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Originally posted by: Yuvika_15
in her defence ksh she's been bought up in london away from all indian cultures and traditions, she doesn't knw the cultures of india..altho she may hav spent 10-12 yrs in india she didnt reali hav the sense at tht time 2 knw the meaning of relations etc...nt all 10-12 yrs r mature enuf u knw...the fact tht she's lived in a foreign country may explain y she doesn't knw much abt her own roots...remember hw she found it odd tht women in india dnt address their husbands by their names... tht proves jus hw little she knws of indian culture...and thts becos she's lived ALONE in London wer obv these traditions aren't practised much n evn if dey r she lived ALONE who was der 2 tel her all tht...i'm saying this becos u'll b surprised 2 no hw little many girls knw abt their own cultures, like my m8 anita was originally born in india bt moved 2 UK at a young age and she can't speak Hindi let alone understand it...and der r many girls like tht living in UK tht cnt speak their mother tongue.. with madhu, she may b able 2 speak the language and tht bt i think thts abt it...in terms of knwing abt the traditions n tht she knws very little...and the bhaiyya stuff myt cum from movies/dramas LOL... and also does it really matter if she calls dutta bhaiyya or bhao...i mean at the end of the day its abt giving respect to ur elders which she does...be it bhaiyya or bhao...
I agree on the black bold bits.
Abt the red bits I disagree. Madhu was 10-12 when she moved to UK. By then children are old enough to atleast know how people are addressed in a family. I mean a baby's first word is maa and second word is papa. After that within a span of 4-5 years kids know how to address people. I know this as I have seen kids in the family pick up how to address people by the time they are 2-3. And Madhu wasnt completely alone. She had a Maharashtrian lady who looked after her.
Ghum Hai Kisikey Pyaar Meiin
