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nazia.icycool

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Posted: 15 years ago

#31

Hi DD 🤗
this is what i think..
i guess for us of course nakku's beauty is not a betrayal thats because we know her past we know y she did all that ..but for Dutta ,i think this person has completely trusted her..he doesnt know anything about her infact he never even wanted to know anything about her ...even after what anna said, dutta has been believing nakku 😕 😊 ...whereas nakku knows dutta's past very well...

(the CV's have been smart..they already showed us nakku's life and on the other hand showed dutta's life though nakku) but one thing is that dutta is unaware of nakku's past.....he is PURELY loving her for the person she is!!)

and according to me, with so much BHAROSA and VISHWAAS , also comes the feeling of being betrayed by one ...usne blindly bharosa kia lekin aise bharose ke saath feeling of betrayal will be there...so i think his first reaction will be that he will be taken aback...not that he will compare nakku to sups or seema first but the fact that 'she kept this as a secret' will trouble him a lot...kyun ki usne itns BAROSA jo kiya...

another thing is that as u said the CV's will not leave a chance to have high drama here so i think what subbu said will play a key role in making dutta understand about nakku's helplessness ....what the CV's made subbu say will not go waste..it will surely come to some use...not only this , what DADA said has also occupied dutta's mind so he can never forget these two ppl...along with this, dutta himself will find it difficult to consider nakku as a betrayer..see when a person is completely in love, he trusts his love to an extent, and when he comes to know tht his lover is a betrayer then u dont actually take things in easil ..dont u??...i mean ur mind may say that she is a betrayer but ur heart knows what kind if a person she is, and that she cannot betray anyone....

to make dutta understand that all beautiful women are NOT betrayers , this has to happen..he again has to fight with his innerself..and has to get over this misconception 😊

regarding she being compared to seema or sups..i dont think that will happen 😊 ..but one thing that will happen is that dutta ki galat fehmi abt all pretty women being betrayers will have a thappa on it unless nakku makes him understand y she was secretive 😉

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Nikita

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Posted: 15 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: nazia.icycool
Hi DD 🤗
this is what i think..
i guess for us of course nakku's beauty is not a betrayal thats because we know her past we know y she did all that ..but for Dutta ,i think this person has completely trusted her..he doesnt know anything about her infact he never even wanted to know anything about her ...even after what anna said, dutta has been believing nakku 😕 😊 ...whereas nakku knows dutta's past very well...

(the CV's have been smart..they already showed us nakku's life and on the other hand showed dutta's life though nakku) but one thing is that dutta is unaware of nakku's past.....he is PURELY loving her for the person she is!!)

and according to me, with so much BHAROSA and VISHWAAS , also comes the feeling of being betrayed by one ...usne blindly bharosa kia lekin aise bharose ke saath feeling of betrayal will be there...so i think his first reaction will be that he will be taken aback...not that he will compare nakku to sups or seema first but the fact that 'she kept this as a secret' will trouble him a lot...kyun ki usne itns BAROSA jo kiya...

another thing is that as u said the CV's will not leave a chance to have high drama here so i think what subbu said will play a key role in making dutta understand about nakku's helplessness ....what the CV's made subbu say will not go waste..it will surely come to some use...not only this , what DADA said has also occupied dutta's mind so he can never forget these two ppl...along with this, dutta himself will find it difficult to consider nakku as a betrayer..see when a person is completely in love, he trusts his love to an extent, and when he comes to know tht his lover is a betrayer then u dont actually take things in easil ..dont u??...i mean ur mind may say that she is a betrayer but ur heart knows what kind if a person she is, and that she cannot betray anyone....

to make dutta understand that all beautiful women are NOT betrayers , this has to happen..he again has to fight with his innerself..and has to get over this misconception 😊

regarding she being compared to seema or sups..i dont think that will happen 😊 ..but one thing that will happen is that dutta ki galat fehmi abt all pretty women being betrayers will have a thappa on it unless nakku makes him understand y she was secretive 😉

so, Nazia, after being taken aback, what do u think he wuld do?...wuld he get over this hurt?

btw....Nazia, u think so Hatke...I just love how u analyze a human behaviour so well.....u were so darn right in the fact tht Dutta doesnt know Nakus background...and frankly, I always thought tht when Naku reveals her face to him, she shld tell him about her background, tell him why Morey was behind her....what anna was upto, bcoz if u wud notice....dutta doesnt know tht Anna was gng to marry Naku or was gng to r**e her!!

