Obsessive & Possessive - Ritu & Huda

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hi all,

No offence to Ritu and Huda fans.

Both Ritu & Huda are obsessive and possessive and they both suffer from mental illness.

1. Both are very obsessive and psychic. They are jealous if their so called love talks with opposite sex.

2. Both forcefully want other person to fall in love with them and will go to any extent in achieving this even blackmailing emotionally.

3. Ritu to steal triggers can even kill her love and Huda may physically assault his love to achieve his pleasures.

4. Both spy on their so called loves.

5. Both pounce on their loved ones.

6. They think love means snatching.

7. They dont care about their loved one's feelings.

8. They are always in fear that somebody may snatch their love as they do.

9. They think if you physically come close, love happens and dont believe in feelings such as understanding, care, comforting, protecting, etc. (Whereas whatever little physical contact Raj had with naina was only during drills/camps and not intentionally i.e. they were out of chance.)

10. Dil se jeethna unko nahin aata.

11. Contrary to Rajveer's way of love, they think if they try harder and push themselves on the person, they will get that person.

Whereas our Rajveer believes in unconditional love and also in "Let your love be carefree and if she realises your love and comes back to U, it is true love" He does not believe in pushing himself on Naina and will never take advantage of her visiting him alone in his room or even in jungle. (If Huda got this chance he would have hugged and kissed naina Remember how he charged like a bull on Naina and pushed her yesterday) Raj will wait for her and will never try to snatch.

Dil se dil ko jeethna chahiye and not by fighting/aggression/blackmailing.

Amisha

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Whereas our Rajveer believes in "Let your love be carefree and if she realises your love and comes back to U, it is true love" He does not believe in pushing himself on Naina and will never take advantage of her visiting him alone in his room or even in jungle. (If Huda got this chance he would have hugged and kissed naina Remember how he charged like a bull on Naina and pushed her yesterday) Raj will wait for her and will never try to snatch.

😆 😆 😆 well said..........
completly agree with u........... 😃 😃 😃
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Posted: 18 years ago
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nice analysis amisha absolutely right.especially abt huda(no offence to huda fans)
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Posted: 18 years ago
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never thoght of it that way that huda and ritu can be in the same boat. good analysis
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Posted: 18 years ago
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u r rite abt huda! he explained abt love to naina nicely but carrying her and dumping her on the straw was not necessary! u can't force u'r love on person and force love from a person either. love has to flow out naturally to each other. there is no need to say i luv u - u'r eyes can do the job for u. if u see raj and naina together then their eyes express their love for each other. not the same with hn.
dil ki baaton ko hoton se nahin kehte
yeh phasana to nigahon se bayaan hota hai! (movie -sarfarosh - said by aamir khan)!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: anujkpjk

u r rite abt huda! he explained abt love to naina nicely but carrying her and dumping her on the straw was not necessary! u can't force u'r love on person and force love from a person either. love has to flow out naturally to each other. there is no need to say i luv u - u'r eyes can do the job for u. if u see raj and naina together then their eyes express their love for each other. not the same with hn.
dil ki baaton ko hoton se nahin kehte
yeh phasana to nigahon se bayaan hota hai! (movie -sarfarosh - said by aamir khan)!

Tum shaayari bahut acchi kar leti ho. Super

Amisha

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Posted: 18 years ago
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yaar amisha you are a RN fan so you are saying this and all RN fans agree there are alot of HN fans too will get hurt.....

first of all ritu is not in love with either guys not naveen nor rajveer she just wants to used them thats it for her plan of stealing the nuclear triggers thats it to know where it is she is forcing herself on rajveer she does not love him...so no point of discussing ritu love is possessive and obsessive as she does not love him she only love herself

as for huda i never feels he is forcing himself on naina i am not telling this because i am a hn fan but its the fact.....when you love someone that women whom you are in love does not responds to your feeling its very hurting like yesterdays epsiode he ask nicely to naina to come and see bc-chitra love story but what she does being rude to him and because of her rudeness he did something like that but you guys should be happy that he did not do anything to her and loose respect in her eyes....he puts her on the straw mat and makes her realise what is love which he is going through and loves makes a person complete and anger and frustrations is not all life...obsessive and possessive is somthing srk did in darr being mad in love as he don't know the meaning of love but not huda..huda knows that naina doesn't love him at all..for how many times he tell I Love You he gets only pain and nothing and he even says to naina if she loves someone tell him....if you are taking out bhargav issues thats because the poison he put on huda's mind and also he was hurt due to his friends behaviour...if he wants to hug and kiss naina comeon guys he is a flirt for him to do this thing its 1 minute but he knows naina very well and he can't do cheap things to her he knows his limits...so don't say huda is obessive and possessive as most of times his scenes are not with naina but with the guys and pooja

