Fantastic post! In fact the most needed one in this forum. Finally, i hope people take this into consideration, and no bashing will occur in the name of fun. To state one is having a gala time when in fatc one is bashing another member or set of members, is something i find highly disturbing. But i will not indulge too much in that matter, because recent events have caused me to lose my cool once or twice.
Also, others do not have to love DVD or adore them for that matter, if they dont want too, but one must also learn to respect each others' spaces, that way, one dnt have to shower praises on one to bash the other. (What i mean here is, if i decide i no longer like VD as RK, then i will not bother making post nor watch his scenes, so i would expect the same from others who claim they dislike DD, and so forth.) Of course am not blaming anyone here, but am showing an example. It is true i didnt like VD before, but that was because i didnt know anything about him, and now its also true i enjoy the show because of Rishbala both.
In this whole mess of fighting, if tommorow the show was to end, will we be happy? knowing full well, we might not get to see our favourites back onscreen anytime soon?- We do not have to love them as people, but surely enjoying their work and hoping and wishing for their success, is something a true fan will do?
Appologies for hurting anyone with my comment, (sincerely not my intention) But i am glad this BBB post will stop, because (yesh am boring) i didnt find anything fun in them, other than indirect bashing,(this is a reference to every single BBB post i have seen in this forum, its not a direct blame to anyone) We have an old saying, if u can dish it out, you ought to be able to take it back too, which unfortunately seems like an impossible thing in this forum; hence this new rule is fantastic.Peace out!
Edited by _innocent_ - 12 years ago