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nazia.icycool

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Posted: 15 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: Dancingdoll

so, Nazia, after being taken aback, what do u think he wuld do?...wuld he get over this hurt?

btw....Nazia, u think so Hatke...I just love how u analyze a human behaviour so well.....u were so darn right in the fact tht Dutta doesnt know Nakus background...and frankly, I always thought tht when Naku reveals her face to him, she shld tell him about her background, tell him why Morey was behind her....what anna was upto, bcoz if u wud notice....dutta doesnt know tht Anna was gng to marry Naku or was gng to r**e her!!

of course he will..maybe he will feel betrayed initially but he will and must get over the hurt...i think he is a person who reacts to anything very strongly..and even gets over it very easily after his mind is resolved..

while the anna track we know how confused how hurt and disturbed he was totally broken!! craving for nakku but the moment they were out of anna's clutches, his behavior changed...he got over his plight...he won nakku and is ready to start his life..new beginning....so for me , when he feels somethings he gives his 100% to it...so once he is clear about why nakku was secretive then im sure that he will get over the hurt

hey DD thanx for the complement!! i feel so gratified 😆 ...i think he will get to know about nakku's past once her face is revealed..i think dutta never gave her that comfort level that she gave him ...and thats y nakku never shared abt her past. he was unaware of her feeling so how could nakku tell him the past?? the person in front of u should have some interest in the topic also na?? 😆 ....whereas nakku has always been understanding when it comes to dutta..she has been so caring and understanding that dutta was BOUND to share his feeling ..and he himself doesnt know why he said all about seema to nakku....but we all know that nakku made him feel the comfort so that he could share his thoughts! 😉 😊

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nazia.icycool

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Posted: 15 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: kshreya2002
I definitely dont think hiding her skin color is a betrayal so far. I hope Dutta doesnt too. We are just assuming he will take it as betrayal. I am afraid more than betrayal he will be hurt.

for us it is not betrayal but for dutta??sadly he will feel that nakku kept a secret na 😕
lekin yes shreya he will feel hurt that even though she loved him she didnt share this with him...he will also feel bad that he didnt prove to be a good hubby and thats y nakku couldnt tell him her feelings 😕

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Megha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: nazia.icycool

for us it is not betrayal but for dutta??sadly he will feel that nakku kept a secret na 😕
lekin yes shreya he will feel hurt that even though she loved him she didnt share this with him...he will also feel bad that he didnt prove to be a good hubby and thats y nakku couldnt tell him her feelings 😕

Yeah he will feel hurt that he couldn't manage to build the trust in her about himself..so that she could have shared her secrets just as he did with her

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Kruthi

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Posted: 15 years ago

#36

guys we all are missing the very crux of the LTL..
Its all about beauty and ugly girl and messaging tht guy can fall for ugly grl if she is loving enough..........

CVs will make the process of face revelation for longer period... but definitely not Dutta accepting her ...
If Dutta deny to accept Nakku assuming she betrayed him then again the story will be on face which makes no sense....
He might accept her without taking much pain......

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Nikita

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Posted: 15 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: nazia.icycool

of course he will..maybe he will feel betrayed initially but he will and must get over the hurt...i think he is a person who reacts to anything very strongly..and even gets over it very easily after his mind is resolved..

while the anna track we know how confused how hurt and disturbed he was totally broken!! craving for nakku but the moment they were out of anna's clutches, his behavior changed...he got over his plight...he won nakku and is ready to start his life..new beginning....so for me , when he feels somethings he gives his 100% to it...so once he is clear about why nakku was secretive then im sure that he will get over the hurt

hey DD thanx for the complement!! i feel so gratified 😆 ...i think he will get to know about nakku's past once her face is revealed..i think dutta never gave her that comfort level that she gave him ...and thats y nakku never shared abt her past. he was unaware of her feeling so how could nakku tell him the past?? the person in front of u should have some interest in the topic also na?? 😆 ....whereas nakku has always been understanding when it comes to dutta..she has been so caring and understanding that dutta was BOUND to share his feeling ..and he himself doesnt know why he said all about seema to nakku....but we all know that nakku made him feel the comfort so that he could share his thoughts! 😉 😊

Nazia, Ho do u always manage to put my thoughts with better clarity!!! awwwwwww 🤗

U r right...Dutta was engrossed in his topic tht he never realized that Naku also has a secret...naku was interetsed in his part bcoz she had feelings or him and she wanted to help him out of it, but Dutta didnt have feelings.... + he didnt see any pain on her face for him to reach out to her even as a friend!

and the moment he believes in the cause tht Naku lived for whole of her life, he wuld stand by her! and I wanna see him standing against Kala n front of the whole family....wuld be awesome to watch!

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gp00

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Posted: 15 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: nazia.icycool

for us it is not betrayal but for dutta??sadly he will feel that nakku kept a secret na 😕
lekin yes shreya he will feel hurt that even though she loved him she didnt share this with him...he will also feel bad that he didnt prove to be a good hubby and thats y nakku couldnt tell him her feelings 😕

You don't think it was a betrayal, Nazia? You're right in that betrayal is too strong a word...but the reality is somewhere close I think.

I look at it from the perspective of their relationship. Who is Dutta to Naku? And who is Naku to Dutta?
And who are Naku and Dutta SUPPOSED to be, respectively? Sher and sherni? Principled (Dutta) vs. Loving (Naku)?

