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Posted: 19 years ago
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Maybe its just me, but after seeing Monday's episode, I couldn't stop myself from posting this topic. This isn't anti-Tanya, I'm just trying to understand her actions. So read before you react 😛

I don't understand Tanya's reaction to Eklavya. What has Ansh ever done to her, that she is acting this way towards Eklavya. From what my memory serves me correct, Ansh-Tanya were best friends which is why she helped him part Karan-Nandani. The only bad thing Ansh ever did to her was that he almost killed her when she went to testify against him in court, but truly was he that bad to her (the way he was with Nandani) that she practically snubbed Eklavya. I don't think Eklavya deserves this treatment from his Dad's one-time best friend.

Honestly, when I look deep into it, I think its her guilty conscience because it reminds her that she helped Ansh part Karan-Nandani, which lead to all of Nandani's miseries and ultimately Ansh's death.

In fact, I thought Karan would react badly to Eklavya once seeing his face, but after seeing his reaction to Eklavya, it shows that Karan is truly a sensible guy. He knows that Eklavya isn't bad. And that he is the kind of person who can depict a good human being from another. After all, his only truly grief with Sahil is that Sahil cheated Ganga and then wanted to divide up the house.

Now, when she was thinking about Nandani leaving Karan and how it ruined her life, again I don't understand. What has really Tanya lost? She always knew Karan didn't love her and Karan had told her this before the leap (the episode when she comes to live with him, he tells her he cannot give her Nandani's space in his life nor in his heart after Nandani was sentenced to jail). In fact, if you ask me, she gained more than she lost. She gained a family's love, respect (despite being the 2nd wife), and she got to raise her kids and be with the husband she so selfishly loves. Now, to me the only loss she has is that Karan stopped feeling obligated to her and to her needs, which is why he treats her as a mother to his children rather than the love of his life.

If you ask me, she is selfish in thinking that her life got destroyed when Nandani left. I think Karan's life got only destroyed because the love of his life left him but worse Nandani's, who never got what Tanya has right now. Instead of being grateful to Nandani for Nandani saving her marriage and giving her a respectable life (because I think, that is the true reason why Nandani left so Tanya can have the happy marriage), she is practically blaming Nandani for her life being destroyed.

Again, this isn't an anti-Tanya post. So I am not expecting a debate for what I said, as I am just posting my views on Monday's episode. Its truly up to you on how you react to it once you see it and how you saw the episode yourself. If you are willing to discuss it in a mature fashion, I will be more than happy to reply back to you. But if you want to start something, then I will NOT stoop to your level 😆

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hmm.. I haven't seen Monday's epsiode yet but I've read about Tanya's reaction towards Eklavya, which is very odd since she helped Tulsi bring him to shanti-nikten .. maybe Eklavya did something that Tanya's not too happy about?? I don't maybe more light will be given onto the issue later ...

and about Nandani .. I'm kinda confused .. I was thinkin about his two nights ago.. Okay Karan obviously went to go see Nandani in jail right? so then why didn't he know when she was suppose to be released?? Like he would know and he would be there to pick her up.. did he not go see her after Tulsi left the house?

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Posted: 19 years ago
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there are too many confusions in ekta's serials
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Posted: 19 years ago
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maybe she got released early and didn't tell karan about it. but i think she did leave so tanya's marriage won't break. plus its always been said in kyunki that nandani will never share him and karan always did fear that if she does find out the truth, she will leave him. she did that.

and what could have eklavya done? he's positive, remember?!

Originally posted by: preity*zinta

Hmm.. I haven't seen Monday's epsiode yet but I've read about Tanya's reaction towards Eklavya, which is very odd since she helped Tulsi bring him to shanti-nikten .. maybe Eklavya did something that Tanya's not too happy about?? I don't maybe more light will be given onto the issue later ...

and about Nandani .. I'm kinda confused .. I was thinkin about his two nights ago.. Okay Karan obviously went to go see Nandani in jail right? so then why didn't he know when she was suppose to be released?? Like he would know and he would be there to pick her up.. did he not go see her after Tulsi left the house?

