Originally posted by: -Mystery-
This time we're discussing the love confessions.
We all have different views and opinions on what a confession should be like but how many of us do really feel comfortable confessing our feelings? Letting the person know that you love her/him? There is a possibility that he maynot love you at all, or could be that the feeling you are confusing to be love is nothing but infatuation...first and foremost I would need to confirm myself that whatever it is..its love...and there is nothing to be uncomfortable about saying I love someone...it is a very very beautiful emotion,so yes I'm comfortable saying what I feel for someone..
Are you comfortable in expressing your feelings? Would you confess?
Yes If I love him from all my heart, I will not wait for the correct time and loose him to someone else.
If you're a girl, would you rather have the guy confess first? If you're a boy, would you like to see the girl confessing first?
Guys cannot bottle up their feelings for long unlike girls. So most of the time they are the one to give up first.😆
Why is anyone scared of confessing? Do we fear that we might lose the person if he/she doens't really love us? Are we afraid of the rejection?
There could be a possibility that he is seeing someone else that you are not aware about,possibility that he can reject you outright, that you may get hurt and angry the way things turned out, you maybe embarassed and repent that you told him. You might end up making a fool out of yourself..so these things needs to be considered so that you safe guard yourself.
But what if you don't confess and then later on you always live with the guilt that the person could've been yours had you only confessed your feelings?
Sometimes its better if you don't confess, what if the person is happy the way things are...what if he already has someone as his soulmate. The feeling that you ruined 2 lives just for your own selfish reasons is even worse. If the guy had truly loved you then he would have confessed it to you someday,as it never happened it only means you two were not meant to be.
Does it make it harder if that person is your best friend? You're scared that you might even lose your friend?
Yes, its hard if he is your bestfriend.
You confide in him and you share with him all your secrets. He is always there for you when you need him. And then one day you realize that this is it…..he is the one for whom you have waited so long. He knows and understands you…..he is there for you when you need him and he makes you smile.
You tell yourself that you love him and you are meant to be with him. But you are scared…..you hesitate because you think you will lose him if he comes to know that you love him Letting your interest be known can either break or make the relationship. The last thing you want is to reveal your feelings and lose a good friend.
If he treats me just like a friend and nothing more than that that I wont pursue my desire to make him love me. Simply because you can't make a relationship happen, or work, with one-sided affection. Thus I would cherish my friendship coz a true friend is more valuable than anything you can find.
Any comments are most welcome!
Great questions!
Anupamaa
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