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Posted: 13 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: ISADORA

Hey Maddy...that is a great analysis...perfect shot...

These people are atrocious for every one the fortitude they hold is not reached by anyone at any ease..They are reckless,possessive,hard nut to be broken..yes they don't care for anyone..until someone captures their intrest ..when they become a target,when they think only about them..they would not let anyone to come near them...because they hold all rights on them...RK is one such fella..his beauty lies in his predatorness..in his avariciousness...his obsession...his passion..at last his reason for living...his reason to kill..his reason to protect...his reason to be all for her till his end...
Mukund i cannot describe this character..self-deprecation,he mostly borrowed confidence in what ever he tries to find...He can only blame someone or himself for his failure.he is not the one to go out and get it ..When Madhu was fighting for him with a stupid nod he did not even try supporting her...I hate such loosers in real life too..

Hatsy. 😆 exactly. 👏 rk jo bhi ho..at least ussey logo ko defend karna aur back up karne ki guts hai. 👏 Mukund toh khud ko bhi nahi support nahi kar sakt , ladkiyon ki kya respect karega? 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: cuteshrishti

LOL I already made post on y I adore RK & why I hate muku & I still need 2 reply there lol.Will do tht later though:P

Coming 2 ur post I so agree wid u muku is spineless man & thts y I hate him.I hate man who cant stand 4 himself or 4 his loved once where as RK might b arrogant & all but he is man of attitude & courage & I adore man who actually behave lke one😳.Loved ur post


exactly , srish. apno yaa jissey pyaar karta hai , unke liye khaada nahi ho sakta..toh ussey accha saathi kaise kehe sakte hai? RK might have a lot of fights or say arrogant insults in sarcasm to MB lekin outside world se madhu ko ek acch bhi nahi aaney dega...issey kehete hai accha saathi..tumse ladta zaroor hai lekin tumhaare liye bhi mar te daam tak ladegaa. 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: cuteshrishti

Ok chalo let me tell u one incident of mine 2 show how ppl pre assume things.Usually whn ppl c me they think I m arrogant & full of attituitude(LOL theek hai thoda hai but still)

My present best buddy whn shifted 2 our city frm delhi talked wid all but not me.Thn 7 days later v had an assignment together.She sat wid me & v talked & within a month v became gud frnds & now she is my bst frnd.She told me 'Nani I always used 2 think u r arrogant gal & will never do frndship wid me but I was wrong'.Now she is in banglore & stilll v r in contact.LOL may b thts the reason I usually love dark & attitude wale ppl coz I can relate wid thm.I often love 2 stay alone & whn my buddies call me 2 go 4 party I refuse & ppl usually misunderstand me.Forum mai ho ya outer world mai:P😆
But now I m in habit of all lashing & bashing but yep I cant stay quiet if ppl bash me unnecessary.Phir mai baja dalti hoon:P😆
The case wid Abhay was ppl around him failed 2 c his gud heart & always used 2 bash him & ab RK ko bhi log yahi kar rhe hai

just so you know i never found you arrogant 😆 i think you're fun and emotional but strong and intelligent...i dont know why i like dark characters..actually i do know but rather not talk about that. 😆 but ya i get you.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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My gawwwddd dear, u seem 2 repeat the exact words I said while discussing about the same topic a few days ago with my mum!!!

I have seen the so-called 'good boys' of tellywood mistrusting their gf's/wives, throwing them out of their house, gettin seduced by sum random chick etc...

N in contrary I've these so-called 'bad boys' fighting 4 their gf/wife, going to any extent, loving, caring them with all their heart as well.

They say 'Art imitates life'- true.

I have come across both these type of men in my own life!

One being the sugary-sweet, chivalrous, decency personified along with being a complete spineless and the other being an aggressive, brash, totally indecent n mean guy.

