Dutta's flawed love???

Hessa85

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Posted: 14 years ago

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I liked these past few episodes, although i found dutta's speech today slightly excessive... yeah we get it cv's, dutta will feel betrayed again. maybe they are trying to get newer views upto scratch with the plot. well i completely understand that dutta will be hurt and angry.... butt the new article suggesting dutta will lock her up in a store room i found completely ridiculous and over the top. the guy is so egoistic, it is because of his flaws that nakku has had to walk on eggshells around him. dutta is not someone you can be honest with because he'll throw a tantrum. i mean really, in all of dutttas looooooooonng speech today,,,the point was that nakku has been continuously doing things for dutta. my problem is this.....yet again it sounds as if it is nakku's love and patience that is going to be put to the test. but what about dutta in all this? isnt love a two way thing?? if nakku has absolute conviction in him, where is his conviction in her. if nakku is prepared to put everything on the line for him, to face his wrath because of her love for him....why is dutta unable to, at the very least, spare nakku a ''punishment'''' because of his love for her?? Will all Dutta's words spoken so easily in todays episode prove to be completely hollow tomorrow? and if that is the case...can we really say their love is mutual?

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chitrakshgeet

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Hi,

I do agree with you...Before Nakku starts speaking...she says "aap mera poora baat sunne ke baad faisle loge"...He promised her so many things before he see her face"he told "Mae apane aapko tumhe saumpta hoo"...ab kya hua...?😭.....Jo insaan bolta hai ki.....Muje joot sa nafrat hai....ab woh sach bolrahi hai...apna gum baant ne ke liya uska saath maanga to Dutta kadam dagamgaya....KYU?😭...Jo wada phere lene ke waqt diya tha...VISHWAS OUR BHAROSA ka kaha gaya...THIS IS REALLY NOT FAIR.....Every time why a WOMAN has to suffer...😡

Again Locking her up in a room....this is just not happening...how can some one do like this...even in the court...the culprit will be given enough support to explain why did he committed the sin...here forget support...No one listen to that....every time the woman(Nakku) get punished....😡

APAN IZZAT BACHANE KE LIYE AGAR KOI AURAT KHOON BHI KARTI TO WOH MAAF KIYA JATA HAI....KYUKI HER AURAT KO APNA IZZAT PYARA HOTA HAI.....WHATEVER NAKUSHA AND BAABI DID THERE NO MISTAKE IN THAT....😊

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Hessa85

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: chitrakshgeet
Hi,

I do agree with you...Before Nakku starts speaking...she says "aap mera poora baat sunne ke baad faisle loge"...He promised her so many things before he see her face"he told "Mae apane aapko tumhe saumpta hoo"...ab kya hua...?😭.....Jo insaan bolta hai ki.....Muje joot sa nafrat hai....ab woh sach bolrahi hai...apna gum baant ne ke liya uska saath maanga to Dutta kadam dagamgaya....KYU?😭...Jo wada phere lene ke waqt diya tha...VISHWAS OUR BHAROSA ka kaha gaya...THIS IS REALLY NOT FAIR.....Every time why a WOMAN has to suffer...😡

Again Locking her up in a room....this is just not happening...how can some one do like this...even in the court...the culprit will be given enough support to explain why did he committed the sin...here forget support...No one listen to that....every time the woman(Nakku) get punished....😡

APAN IZZAT BACHANE KE LIYE AGAR KOI AURAT KHOON BHI KARTI TO WOH MAAF KIYA JATA HAI....KYUKI HER AURAT KO APNA IZZAT PYARA HOTA HAI.....WHATEVER NAKUSHA AND BAABI DID THERE NO MISTAKE IN THAT....😊

bingo, this is the thing putting me off indian drama's..the sacrificing females whos sacifices make her land flat on her face. and men who never fully appreciate them....

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gp00

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Posted: 14 years ago

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I never and still don't consider Dutta's flawed, anymore than I consider Naku's love flawed.

Why is it flawed? Because he did not say he understood her reasons. What are the reasons she KEPT it from him? He could understand why she had to wear the soot for much of her life, and why she had to wear it most of time with him. BUT WHY did she still keep it from him after he was honest with her about his love for her? Naku has no damn good reason, quite frankly, except she was scared.

Just because Nakusha did this and that for him in the past, does that erase the fact that the stunt Nakusha inadvertently pulled was WRONG? She lied to him, the one thing he hates when it comes to women, particularly beautiful women.

Look, Dutta has always been who he shows himself to be. There is no guile or deception there. You take it or leave it. And his anger is absolutely reasonable--anybody in his situation would be pissed off initially. With time, he will calm down and try to think through the situation.

There's another post that was posted earlier today on a similar topic. You may want to take a look at the reactions people had there too. 😃

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Hessa85

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Why is it flawed? Because he did not say he understood her reasons. What are the reasons she KEPT it from him? He could understand why she had to wear the soot for much of her life, and why she had to wear it most of time with him. BUT WHY did she still keep it from him after he was honest with her about his love for her? Naku has no damn good reason, quite frankly, except she was scared.

she was scared, amongst other reasons. but why shouldnt she be scared...look at his reaction, look what he did when he accused of being involved in the sups fiasco.

Just because Nakusha did this and that for him in the past, does that erase the fact that the stunt Nakusha inadvertently pulled was WRONG? She lied to him, the one thing he hates when it comes to women, particularly beautiful women.

i'm not saying nakku didnt make a mistake, she did...but the whole reason that mistake was made was for dutta himself, and because of dutta himself. dutta has a right to be angry, tell her to leave his life...whatver he wants. he has no right to ''punish'' her, or shove her in a room.... this is as far as dutta love goes? with dutta everything is about 'me myself I,,,,yesterday he recognised that he hadnt even once considered her feelings in the sups thing. but again he is set to repeat the same thing. really it is only because dutta is so self absorbed, that nakku has always felt the need to treat so carefully around him. his concern is always about his feelings, not nakku's. but the guy needs to mature.

Look, Dutta has always been who he shows himself to be. There is no guile or deception there. You take it or leave it. And his anger is absolutely reasonable--anybody in his situation would be pissed off initially. With time, he will calm down and try to think through the situation.

Thats it gp, he will calm down EVENTUALLY, but what is it going to take for him to get to that stage this time. where will so called love go in the meantime? i want to know the limits of dutta's love this time, wev'e seen nakkus tested repeatedly. dutta lives in niwas full of scheming women, they are repeatedly going to make manipulate and play with duttas trust in nakku...what will he do the next time something happens and nakku gets accused of something (because in a house like that she definitely will). first a humiliating marriage/torture, next locked her away/torture? after THAT,, maybe he will turn her into anarkali and build a wall around her.

There's another post that was posted earlier today on a similar topic. You may want to take a look at the reactions people had there too. 😃

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