Epi 382: D-N The Real Eternal Story

Originally posted by: Yuvika_15

@red...yh clearly dif tht she comes al the way 2 the hospital but not once does she ask how roops is... nw tht clearly defines hw much concern she has for her family...i mean hw can the woman who was willing 2 put her child's life at risk hav concern for any1 else?? kala cares onli abt herself...No 1 else...

Concern does not have to be a 24/7/365 kinda thing and nor does it have to be verbally communicated or expressed all the time. Some people are just not used to it or accustomed to it because they have never practiced it in a verbal form. A person is not BORN bad! Situations, circumstances and other influential factors lead to a child's and a person's development over a course of time...these are the kind of things that dictate how a person will turn out to be when they grow old. Kala is just one of those exceptional cases. Kala also has these emotions of love, care and concern in her but with time her mind took control of her optimistic side and turned her into a negative person, concealing the good in her. So that does not mean that whatever happened with her father's death...because of that all the 'good' emotions she had are gone forever, they just got subsided hence all the life threatening kartoots with her family members. Waise toh Dutta also was a cold, wild person, who actually killed people...the kind of person he became after their first marriage we all saw...but Dutta was fortunate enough to have a person like Nakku who groomed his 'good' emotions and they resurfaced back...the emotions never died though...the point I am trying to make. But in Kala's case, she was just so unfortunate in every sense possible.

@blue...wt emotion, concern and love r u talkin abt?...der was none...she was so blinded in anger n hatred tht she put her own family thru hell... tied thm against bombs n tried killing dutta yt agen... she hates him n she's clearly admitted to it so the question of kala being concerned abt dutta doesn't even rise...she wud hav shot him if thm ppl didnt interfere...

She would NOT have dared to shoot him, pointing a gun at a person is different than actually shooting them...no matter how much she hated him, she did not have the guts to kill him herself. She just couldn't have done it...nor would she have had the heart to kill her family. Re: the emotions bit...concern and love, both. When Dutta was pretending and was on his knees, acknowledging her power, her importance, she genuinely loved him for those few sec/mins for that is what she had waited for all these years...something even her own mother had failed to do. But because that was a pretense, those emotions were short lived. And later when she is pointing the gun at Dutta, she has tears in her eyes which speak volumes. One sees a different side of Kala. She is not able to pull the trigger because she would not have been able to do so. Rest of the interpretation, I will leave it up to you since mine would be in her favor.😆

@green... u dnt hav 2 b sori... evry1 is entitled 2 der own opinions... and i disagree... events like tht r neva forgotten...esp nt if the dying person was a loved 1... n their death had a big impact on ur life... such events are never forgotten... i've studied psychology and analysed many real life cases wer ppl after several yrs clearly remember exactly evrything tht happened on tht day... evn wt dey wer wearing... hatred is a feeling which grows gradually...u dnt jus wake up 1 morning n realise u h8 sum1... for kala her hatred towards dutta began the day her dad left the world n as she grew it grew with her n as u mentioned AS;s preference of dutta's happiness of hers didn't help either... bt 2 say tht it was completely becos of AS's love for dutta would be wrong, it was a mixture bt the main reason was tht he WAS the reason tht led to the fight which ended with her father;s death...as she had once accused DP of him snatching her father and her son snatching her mother which means she's always felt she was an orphan... n sum wer blamed dutta for it...so ders no question of concern and love for dutta. sori guys i fail 2 c wt makes u both think kala has concern for dutta...wen she clearly DOESN'T

For most part they might not be able to forget and live with the trauma...but there are individuals who are able to heal with time provided they get the right kind of support. Every person is different, every situation is different. You are right about hatred growing gradually...and that is what I interpret it as. The day of Kala's father's death was not the day that Kala instantly started hating Dutta...the feeling of hatred was a gradual process over the course of years for reasons other than Dutta himself. She blamed Dutta for her father's death but not necessarily hated him that very instant. AS's imperfections on the upbringing of her children especially Kala is one big factor...not the sole reason, but a very important part that worsened the situations over time because of AS's favoritism towards Dutta. Again from what you have written it still seems that Kala's hatred is passive like I mentioned before...blaming DP and AS for the losses in her life. In the maha episode back in Feb, she clearly blames AS partly for the miseries of her life and questions her upbringing. What makes us feel for Kala is our interpretation and you not being able to feel the same is your interpretation...so no worries there. 😊

@black...i agree with ur part tht naku tuk kala's hatred 2 another level...becos kala's main goal was 2 torture dutta al his life, gt rid of evry happiness n evry last hpe of happiness from his life...n she had always succeeded in doing so..she was always the winner...no1 raised der voice against her n as u sed she preferred things going her way...evry1 listened 2 her inc her sisters...while naku was the 1st 1 to challenge kala...and for kala this was summut new.. naku won in every challenge she threw at kala and kala's plans started backfiring, which is summut a winner like kala was not used 2 so 2 break naku she decided 2 kill dutta becos dutta's death wud shatter naku 2 the core... if u recall on 5th feb epi she sed tht she neva wntd 2 kill dutta she jus wntd 2 torture him for life as tht wud b a mre painful way of dying bt naku forced her 2 tke this step...which was clearly hinting at naku's confidence tht kala wud neva b able 2 harm her or dutta's relation... kala is a complicated character 2 understand...bt 1 thing is as clear from day 1...n tht is kala's hatred for dutta as well as DP...

I think we have said enough already on this...Like you said, everyone is entitled to their own opinion. So yeah, let's agree to disagree. 😊