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Posted: 10 years ago

to be dumped? I am not being mean, I am just curious

I am not saying I am perfect, I have my issues.. When I am in a relationship.. I push a person away badly for some psychotic reason ( albeit I haven't been in any relationship cuz I am a virgin .. that's the vibes you are feeling.. ) I don't even have to be in a physical relationship .. I just need to push everyone away .. ( note: to the real leeching psychotic biatch of IF I didn't push you away because I wanted you to pull in closer. I packed your bags and wrapped a 1 ton weight to your bags and tied you to it and shoved you into the water ..never to surface, so you loco choo cho train this one is not for you) anyway... so where was I? oh yeah I am not perfect.. ; )

I want to know how come if you are about to be dumped? You can't pick up on the vibes, and counter-dump the person first?

Why can't people pick up vibes that the other person isn't happy? Do you think because you can stand the rot in the relationship that the other person is obliged to stick around too?

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Posted: 10 years ago

It really is something not right about you!! That is why the person needed to leave you!!! because if there wasn't anything wrong with you, firstly the person wouldn't leave? And SECONDLY you would've been SMART enough to do that counter-dump ..and dump them first? So lovers... It is YOU and not THEM. and love is blind.. but love isn't stupid, dumb and naive too... or is it?

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The Witch

@carisma2

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Posted: 10 years ago

Hmmm intetesting. Let's see.

Sometimes a person picks up the vibe that the other person is indifferent but they try to hold on. But some relationships and friendships are reconcilable.

Best thing is when u see this happening one shud move away. I agree when u see this happening best thing is to follow ur instincts and push away first.

same rule in relationships and friendship shud apply.

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Anna

@Anne.Frank

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Posted: 10 years ago

I have never been dumped...but I have friends who have gone through this..
Sometimes things just don't work out in a relationship...and rather than holding on to it till the end...its better to let go before..Girls understand this better..so guys get dumped more..

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@DianaPrince

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Posted: 10 years ago

from my surroundings

tears...pain...self mutilation 😳

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: LadyDabangg
from my surroundings

tears...pain...self mutilation 😳

I've looked at this for a while.. all I can come up with is: " Are you feeling better now? " 😆 ... 😕

then you grew a moustache and joined my team? ..

@cari .. I agree man same rules for relationships and friendships.. Actually I hold friendships to a higher standard. I don't think I have fully trusted in a relationship so any ups and downs are brushed off but when it comes to friends a fook up and then I boot them out the door.. the feeling is that I have given all I could, and it wasn't good enough so lets quit wasting each others time. And how does virgo deal with it?

@anne.. I think girls bored? maybe they are just more inclined to be promiscuous but somehow boys landed the label because lets face it ..

most of the population of the world lives in india..

therefore the majority of the men live in india..

therefore an indian male is the face of the human male..

but more so the internal dynamics of the human male is the indian male

and the indian male is like how you said parasitic ... and not very dynamic

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@carisma2

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: D3viL

I've looked at this for a while.. all I can come up with is: " Are you feeling better now? " 😆 ... 😕

then you grew a moustache and joined my team? ..

@cari .. I agree man same rules for relationships and friendships.. Actually I hold friendships to a higher standard. I don't think I have fully trusted in a relationship so any ups and downs are brushed off but when it comes to friends a fook up and then I boot them out the door.. the feeling is that I have given all I could, and it wasn't good enough so lets quit wasting each others time. And how does virgo deal with it?

@anne.. I think girls bored? maybe they are just more inclined to be promiscuous but somehow boys landed the label because lets face it ..
most of the population of the world lives in india..
therefore the majority of the men live in india..
therefore an indian male is the face of the human male..
but more so the internal dynamics of the human male is the indian male
and the indian male is like how you said parasitic ... and not very dynamic

Devil - Virgo, are private ppl - and most of the time they try and not concentrate on their own probs and try and help others or make other people's day better. They can invest so much into some people and can be very unconditional, if they believe the person is good and won't let them down. They don't expect them to be like them - but have qualities that a Virgo will take their hats off to. Hence they do get not trust people just like that and once they do and u they believe in you - u have a friend for life.

They will invest a lot in people if the person is worthy. One sentence that defined me that Farah said in her - Ask FM. If you are good to Cari - she wil bring you the stars and moon and if you are bad to her then she will be a witch. I couldn't agree more. However despite me doing something for someone - more than they did to me... if I treated them as a special friend - or they have been on my side during a difficult time.. I may walk away from them given any situation when I have to - BUT I won't forget any lil thing they did for me and be ungrateful. I am big on loyalty.

Even if I was in a argument with them - I will just remain level and balanced. They may loose their standards - but I maintain a standard in friendship.

Unless if they really tick me off and break my breaking point 😆 Then ya - I won't be vengeful - but I will tell them some home truths abt them.. and after which they will find it hard to look in the mirror again.

I don't believe in going to war with friends - unless they become an enemy.

I will loose a argument to a friend - even though I know i could seriously put them in their place.. with evidence.

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Posted: 10 years ago

Wouldn't know.😆 I'm always the dumper, never the dumpee. Sometimes, I get bored, sometimes I pick up the vibes you were talking about and dump the guy before he even gets a chance to do it. Self-preservation works wonders, I tell ya.😆

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Anna

@Anne.Frank

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: D3viL

I've looked at this for a while.. all I can come up with is: " Are you feeling better now? " 😆 ... 😕

then you grew a moustache and joined my team? ..

@cari .. I agree man same rules for relationships and friendships.. Actually I hold friendships to a higher standard. I don't think I have fully trusted in a relationship so any ups and downs are brushed off but when it comes to friends a fook up and then I boot them out the door.. the feeling is that I have given all I could, and it wasn't good enough so lets quit wasting each others time. And how does virgo deal with it?

@anne.. I think girls bored? maybe they are just more inclined to be promiscuous but somehow boys landed the label because lets face it ..
most of the population of the world lives in india..
therefore the majority of the men live in india..
therefore an indian male is the face of the human male..
but more so the internal dynamics of the human male is the indian male
and the indian male is like how you said parasitic ... and not very dynamic

I kinda get your point dude...But I don't think globally Indian male are considered the ultimate face of human male...
But..coming to the point...have you ever been dumped??😉