So this is the way I look at it. Naku is NOW at the point where she is conveniently confused about Dutta's feelings...although the CVs have not stretched it to the point of disbelief yet. But she loves Dutta...he knows this. Dutta loves Naku...she does not know this.
But, Naku has long been portrayed as Dutta's greatest lover, protector...even when she lied to him about Sups' relationship with Ravi, she betrayed Dutta. No doubt about that. That was wrong, and I wonder if anyone of us could say " oh, that's ok....she did it because she loved him". When it comes to lying, intentions always should be factored in...but these ARE NOT LITTLE WHITE LIES. These are big...like someone not telling their husband "I am not really from xxx, I did not want to tell you because I thought you may hate me". Well, that's not a good enough reason. Yes, the intention is not to hurt the other person, but it is also to protect yourself and the world you have created for yourself. This latter thing is a more subconscious thing.

I know I may be in the minority here--but I think Naku's lying (and I should finally say it, without beating around the bush because I know what people's reactions will be!) IS WRONG. If she is in fact what she is supposed to be on this show, loving, having values, believing in God and all that God stands for, but yet still being human of course---then how can she keep a secret from Dutta like this about herself.

EVEN if Naku does not know he loves her, Naku knows that Dutta trusts her now, treats her with respect, even to some degree thinks of her as his friend again. Isn't that reason enough to tell the truth? To her friend Dutta? To a person who believes in her? Who has chosen to forget the past because of his faith in her now? That would have compelled me to state the truth. It would have killed me on the inside to know I could deceive someone. Some people have said that it is her truth and when he tells her he loves her, then she will say it? WHY WAIT to tell the truth? Why WAIT when you know what the consequences would be if Dutta found out even if he did not love her? That would destroy the friendship again. I'm unconvinced. Yes, it's easier to say Naku should have done this, done that...but given her character Sherni attributes and her faithfulness in people and God, where the hell is the Truth in all of this? Oh, I get it, truth is conditional, situational...if someone loves you, you can tell them the truth then. It's not enough to tell the truth because deep down inside, you feel like a cheat. I know it's a rough assessment of Naku, but I have faith that the CVs will put her honor and honesty on good footing again. This is again, just my opinion.

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Aisha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#39

Ah But GP remember the LTL timeline here!

It's actually only been twelve days since they got married😆

The first 4 days Dutta hated her. The next 4 days he was starting to not hate her. And the last 4 days he's fallen in love and accepted that he loves her!

Now Naku does know that he doesn't think of her as a betrayer anymore. That has been indicated by his actions and the way he's been talking to her.

HOWEVER it's not that much of a stretch to make Naku not realise that he loves her.

Okay he came and rescued her. Well he would rescue anyone.

He hugged her. That could have just been a Friendly Hug (Guys please try and see this from a Negative POV! We know that THAT Hug was nothing Friendly but still😆)

He's held her hand. Well he does that anyways even when they had just met (Hospital Scene in January remember how he grabbed her and took her along with him?)

He let her patch him up. Yeah well he's in a good mood.

He HASN'T given her MS back.

He HASN'T actually SAID anything about Naku staying forever in his house as his wife.

Naku didn't see him smile when AS mentioned Naku being the "Bahu" of the house.

In fact, she remembered Dutta saying that he would take her back to her Aayi and then his responsibility is finished!

And okay AS said it but whats the point in AS saying it? We need confirmation from Dutta!

And that's why he needs to hand that MS over ASAP!

SO is it wrong of Naku to hide her face from Dutta? Well... right now it's actually okay. He hasn't given her a reason to reveal it. She thinks she's still leaving! And after that whole Anna Drama she's probably more than happy to keep it secret! I get where she's coming from.

BUT if Dutta let's his intentions be known clearly to Naku then yes she definitely will HAVE to tell him ASAP.

But the girl does have issues with her beauty. She thinks of it as a curse. And then there's the whole "I hate Beauty" speech of Dutta's ringing in her ears.

This is what happened last time.

She hid Supriya's Truth because she wanted to protect him and because she was scared of what might happen.

We can forgive her that because hey, people do stupid things when they're in love and Naku was fooled by Supriya.

But I think Dutta may surprise us when she DOES reveal her face.

He always acts in a way that is totally unexpected.

I am counting on the same to happen here!

Aisha xxx😉

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Nikita

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Posted: 15 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: meghaparti

Yeah he will feel hurt that he couldn't manage to build the trust in her about himself..so that she could have shared her secrets just as he did with her

But Nazia and Megha, Thats Hurt...That's not betrayal.....He can get over hurt in few days but betrayal takes time...needs proofs, constant logical counter arguments, agnee pariksha et al....but getting hurt is diff...thts my point.....is it tht big??

as I sadi before, for it to come into betrayal category, for it to become sinister, it has to be combined with something sinister....

re-iterating,

Naku's secret + something sinister (which kala can cook up easily) = sinister act

else

not sinister.....