The stereotypic conceptions of liking a bad boy. - Page 8

Originally posted by: Coeur2PsychoFMS

Grey shaded people exist... I have met once a boy he was in my class... a lonely boy, cold (more than Abhay)... I always had good relation with the principal and he knew that I was a total mad and he asked me to talk with him... So I did but he was so scary 🤣 And slowly I learnt to know him... and we became friends... he lost his parents and was living with his aunty who was a total Mrs. Hitler 😕 So he and his brother were tortured by her... the only happiness in his life was his 10 years old brother... he wanted to runaway with his brother and as in France you have to go to school till your 16 he was waiting for that... I so tried to make him understand that he has to study fo his brother but he refused... I didn't know why but later I understood... 2 months later he attacked one of my best friend with his gang... I was so shocked... the guy who was so dark with a soft heart actually is from a gang... and he wanted to kill my friend with his knife... and we all just begged... he looked at me and ran away... since I don't know where he is and what he is doing... Life is cruel sometimes, he deserved a better life. 😊

Originally posted by: PinkChocolate

Wow!

Is it that hard to understand really? Its not about women falling for the bad boys or the good boys. Its about a woman falling for a man who has a spine, a spirit and is her friend, philosopher and guide rolled into one package.

Abhay was never a BAD boy. He was a pure innocent soul who pretended to be bad because he was afraid of getting hurt and causing hurt. There was not a single bad habit in him that a bad boy like Angad Khanna, Pratham Mittal, Gautam Virani, Karan Virani, Prem Prerna Sharma or more lately the super gorgeous UV of DEK had. So, i do not understand bringing in Abhay at all.

All the so called bad boys that stories show you are not typically bad ( UV is an exception because he could be the first rate badass if he wanted to be ) . All the men mentioned above were actually misguided lost souls who found pleasure and life in things and wildsides because nobody had nurtured them when they needed to be . Why do you think all the good heroines fell for them? Its because they saw the lost little boy in them who just needed a hug and assurance that its ok to be weak and vulnerable and there is no shame in exposing your heart.

And NO! Women go for the good guys as well. Stefan Salvatore in TVD is the quintessential good brother while Damon is the hottie badass . Yet, even Damon can lay down his life for Stefan. Because the Stefan kind of good is strong , powerful, protective and has variations. He stands up for you, fights for you and turns fierce if anyone is to even touch Damon or Elena. Yash Scindia of Punar Vivah is another good guy but his goodness is teamed with strength, honour and courage and that is what makes Aarti fall head over heels in love with him. Viraat and Viren of EHMMBH are essentially good men with no mean streak and yet girls love the boys because they are righteous, brave and sensitive.

Its not about good guys and bad guys. Its about women finding that one streak in her man that wins her forever. Mukund is good but he is cardboard good . The character, good or bad has to have a spunk, some life , something unique. For me Abhay and Stefan are best examples of GOOD MEN who just win you over.

As for RK. Well, we have only scratched the surface.

Originally posted by: PinkChocolate

Wow!

Is it that hard to understand really? Its not about women falling for the bad boys or the good boys. Its about a woman falling for a man who has a spine, a spirit and is her friend, philosopher and guide rolled into one package.

Abhay was never a BAD boy. He was a pure innocent soul who pretended to be bad because he was afraid of getting hurt and causing hurt. There was not a single bad habit in him that a bad boy like Angad Khanna, Pratham Mittal, Gautam Virani, Karan Virani, Prem Prerna Sharma or more lately the super gorgeous UV of DEK had. So, i do not understand bringing in Abhay at all.

All the so called bad boys that stories show you are not typically bad ( UV is an exception because he could be the first rate badass if he wanted to be ) . All the men mentioned above were actually misguided lost souls who found pleasure and life in things and wildsides because nobody had nurtured them when they needed to be . Why do you think all the good heroines fell for them? Its because they saw the lost little boy in them who just needed a hug and assurance that its ok to be weak and vulnerable and there is no shame in exposing your heart.

And NO! Women go for the good guys as well. Stefan Salvatore in TVD is the quintessential good brother while Damon is the hottie badass . Yet, even Damon can lay down his life for Stefan. Because the Stefan kind of good is strong , powerful, protective and has variations. He stands up for you, fights for you and turns fierce if anyone is to even touch Damon or Elena. Yash Scindia of Punar Vivah is another good guy but his goodness is teamed with strength, honour and courage and that is what makes Aarti fall head over heels in love with him. Viraat and Viren of EHMMBH are essentially good men with no mean streak and yet girls love the boys because they are righteous, brave and sensitive.

Its not about good guys and bad guys. Its about women finding that one streak in her man that wins her forever. Mukund is good but he is cardboard good . The character, good or bad has to have a spunk, some life , something unique. For me Abhay and Stefan are best examples of GOOD MEN who just win you over.

As for RK. Well, we have only scratched the surface.

hear Hear, Poco! Completely agree with you, especially on the Stefan thing👏

Originally posted by: mymagic13

@hatzz tu office me koi kaam nahi karti kya,, i see u in the forum more on office hours,,
or u boss must love u that he never says anything to ya!!
i visit my office once in a while n my fiancee being my boss is damn strict with me in those few hours,,