DOTW: Should Naku now onwards be firm with Dutta?

TheRager

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: sub_rosa
I think out of the two Naku is the sorted out, optimistic and emotionally stronger one! While Dutta, in spite of his power, authority, wrath etc is emotionally vulnerable and pessimistic to the core...not to speak of his low self-esteem! He's like a big, overgrown child in matters related to emotions! And Naku knows how to handle him...she's going to be the much-needed emotional anchor in his life!

So I would say that Naku has always been pretty firm in whatever stand she took, always pointing out to Dutta his mistakes...and she'll continue to do so!

Exactly...at times I feel his behavior is pretty childish and self centered. In fact he at times is only a little better than Rups esp when he is into one of his stubborn moods.

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Originally posted by: kshreya2002

Exactly...at times I feel his behavior is pretty childish and self centered. In fact he at times is only a little better than Rups esp when he is into one of his stubborn moods.
completely agreee with that take, with him its all his been his way, and his way alone up to yet. thats why that last episode was so epic...finally something clicked in that brain of his.

also i think another point i think nakku is firm, but she isnt mean or she doesnt say things unneccessarily...her feelings only came out because of the situation and even then they came out cos she couldnt leave her hubby to die alone. i think she will continue to care for dutta but when it comes to leaving she will go, because she doesnt believe and wont believe he wants her in his life

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Originally posted by: shai85

I think Dutta's decision abt the seperation came as a big shock to naku. dutta is a very committed guy...right or wrong if he makes a committment he sees it through. but in this case he didnt. when he realized that he might be wrong he chose to break his committment towards marriage which naku(or us) never expected. she was expecting that dutta wud try to work out things with her...give their marriage or atleast their relationship a chance...but not make arrangements to completely cut off from her. so to her it appeared that he cud break this commitment becuz maybe he doesnt care an iota for her. usually naku anticipates his every reaction or atleast can justify what he does by looking at things from his pov even when he is doing the most horrible things. but this time she cud she no justification except no feelings for her and being too rigid abt meting out justice without caring for her at all which again comes back to not having an iota of feeling for her. thats why naku told her mother nothing is now left for her in dutta's house.

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I think Dutta's decision abt the seperation came as a big shock to naku. dutta is a very committed guy...right or wrong if he makes a committment he sees it through. but in this case he didnt. when he realized that he might be wrong he chose to break his committment towards marriage which naku(or us) never expected. she was expecting that dutta wud try to work out things with her...give their marriage or atleast their relationship a chance...but not make arrangements to completely cut off from her. so to her it appeared that he cud break this commitment becuz maybe he doesnt care an iota for her. usually naku anticipates his every reaction or atleast can justify what he does by looking at things from his pov even when he is doing the most horrible things. but this time she cud she no justification except no feelings for her and being too rigid abt meting out justice without caring for her at all which again comes back to not having an iota of feeling for her. thats why naku told her mother nothing is now left for her in dutta's house.

we should have known the cv's would make things worse before making them better...they knew both nakku and audience were eagerly awaiting dutta finally accepting nakku so they gave us a shocker...shaadi khatam

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Originally posted by: shai85

I think Dutta's decision abt the seperation came as a big shock to naku. dutta is a very committed guy...right or wrong if he makes a committment he sees it through. but in this case he didnt. when he realized that he might be wrong he chose to break his committment towards marriage which naku(or us) never expected. she was expecting that dutta wud try to work out things with her...give their marriage or atleast their relationship a chance...but not make arrangements to completely cut off from her. so to her it appeared that he cud break this commitment becuz maybe he doesnt care an iota for her. usually naku anticipates his every reaction or atleast can justify what he does by looking at things from his pov even when he is doing the most horrible things. but this time she cud she no justification except no feelings for her and being too rigid abt meting out justice without caring for her at all which again comes back to not having an iota of feeling for her. thats why naku told her mother nothing is now left for her in dutta's house.

we should have known the cv's would make things worse before making them better...they knew both nakku and audience were eagerly awaiting dutta finally accepting nakku so they gave us a shocker...shaadi khatam

yeah...and then yet another shocker...romance shuru.

