Originally posted by: tanya2704
Before I begin this topic which I know very well is gonna start a lot of attacks let me tell you the reason that I m posting it n Pls read my post completely before any opinions or attacks
I have read a lot of posts in this forum that are made by KN fans who only know 2 things praise Nandini's mahaanta n call Tanya names saying she is sick , fat , ugly , shameless , tun-tun & so many other things for that matter .
They are saying Tanya should die or go 2 an asylum, but is this really fair or right. let me ask all those ppl who have said these things would they have been so mean towards Tanya had Hiten & Gauri not played Karan & Nandini, no they would have accepted Karan n Tanya as well, but their reason for bashing Tanya lies in the fact that they are hardcore GHT fans.
But even for that is it fair to hurl such words, ppl are saying Tanya is the only 1 wrong and Nandini has been the only sufferer in this trio but this isn't the truth.
Everyone so clearly remembers that Tanya helped Ansh in getting close 2 nandini, they say it was wrong of her 2 marry a married man and it's her mistake that she ahs not given Manthan n Bhoomi a good upbringing, but is it all only her fault & responsibility, was she their only parent Karan was very much present there n he is equally responsible if not more , his extra attention , love & pampering Bhoomi made her this sick person y as Nandini is her mom n his neglect towards Manthan spoiled him. How easily he blames Tanya but never accepts his own mistakes as a dad.
Karan who is everyone's darling today besides being pitied at saying oh poor guy he is living without his love for 20 years now is also not all good. Karan when introduced in the show was negative just like Tanya but later reformed when he learned the truth about his mom & dad , just like Tanya did when she realized Ansh had misused her trust as a friend as had mandira misused karan's .
But today all that karan ever did is so easily forgiven & forgotten even the fact that he had blackened his dad mihir's face & so has he forgiven everything done against him by gautam including the dandiya stick attack he made on him & marrying damini by deceit, but today he cant even do an aarti with Tanya????
Karan is behaving in the most inhumane manner with Tanya which is so disgusting , a couple's fights should not be on display atleast in front of their kids also what Tanya did yesterday by taking the aarti 's thali was not wrong.
Nandini on 1 hand says I have no relation with karan n on the other goes 2 do aarti with him, doesn't she no that only a husband wife can perform aarti together n as per law their marriage is null & void since KN have been separate 4 more than 20 years now n a marriage is annulled after 7 years of separation. It's her mistake also her dressing is so inappropriate, is this how a woman in her 50's with a married daughter dresses???? Backless blouses oh god.
Karan has no issues in blaming Tanya now but when he was kicked out of Sn by our great Tulsi maiyya as she suspected him n Nandini this is the same Tanya he went up to 2 cry his lungs out every single night, he said to Bhoomi Nandini taught me how 2 love you, hello she was in comma for 3 years buddy when u hated her it was Tanya who made u realize that not nandini.also Manthan their son is not a byproduct of a one night stand btw karan n Tanya , karan was very much aware of what he was doing to become a hypocrite now 1 night can be a result of a drunken behavior or a weak moment but regular sexual relations are not made out of pity or sympathy but only will & desire coupled with lust & love.
Also Tanya had walked out of his life n SN when Nandini woke up he chased her saying Tanya you can't leave me I m now incomplete without you, wow what was that for then huh? N where is all that now
Bhoomi is another cheap example now she is only going Nandini mom Nandini mom
Nandini mom but does that mean she should forget that Tanya has raised her it's sheer cheapness.
& the height of cheapness was when Baa the great immortal specimen of SN said we should get KN & SG married again isn't she the same woman who took karan to jail to meet Tulsi when he refused marriage with Tanya so that he can be convinced as Baa herself had wanted Karan to marry Tanya.
so what she wanted Tanya as a maid or a nanny there to raise Bhoomi and give 1 more successor to her family in the process n now wants to fire her as she thinks now lets change
What is ekta kapoor trying to say or do here huh???
1 place she picks up a topic like marital rape which needs serious attention in a country like India where women are subjected 2 such cruelty & on the other hand she is saying it's ok 4 ex- flames 2 reunite at an age where their kids should be getting married at even if means ending 25 years of marriage ?
karan n Tanya do have problems but is it only Tanya's fault karan is to blame over here actually, he refused to live in his present and sulk about his past n now he says oh I m trapped in a bad marriage you yourself have made your marriage bad, remembering an ex is fine but destroying your present over it is pathetic n sick that to when you are with a woman who was by your side always has given herself 2 u completely raised your kids n is well now not in the prime of her life to start all over again. you have devoured her of love n now even respect not her , she hasn't cheated on you like saahil cheated on ganga n now tripti is cheating on him
no 1 is pure black or white people & situations make them