And being with both these guys have taught me a lot... 1. 'Good boys' can b good marriage material but can never b good enough to stand up 4 u when needed, 2. the 'bad boys' might take u 4 granted if u're good 2 them, but if given a push on that fact they might just end up claiming u in public!!! 3. no 1s completely 'good' or 'bad', human beings r made of both the qualities...just that sometimes one surpasses the other n 4. no matter what u can always trust these 'bad boys' with just abt anything n everything which is not the case with the 'good 1s' 😊


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shelly_08

My gawwwddd dear, u seem 2 repeat the exact words I said while discussing about the same topic a few days ago with my mum!!!


I have seen the so-called 'good boys' of tellywood mistrusting their gf's/wives, throwing them out of their house, gettin seduced by sum random chick etc...

N in contrary I've these so-called 'bad boys' fighting 4 their gf/wife, going to any extent, loving, caring them with all their heart as well.

They say 'Art imitates life'- true.

I have come across both these type of men in my own life!

One being the sugary-sweet, chivalrous, decency personified along with being a complete spineless and the other being an aggressive, brash, totally indecent n mean guy.

And being with both these guys have taught me a lot... 1. 'Good boys' can b good marriage material but can never b good enough to stand up 4 u when needed, 2. the 'bad boys' might take u 4 granted if u're good 2 them, but if given a push on that fact they might just end up claiming u in public!!! 3. no 1s completely 'good' or 'bad', human beings r made of both the qualities...just that sometimes one surpasses the other n 4. no matter what u can always trust these 'bad boys' with just abt anything n everything which is not the case with the 'good 1s' 😊



hahahahahaha 😆 aww.😆 well my mom never needed to discuss this with me cause she has ans is married with a bad boy for 25 years..so end of discussion right there 🤣 these so called good guys later on can never be really there for you..the bad guys? just touch them a little bit on the inside and they will believe to not only have a right to you but have a right to save you from the whole world till the end.😳 no matter how brash or mean they are to you. 😆i see it everyday so i know. 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: austenrox


hahahahahaha 😆 aww.😆 well my mom never needed to discuss this with me cause she has ans is married with a bad boy for 25 years..so end of discussion right there 🤣 these so called good guys later on can never be really there for you..the bad guys? just touch them a little bit on the inside and they will believe to not only have a right to you but have a right to save you from the whole world till the end.😳 no matter how brash or mean they are to you. 😆i see it everyday so i know. 😆


I have seen it as well, off lately through a 'no strings attached' relation 😆...n I like it that way 😳

Well he can b really mean at times, but funnily when I return the meanness, he's all meow-meow 🤣

Ohh gr8 that ur mum's married 2 a bad boy n that too 4 25 years😲...lucky she 😍

I read an article in times life where 80-90 % women married 2 sum bad boy divorced their hubbies thanx 2 their obsessive nature.

Well every coin has 2 sides- even the GB's n BB's can have exceptions, but it also depends on u as to how u handle them. They can just b sooo kiddish at times😛

I'll say the BB's come with a 'handle with attitude n care' tag 4 sure 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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OMG what an answer 👏 Serously liking RK doesn't mean liking him because he is VD or HOT 🥱 Even I thought I will only like RK but now I am super duper liking him 😍 My character dheela kya BBB karta hai 😍 And kya dheelaness hai isme 🤣 👏 And even bad boys are sometimes ugly... only in movies and shows they are hooot and handsome but in real life bad boys are not ALWAYS hot 🥱 Bad boys when they fall in love they are just 😍 My dad was a bad boy but when he fell in love with my mom he even started writing love letters 😲 A bad boy can you imagine that 😲 🤣 Today they love each other so much but when they fight my dad dho leta hai mom ko badly 🤣 And he can protect my mom from everyone so I agree bad boys are often like this. 😉

Poko is so right liking something beautiful is so easy but not easy to know what is exactly inside 😆 And that's what is interesting... I love mysterious boys 😍
BTW she is liking RK, soon she will again start liking VD 😛 🤣 Farah run before Poko Chudail comes and attacks you 🤣
And I agree Poko is a VIP 😎 Invitation deni padhti hai nahin toh uninvited people ki tarah comment nahin karti... very polite 🤣 Farah bhaag before Chudail comes 🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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koyel.. how much ever one may defend this but the thing you stated is purely a facade by everyone. And trust me it's not the just the i-f addict school going girls misconception, the CVs of the show should be blamed for this..

