Love...the closest relation, but Friends? - Page 2

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Originally posted by: Taify

U stole my topic..

I was planning to discuss it.. Glad u did. Great minds think alike 😆 😉 😳

Well,
I agree. You can not be best friends with your beloved and there are reasons for it. The person you care is special. Yes, you trust her but you cannot afford hurting her so before talking to her you have to think a zillion times. There are certain things you will say to your friend but not yourlover because your scared as it might hurt her feelings.
And you have friends bcz u disucuss ur GF's with them 😆 😆 You want to do something abt ur GF ofcourse you will not ask her but ur friend...

Hope i made my point clear.... eeeeh!!

im a bad writer 😆

😆 i get ur point

Well atleast my bf is my best friend.. When i tell him about a problem im having with a friend or if im just worrying about my friend, he understands.. Yes there is a certain friend of mine who he doesnt like me with, bec i used 2 have a crush on dat guy pehle and dat guy has been mean 2 me in past, however he does try 2 understand dat dat guy is one of my really good friends now, even through he doesnt like id much..

I personally do try 2 be like a best friend to my love.. I can tolerate him talking abt other girls who are his good frnds but yes 2 a certain limit ofcourse..

Its not lack of trust, its not insecurity, its possesiviness i believe. You want ur love only to be with u.

Originally posted by: cool_pooja

Well atleast my bf is my best friend.. When i tell him about a problem im having with a friend or if im just worrying about my friend, he understands.. Yes there is a certain friend of mine who he doesnt like me with, bec i used 2 have a crush on dat guy pehle and dat guy has been mean 2 me in past, however he does try 2 understand dat dat guy is one of my really good friends now, even through he doesnt like id much..

I personally do try 2 be like a best friend to my love.. I can tolerate him talking abt other girls who are his good frnds but yes 2 a certain limit ofcourse..

Its not lack of trust, its not insecurity, its possesiviness i believe. You want ur love only to be with u.

Its not abt wha he thinks...r u like able to tell each and everything to ur love...i mean...lets say...

okay this is a stupid example but sometimes u just cnt help it

u r out with ur love or talkin to him....but there is this friend of urs....it doesn't have to be a guy or a girl just a friend...and u r missing him/her like anything....wud tell ur love dat...i mean dude u r with them...and it shud be the most good time for u...but still u r thinking abt ur friend for sum reason or the other or ur mood is spoiled cuz of that....wud u tell dat to ur love...knowing he wud be like...u r with him...still ur mood isn't good...being the most imp person in ur life...he cnt make it better...i wud atleast perfer to be all in a good mood....than just blurrying it all on her....

Do i make sense...😕 sometimes i dnt make sense to ma ownself so just asking u ppl 😆

Originally posted by: Adildagr8

Its not abt wha he thinks...r u like able to tell each and everything to ur love...i mean...lets say...

I always do tell him everything whatever is on my mind..😳 Bec i really cant hide things from him..

okay this is a stupid example but sometimes u just cnt help it

u r out with ur love or talkin to him....but there is this friend of urs....it doesn't have to be a guy or a girl just a friend...and u r missing him/her like anything....wud tell ur love dat...

I would.. I would always tell him whats going on in my mind.. Waise i just get 2 meet him like once in two months, so wen im wid him, trust me i only have eyes for him..😳

i mean dude u r with them...and it shud be the most good time for u...but still u r thinking abt ur friend for sum reason or the other or ur mood is spoiled cuz of that....wud u tell dat to ur love...knowing he wud be like...u r with him...still ur mood isn't good...being the most imp person in ur life...he cnt make it better...i wud atleast perfer to be all in a good mood....than just blurrying it all on her....

I would sincerly tell and i know he will cheer me! 😃 Bec he is first my best frnd, and den my bf!😳

Do i make sense...😕 sometimes i dnt make sense to ma ownself so just asking u ppl 😆

Originally posted by: cool_pooja

Well then the case is different...u had him as ur best friend b4...and now as bf....i was asking...just love hota toh...i mean dosti pyar mein change hoo toh dost dost hi rehta hai u know 😛

Originally posted by: cool_pooja

@Adi: Not nesscarily.. Many times wen frndship changes into love people do tend to get more involved in love, but i do hope dat never happens in my case..😃

Well Pooja the essence of friendship always remains there...😊

Originally posted by: coolkitty_23

I should have done a reality show on my life..sab love friendship ka drama usme add ho gaya hota..*sigh* real life exp speaks Fari...love can never be your best friend, best friend better not become your love. neither works out great!
Friendship life mein apne jagah hona chahiye, love alag hona chahiye...you should not try to make your love your best friend, as someone mentioned before, there are things you are better off telling your friend than the person you love..and sometimes the other way round...The thing is, we humans constantly crave attention..when you tell your love tht you are missing your friend, he/she is bound to think, that their presence in life is not fulfilling enough for you, there is something in your life that they havent been able to fulfill bcoz of which you are missing your friend..they will not think that he/she is your friend and you miss the friendship, they will immedieately think of the person and their importance in your life...so its better off not to mingle the two...its not a matter of trust or insecurity, thats human nature ...its human to feel that we can staisfy our loves all needs..its only human to feel tht..so tht necessarily doesnt mean they dont trust you or that they are insecure about the relationship...no one in love, likes to be told that there is someone other than them, who is important in your life..no body would like to hear that...thats the reason why sometimes telling a loved one about your thoughts of friend, usually is not the best thing to do...also falling in love with a best friend is definitely not the smart thing to do...been there done that..if things go bad..you not only end up loosing the person you love, the friendship goes for a toss as well..how much ever we say we cannot remain the same good friends, with our best friend, if you are involved with them romantically and later break off...
Thats my 2 cent..or more so 10 cents 😆

Yeh sab mujhe kehna tha u stole ma thoughts 😆