article they see verything except Drashti, What they see KSG, GC, KW n Barun...

When people reply Back they are bashers and when they Ignore they are hyprocrites, Cheap, Fantic n all...

11th.

Somedays before some people were claiming to love the MOD bcoz She was friendly n now When MOD took one healthy desician for sake of peace in the forum She is bad...

I did'nt expected people to bash MOD for no reason

For me this solution of no fun post is amazing

I can write much more but not in mood of digging the past expreience

Shifu u asked me to stay out of this mess n not reply n i did it, Me getting bashed here from last two weeks for no reason still i did'nt gave it back only for my friends...

But as u made this thread so I decided to let out frustation over all this Drama...

When its comes to me i prefer supporting my frineds instead of some "Newbie" coming and bashing...

I apprieciate VD alot as Rk but i don't give a damn what people think n i am not interested in giving proof here...

I know i apprieciate DVD thats enough for me, I don't give a hoot abt Society

Don't Quote my comment, its my POV so better take it as POV

I read your disclaimer... which you have cleverly added. You are not giving a POV - You are throwing keechar. I will quote and comment... BECAUSE - ITNE MASOOM NA BANIYE MIYAN.

Posts which linked you to other characters. You seemed to enjoy. You also made a post on Kutte gang - and all of us loved it! Infact I pm'd you and we became friends. I also included you in my competition OS. We took you as our friend - it didn't matter whether you were a VD or a DD fan. We give importance to people not their choices.

JDJ - D/Princess is one of our mates. What makes you think we followed you there. We went to read the comments on RD. Met D/princess - and we liked her comment on DD's expressions. So we joined in for a while. BUT Here you attacked us... VD had nothing to do with the convo BUT You bashed VD. So ur true colour was out. Say something abt VD in the right place - if you think he over acts fine. BUT You played tit for tat.. Although we said something abt DD's expressions - YOU TOOK IT PERSONAL.. You broke the friendship. Me and my forum besties - we don't be friends bec we like the same ppl - infact we like diff people.. but here you guys choose friends on the basis of similar likes. Your choice.. this choice will get you far in life.. 👍🏼 It's a shame bec I honestly treated you as a friend/bro.

Your post, Cheap immitater. Your style is immitating in the RK - Bittu post. Cheap - why? Okay, In the past reluctantly I also made a post on Abhay Jeh. It's fine till it's in the limit - BUT you broke IF rules - it was sexually explicit! DD fans had no problem with it - they were infact LURVING it! Inspiration milgaya uney. If my gang member made that post - I would have said it on the thread itself.. edit thy post...AND they would have edited it. INFACT they don't write such things in the first place. I didn't want people to take the MITTU romance and write something vulgar - hence I said do not copy. ACCHA! Emo's wasn't an issue - font's were not an issue... I infact in my arts thread have given links to websites where you can get emos.. so Y would I stop u from using it.

You guys do not comment in Vivian related posts. There is a clear division...

We don't mention on Drashti - Bec ab tho us ka naam bhi lene se darr lagtha hai here.

I so wanted to say that she looked cute in an epi this week - BUT then people come and ask "Are u taking the piss?" So we don't mention DD's name. Because ulte log - ulta sochenge!

When IPKKND attacks. I have said that we will stick up for both characters bec they stick up for both their characters. If you read my comments in JDJ - U wud have seen I said to D/Princess too .. stop mocking our show heroine now... reputation ka sawaal hai.

Shifu ko kisi ne bad nahin bola. I don't think she has made the right decision. Because what's to state when ppl write serious posts - they will not give the same POV - In a more serious mode?

The End!

Edited by carisma2 - 12 years ago

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Hahaha! As if I'm going to tell you that!

@rahmona_pakswe

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#47

Shifali, I'm sad it had to go this far to make peace on forum but you tried everything else and didn't work. Sometimes harsh decision can be the only solution.

May we get the peace we want in forum. Hopefully more people will start participating in different topis, especially those who are in silent mood because of negetive atmosphere in our fourum.

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RaDMG25

@RaDMG25

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#48

interesting rule but personally i think it may actually make things worse than better as it will now allow more to get involved and decide what is a fun post and what isnt...

not sure how you would even measure this????

Frankly if member have issues with a post or comment they need to resolve them between themselves and not involve whole the forum simple! Dont use forum as the war zone and tit for tat posts are simply not necssary...people should be able to carry on making fun post obviously there is a limit...ignore if you dont like and then all will be happy...people are entitled to their opinions but how they are perceived may be the problem which cannot be helped unfortunately...it all becoming abit of a joke now!!!

Its only an IF forum but i feel like its a playground 😕

Shifu dear you defo need more help as this is a pretty big forum but think to ban fun post may be pushing it a little...

If i was you i would just start it all a fresh...

Sorry for the ramble 😊

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ShinSegi

@Befikre

Trailblazer

+ 7

Posted: 12 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: PurpleHorizon
Very interestibg rule. I am in for no fun posts on members or actors but just 3 questions.

1. Is this forum only for serious discussions about the show or char? Fun posts on char is a way of people to express their views on chars in a humourous way. So now they have no freedom to state their POV??

2. Is this forum a chat forum or a kitty party forum where you are free to discuss what you eat, shop, dress, what exams you have but not the show?? Coz seriously thats what happens in most of the threads but still no rule against it but yes a rule agaisnt discussing characters in a funny way.

3. Do members have a freedom to state their opinion and not be targetted? Can people learn here to differentiate between opinion and bashing? Just saying that they do not like KSG does not mean bashing and not all have to like him coz DD is his freind. Its a POV and members are forced to change that or else will be targetted or called as bashers. Why??Only coz its not funny and the only thing thats not allowed in the forum is FUN.

P.S. - How ironical some of the comments here...who just a few days back were mocking a and bashing a member in dedicated posts now stand up and say we are so innocent and sensible and we are against this.

@Red - Bingo👏

Just because KSG is DD's friend, he becomes an idol and a person to worship. And just because Debina doesn't talk about DD, she becomes Behenji, Mataji and aunty?🤪

We can say the same for VD. Whenever any Vivah article used to be posted, people used to start on Vahb with no fault of hers. At that time no one saw that VD loves her just like DD loves her friends.

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The Witch

@carisma2

Stunner

+ 8

Posted: 12 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: RaDMG25
interesting rule but personally i think it may actually make things worse than better as it will now allow more to get involved and decide what is a fun post and what isnt...

not sure how you would even measure this????

Frankly if member have issues with a post or comment they need to resolve them between themselves and not involve whole the forum simple! Dont use forum as the war zone and tit for tat posts are simply not necssary...people should be able to carry on making fun post obviously there is a limit...ignore if you dont like and then all will be happy...people are entitled to their opinions but how they are perceived may be the problem which cannot be helped unfortunately...it all becoming abit of a joke now!!!

Its only an IF forum but i feel like its a playground 😕

Shifu dear you defo need more help as this is a pretty big forum but think to ban fun post may be pushing it a little...

If i was you i would just start it all a fresh...

Sorry for the ramble 😊

True there is no way to measure it...

When ppl write it in a serious mode - then mirchi zyaada lage gi... it makes no difference.