LTL Chit Chat Corner #17 *CLOSED* - Page 8

Originally posted by: SonyaBlade

Wow.....well good luck with everything. wish you the best and a word of advise...."don't sweat the small stuff"....as a former bridezilla I speak from experience. :) 🤣

Originally posted by: sana786a

thnks but im kinda frettin😆so is marrige gud or shall i run away supriya ki tara😆

Originally posted by: SonyaBlade

Harek ladki no, vakra vakra experience hota hai. App janthe hai vo koon hai? gal bath kithe hai? mel chooke hai?

(by the way, I seem to mix punjabi and hindi in my writing alot, just so you are not confused by what I'm saying....lol. I only understand hindi, and speak fluent punjabi)

Well if you have only spoken once then your relationship will be alot of learning in the beginning. Is he also from the UK??? will you have to move far from your family, because I know that my mother gave me a lot of support during some tough emotional times that I had.

Originally posted by: SonyaBlade

Well if you have only spoken once then your relationship will be alot of learning in the beginning. Is he also from the UK??? will you have to move far from your family, because I know that my mother gave me a lot of support during some tough emotional times that I had.

even though I knew my husband for three years before we got married, I'm a very independant woman, and I didn't really understand the concept of "living together" and all that it entails. (we moved in together after marriage) Luckily I didn't move in with in-laws....just my husband and I live together no one else...so that was a huge problem solver considering I do not get along with my In laws.

As for being stresses..of course you will its a life altering decision. But all I can say is that with open communication between both parties and REALISTIC expectations it can all work out..evne the rough times.

Example: I'm a staunch feminist and I don't believe that the women should be the one who has to stay at home and take care of the kids but rather it should be shared equally between both husband and wife..... i make as much money as my husband so financially its also not an issue. So I proposed that once we decide to have kids I would take 6 months of maternity leave and he could take the other 6 months...... At first he was kind of skeptical, however I encouraged and was able to convince him that this was important for our future children. (although I have the ultimate power to change my mind on this one.....hehehe) He agreed....so I'm really glad that we came out to a compromise.....\

Also I didn't believe in changing my last name for him.....so he sat down and talked to me about why it was so important to him. And it wasn't all of those bullshit excuses that I hear all the time about tradition and carrying on the family name and stuff....it was actually from his heart deep down reasons that he gave me.....so I decided that I could do it. I compromised with that....and I have to tell you that even now two years later I have reservations about the fact of why I changed my name...but ultimately I did it because I know how happy it made him.

So in conclusion each partner in the realtionship has to be someone who can listen and compromise, respect and properly articulate what they want from the relationship and from their life. If you both are on the same page about MOST things......then life will work itself out and you'll have a BLAST!!!!

Originally posted by: sana786a

Originally posted by: SonyaBlade

omg dats such a lng list😆ummmm well even i agree dat women n men shud be treated da same n men shud nt be sexist umm ive spoken 2 him once but i dnt like being around him he makes me nervous kind of i wnt be livin wid my inlaws it will just be me n him and im da type of person who will actually say 2 him dat i wnt run around u like a typical housewife im gnna still be da same person and u have 2 cook or clean 2 and da kids well dnt want dem yet i think im gnna wait a year or 2 well it depends

Originally posted by: Additi...

Kaunse classes chal rahi hai?? 🤓