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Originally posted by: kshreya2002

I think Dutta's decision abt the seperation came as a big shock to naku. dutta is a very committed guy...right or wrong if he makes a committment he sees it through. but in this case he didnt. when he realized that he might be wrong he chose to break his committment towards marriage which naku(or us) never expected. she was expecting that dutta wud try to work out things with her...give their marriage or atleast their relationship a chance...but not make arrangements to completely cut off from her. so to her it appeared that he cud break this commitment becuz maybe he doesnt care an iota for her. usually naku anticipates his every reaction or atleast can justify what he does by looking at things from his pov even when he is doing the most horrible things. but this time she cud she no justification except no feelings for her and being too rigid abt meting out justice without caring for her at all which again comes back to not having an iota of feeling for her. thats why naku told her mother nothing is now left for her in dutta's house.

we should have known the cv's would make things worse before making them better...they knew both nakku and audience were eagerly awaiting dutta finally accepting nakku so they gave us a shocker...shaadi khatam

yeah...and then yet another shocker...romance shuru.

I don't feel so hopeful about romance yet! After having wronged Naku severely ( to some extent inadvertently though), Dutta is not going to have his way so easily now! I agree with Shai that Naku wouldn't want to go back to PN, though Dutta would surely ask her to!
Of course Dutta's life has changed forever...like Kishore had predicted...the 'moment' has come and gone! I feel that Dutta might turn a theist now...for Naku's sake...or may be because he'll finally realize what a wonderful gift God has sent his way...

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I am sure there will be romance from Dutta's end. After Dutta's shocking decision I am not sure how Naku will react to it. She can be firm or she can melt too...given her character either of them is possible.

coming to the question of taking her back home I am not surprised Naku isnt returning immediately...I feel the main reaon wud be becuz dutta wont have the face to ask her to come back after all the insults he subjected her to. He cannot swing like a pendulum on what he wants from one moment to next. So far he cud implement his decisions by just ordering but now Naku made it clear how much his random commands have been hurting her so he wont order her.

I think only way Naku will go back to PN soon is if a threat is perceived to her life and dutta REQUESTS naku to return. Otherwise it will be a long wait for naku's return to PN but it will be worth it as then she will return as dutta's wife in the true sense.

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Originally posted by: meghaparti

yup she did but she didnt post each n every line I was writing it detail so it took me longer..lol😆

Yh ..I knw ....
& I just noticed that Victory 2010 posted the promo news even b4 Shona ...😆

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Originally posted by: kshreya2002
I am sure there will be romance from Dutta's end. After Dutta's shocking decision I am not sure how Naku will react to it. She can be firm or she can melt too...given her character either of them is possible.
coming to the question of taking her back home I am not surprised Naku isnt returning immediately...I feel the main reaon wud be becuz dutta wont have the face to ask her to come back after all the insults he subjected her to. He cannot swing like a pendulum on what he wants from one moment to next. So far he cud implement his decisions by just ordering but now Naku made it clear how much his random commands have been hurting her so he wont order her.

I think only way Naku will go back to PN soon is if a threat is perceived to her life and dutta REQUESTS naku to return. Otherwise it will be a long wait for naku's return to PN but it will be worth it as then she will return as dutta's wife in the true sense.

tru said nakku would again say aap hamesha mere barey mein faisley lete hoo jab chaha ghar sey nikal diya aur ab dill chaha to ghar wapas le ja rahey hoo but then dutta would get frustarated and pick her ap and say CHAL😆😆

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Originally posted by: newbe
tru said nakku would again say aap hamesha mere barey mein faisley lete hoo jab chaha ghar sey nikal diya aur ab dill chaha to ghar wapas le ja rahey hoo but then dutta would get frustarated and pick her ap and say CHAL😆😆

mads he mite not say chal and say TUHE UTHAAOO KIYA😆😆iss ghadhe ka bharosa nahi hai 😆

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