And why is Abhay brought everywhere? i have seen his character elaboration everywhere here. is this really Madhubala forum? Abhay's character as perceived by his fans may not be perceived in the same way for others. And seriously even i didnt get the stupidity in that show and even more stupid characters starting from piya, abhay, jeh, panchi and even misha.. So yes, it's merely waste of time and words defending him in this forum.

And if you talk about udayveer, hey akash was never like mukund. Infact he was brave enough initially.. still the forum was UV fanbase. why? ofcourse the answer is abhishek rawat is not as hot as ashish kapoor.

here i'm not impressed with mukund. but i dont hate him as well because in real life all are mukunds not RKs. You'll find Ballus in other case but one should just come out from the lala land that there will be any udayveers or RKs in real life.. coz babes there will be only mukunds..

And in all these shows good guys are not matcheable in looks with their anti-hero counterparts. if you look at show like saubhagyavathi bhava, karanvir bohra had a very huge following inspite of being the most villianous character. Infact there are still some hopeless people who hope that he'll change. But as soon as cvs brought harshad chopra all the heads turned to him. Why? simple harshad is a good guy but is as hot as karanvir. Just imagine, if harshad's role raghav is given to abhishek rawat do you think anyone would have supported him? No. The same role of raghav, but abhishek is doing it not harshad. Still a no. Because abhishek doesnt have that factor that would create a hotmess..

So yes, i disagree with you.And honestly i want someone to prove me wrong. I have read few posts on this same topic including one written by poco in DEK forum.. But i didnt feel convincing.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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when somebody asks my dad about what kind of guy they should get their daughters married to he always says known devil is better than unknown god,,
i believe parents want a good guy for their daughter but they will also want a guy who can protect their daughter and stand up for themselves as well as their wife,,,
mukund is so spineless that he ll never go against his parents so even if he as hottest luking guy he would be a big NO for most of us,,its just that he self pity's himself too much,, thinks low of himself,, so he is turn off,,
RK is a confident guy n with loads of attitude so he becomes a fav by default there though he carries negative traits,, his good luks r cherry on top!!
i dont think its the good looks that most of us look out for,,
i know my comparison is really weird but when i read this topic i remembered my daddy's words,,

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Tich...



here i'm not impressed with mukund. but i dont hate him as well because in real life all are mukunds not RKs. You'll find Ballus in other case but one should just come out from the lala land that there will be any udayveers or RKs in real life.. coz babes there will be only mukunds..

And in all these shows good guys are not matcheable in looks with their anti-hero counterparts. if you look at show like saubhagyavathi bhava, karanvir bohra had a very huge following inspite of being the most villianous character. Infact there are still some hopeless people who hope that he'll change. But as soon as cvs brought harshad chopra all the heads turned to him. Why? simple harshad is a good guy but is as hot as karanvir. Just imagine, if harshad's role raghav is given to abhishek rawat do you think anyone would have supported him? No. The same role of raghav, but abhishek is doing it not harshad. Still a no. Because abhishek doesnt have that factor that would create a hotmess..

So yes, i disagree with you.And honestly i want someone to prove me wrong. I have read few posts on this same topic including one written by poco in DEK forum.. But i didnt feel convincing.

@Red - You mean to say all the men in the world cannot stand up for what they think,believe or love? Oops sry to burst your bubble...but their are many men who can stand up and have a spine.

@Blue - You said its MB forum and so we should not talk about Abhay or anyone else. So then why bring in UV,Akash, KVB or anyone else you mentioned.

And few simple questions.Why does a good looking person have to have a character certificate to prove his goodness? Why you think that if you don't see the goodness other people also cannot see beyond looks and understand a char better and love what he is? Why cannot a person like a bad guy if he entertains...afterall its fiction which by default is meant for entertainment...its not like they say they like a bad guy in real too.

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