The trials of Naku: must she always pay the price?

she was named the "Nakusha" , meaning some one who doesn't give happiness to any one...the unwanted.....she was born beautiful but her mother kept her covered with soot to protect her.....she was ridiculed by every one......loved by only her mother...then morey saw her beauty and wanted to sell her off...she escaped thanks to a man who helped her out...she saved his life and she came to his family...again faced ridicule for her soot covered looks.....but she smiled...she fell in love with this man who was the complete antithesis of her nemesis More.....yet she did not say anything and helped him to open his heart out to another girl....the girl ran away and his sisters blamed her...she did not say anything...he married her, tortured her...yet she selflessly loved him...despite all the trials...after he had a change of heart he wanted to let her go and went to leave her...had an accident..she refused to leave him....Anna kidnapped her...he got her back...he fell in love with her.....but never bothered to know her as a person....everything happened....she could not tell him the truth of her life because people told her not to...what could she do? and now after marriage..he will come to know about her and again torture her....agreed she should have said something but she is not a modern day woman...she is an illiterate who lives by her own principles fed by life and her mother...he should be angry but should he blame her?
why is it she who is subjected to all the torture despite the sacrifices?
What sacrifice did Dutta make for her? Saved her from Anna? or saved her from More?he would have saved anyone, any woman,.... but what else did he do? he says he loves her but what did he do to prove that love? Sorry people you might be with Dutta but i hate to see Naku suffer...she couldnt tell him the truth no doubt but does that mean that she is a dhokebaaz or she should suffer again? and again?

Why isnt Dutta subjected to a test of his love? Why isnt he tortured? He hates beauty and he was not told about her face...okay but does that change all that she did for him? and she asked him for nothing....Naku is a selfless person but what about Dutta? Doesnt he just think of his life, his emotions and himself? Has he ever thought about her trials, her life, her emotions?

Good post Chinu.

valid and good points chinuji 👍🏼

Originally posted by: nurulain

valid and good points chinuji 👍🏼

but its the norm of life, its a male dominated society, the females always sacrifice yet they are also the ones questioned for everything, as an old saying goes, "pati ka koi pati nahi hota" 😆

Originally posted by: gp00

In general, I think there is some truth to that. However, people make choices to sacrifice. Women in general are expected to sacrifice....perhaps trained to think that way with their upbringings and culture, but IN THIS SITUATION, that is not the case.

Naku sacrifices because she loves Dutta. THAT's how she shows her love. But Naku is a person who always, always HAD THE CHOICE to tell the truth. She CHOSE not to.

Did she really have a choice to tell the truth...see it from her perspective not from a modern girl's mind...she is an illiterate, her only friend is her scaredy cat mother who is her only shelter from the roving eyes of the world...then when she did try to tell the truth she was stopped by kala and AS who had agendas of their own....AS even black mailed her to marry or let Dutta die.....what makes you think she had a choice? She was a person who was stopped by every one....I agree in case of supriya she should have told the truth and that did cost her but here her mother stopped her, AS stopped her and Kala stopped her and even Baaji stopped her...if she is to pay the price for this betrayal, so must they...each one of them....

I agree...

true points from all.. i agree that yes it also depends on one's choice.. but at the same time, if one is being influenced by the elders / people on a particular decision, at the end of the day, why are those people not also questioned? 😕 as chinuji puts it, nakku is pressured by all not to reveal her secret, kya karti woh? 😕

yes naku has been wrong but i agree on the point that we all have different ways of showing our love...some show it by over protecting...some by setting their loved one free...some by caring for that person....etc. naku did what she could think of and remember when she told her mother that she will only tell the truth when she tells her to.....so its her fault but any child would do that ......especially in india....i would have also done the same thing if it was my mother telling me because though naku loves dutta but she loves her mother too

chinu.........i agree with ur points.......after proving her love for so many times........still she's called dhokebaaz.........i m disappointed with Dutta.....

Originally posted by: gp00

And she IS a dhokebaaz in Dutta's eyes, and he is right. She betrayed him, his trust...does anyone actually think she did not betray him by lying about her true face??? It is what it is, even with the good reasons behind it.

Exactly.....the way they've set this up.....Nakku brought this upon herself with the way she chose the moment to tell him the truth (No doubt she is a simple, uneducated girl who easily got swayed by AS and Baabi ka emotional blackmail) but that doesn't change the facts....she DID lie to him this time....first wedding ke time she didn't have a choice....he forcibly married her....this time she had a choice going into this wedding....and she chose to hide the truth again (whatever may be the reason)

I personally find Dutta's reactions perfectly understandable....no matter how much Nakku's love brought about a change in him, his basic prejudices against beauty and his hatred of lies and dhoka remain the same....and she did technically lie to him.....she lost the chance to present this in a better manner so the aftermath is bound to be ugly now.