kissing problems

my friends boyfriend kissed her so hard and sucked her lips that her lips are now red with blood colt .she put ice on it but of no effect.

well there shouldnt be intense biting....it should be a lip thing not a teeth kind of thing...

ouch!!! im sorry cant really help.

Originally posted by: prietygirl

my friends boyfriend kissed her so hard and sucked her lips that her lips are now red with blood colt .she put ice on it but of no effect.

can u tell what she can do to make it normal?

and also how to kiss first and make it smooth and intense so that both can enjoy .

plesase help yaar.its really urgent.

Originally posted by: Believe

Do you expect a Practical reply or Theoritical reply😛...hmmm😉

common yaar kabi kabi aisa ho jati hey.....ye sub prob hey tho ...why they try to do like this things.......😳😛😉

Well... I think if it is a first kiss then it is totally wrong... Should be all gentle and nice...

242,000 are the results for 'bruised lips from kissing' in google.

Guys tend to be aggressive when kissing. Many sometimes are under the wrong impression that that their exuberance is enjoyable, sometimes just because no one tells them.

First and foremost to treat the lips. If the lip is just bruised apply mild antiseptic. Avoid licking lips to prevent spread of bacteria. Apply vaseline to soften and soothe the lip.

Now I am assuming you speak only of a bruise. If it is a cold sore, get a cold sore ointment like Abreva. If the cold sore has not healed in two weeks or if there is irritation/filminess in the eye it is advisable to go to a doctor for a stronger treatment.

Most importantly, talk to the guy and tell him that it was hurtful and not enjoyable. Any respectable guy ought to understand and change their kissing.

oh thanks a lot for all ur advices.