as for rajveer yes he too loves naina but if he really loves her being silent and sacrificing is just waste of time makes her ralise what is love like what huda did and not just avoiding her....he should make her understand that above all the problems love overcomes..but he does not do that he just want to be silent hurting naina and himself

if now naina really realises love for rajveer its because of huda and not rajveer...because huda although did something rough but he puts some light on naina brains abt love which she is realising...SO RN guys you should thanx huda for making her realise love and that too for rajveer and not telling him he is obesessive and possessive because i am sure when he get to know that naina loves rajveer there is his friends to console him

its now confirmed by zee that its RN jodi...you guys should be celebrating
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Posted: 18 years ago
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u are absolutely rite abt both of them, amisha. 100%
They can never understand love(no offense to any1), n i don't think Ritu loves Rajveer though
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: minnee

Whereas our Rajveer believes in "Let your love be carefree and if she realises your love and comes back to U, it is true love" He does not believe in pushing himself on Naina and will never take advantage of her visiting him alone in his room or even in jungle. (If Huda got this chance he would have hugged and kissed naina Remember how he charged like a bull on Naina and pushed her yesterday) Raj will wait for her and will never try to snatch.

😆 😆 😆 well said..........
completly agree with u........... 😃 😃 😃

i tottallli agreee with uu..❤️

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

yaar amisha you are a RN fan so you are saying this and all RN fans agree there are alot of HN fans too will get hurt.....

first of all ritu is not in love with either guys not naveen nor rajveer she just wants to used them thats it for her plan of stealing the nuclear triggers thats it to know where it is she is forcing herself on rajveer she does not love him...so no point of discussing ritu love is possessive and obsessive as she does not love him she only love herself

as for huda i never feels he is forcing himself on naina i am not telling this because i am a hn fan but its the fact.....when you love someone that women whom you are in love does not responds to your feeling its very hurting like yesterdays epsiode he ask nicely to naina to come and see bc-chitra love story but what she does being rude to him and because of her rudeness he did something like that but you guys should be happy that he did not do anything to her and loose respect in her eyes....he puts her on the straw mat and makes her realise what is love which he is going through and loves makes a person complete and anger and frustrations is not all life...obsessive and possessive is somthing srk did in darr being mad in love as he don't know the meaning of love but not huda..huda knows that naina doesn't love him at all..for how many times he tell I Love You he gets only pain and nothing and he even says to naina if she loves someone tell him....if you are taking out bhargav issues thats because the poison he put on huda's mind and also he was hurt due to his friends behaviour...if he wants to hug and kiss naina comeon guys he is a flirt for him to do this thing its 1 minute but he knows naina very well and he can't do cheap things to her he knows his limits...so don't say huda is obessive and possessive as most of times his scenes are not with naina but with the guys and pooja

as for rajveer yes he too loves naina but if he really loves her being silent and sacrificing is just waste of time makes her ralise what is love like what huda did and not just avoiding her....he should make her understand that above all the problems love overcomes..but he does not do that he just want to be silent hurting naina and himself

if now naina really realises love for rajveer its because of huda and not rajveer...because huda although did something rough but he puts some light on naina brains abt love which she is realising...SO RN guys you should thanx huda for making her realise love and that too for rajveer and not telling him he is obesessive and possessive because i am sure when he get to know that naina loves rajveer there is his friends to console him

its now confirmed by zee that its RN jodi...you guys should be celebrating

i agree with u on huda's part though i am a big time rn jodi fan.but u r right.huda is not obsessed.yest. he took naina forcefully only to show bc and chitra.he would never do anything wrong .as huda's mother says he is a bit immature but he knows his duty and responsibility.he has asked naina many times whether she loves someone else ?but naina has not made it clear.so obviously he is still in hope.its not his fault if he loves her.
regarding rajveer's part.i dont feel rajveer is doing anything wrong by keeping quiet becoz he is doing all this for naina.he doesnt even know whether naina loves him or not.then how can he confess his love.and right now if he does so naina will be in trouble.so its better if he keeps quiet until naina realises her love.and i agree there would be quite a big help frm huda's side if naina realises her lover for raj becoz its huda who is always reminding her and tellin her to think and realise abt her feelings.
so overall i agree with u partly but not wholly.

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