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: desiflavour101

maybe she got released early and didn't tell karan about it. but i think she did leave so tanya's marriage won't break. plus its always been said in kyunki that nandani will never share him and karan always did fear that if she does find out the truth, she will leave him. she did that.

and what could have eklavya done? he's positive, remember?!

Yah the Eklavya part is weird since Tanya went with Tulsi to bring him homee..

and still the Nandani thing is odd.. even if they went once a week to visit her they should've know when seh was gunna be released .. did they go one day and find out she disappeared? Ekta must be planning something with her

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I know what you mean...I was confused as to why Tanya reacted so much to Eklavya, it's not like she's seeing him for the 1st time unlike Tulsi, can't she control her emotions? I also agree with you that she is selfish in thinking her life was destroyed when Nands left...if you ask me Karan n Nands are suffering, not Tanya
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Ya! why she is always crying and taking sympathy from everyone that i never understand.if she really wants to remain happy and make karan happy.she has to find out nandini and she should give divorce to him.so that they nandini and karan can live happily and she herself can alo remain happily.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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there is NO doubt in my mind that ekta has something mind-blowing for us regarding Nandani, since its no doubt the most awaited entry of any character so far, in my opinion that is 😆 it is odd, but I have a feeling that maybe Mandira kidnapped her child and that's why she disappeared. But ekta sure has something in mind 😊

humaira

Originally posted by: preity*zinta

Yah the Eklavya part is weird since Tanya went with Tulsi to bring him homee..

and still the Nandani thing is odd.. even if they went once a week to visit her they should've know when seh was gunna be released .. did they go one day and find out she disappeared? Ekta must be planning something with her

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Posted: 19 years ago
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well put about nandani's disappearance and about tanya's selfishness.

honestly, the main reason i hate her is because she really is selfish. think about it everyone. did she ever say that nandani is wronged because nandani didn't get the husband's and the child's love, she so rightfully deserves?! she always cries about herself and about what wrong has been done to her? but truly what wrong has been done to her? she doesn't even feel guilty about living Nandani's life. her own mother had told her before the leap that she is just a replacement for Nandani, but she still didn't listen to her own mother's advice and taunts.

and she could have found someone else who loves her! why hang onto a man who doesn't love you nor a man who respects you, even though you married him and practically helped him from crisis to crisis?! what kind of a marriage is this where the wife hangs onto her husband who doesn't love her?

at least ganga was best like this, that she didn't bother sticking to sahil once she found out about his affair. same with nandani. she left karan because it was known that she wouldn't tolerate his having a 2nd wife, it was why it was hidden from her. its why characters like nandani and ganga will always be liked more than tanya because they are self-respecting and dignified women who don't put up with being 2nd in their husband's lives. more, they don't put up with their husband's affairs. nandani may have accepted his 2nd marriage but it doesn't mean that she will be with him. she will only see him as tanya's husband now, if you ask me, because that's how she is.

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Nanndini's disappearance certainely tells she moved away so quietly that karan couldnt even understand what had happened! obviously he alawys use to visit her on and off and run to her but when nandini left it certainly means she left 2 quickly and qietly that he couldnt even have imagined. like he said he searched for here so much lekin nandini ka pata nahi chala and karan's whole life became topsyturvy i feel mandira has a hand behind nandini's vanish but lets see what ekta shows

now cmming to tanya she certianly was trying to get karan's SUPPORT AND ATTENTION , thats all . She never hated ansh even when she knew what bad things nandinikaran had to go thru because of him and tanya she did get pissed and upset but she was never shwon hating or disliking him , the way she reacted to this new thing eklavya is certainly hilarious the way she was giving a speech to karan about how she hates him makes no sence , hu like u said maybe it reminded her tht sshe helped him to seperate nandinikaran but i have one question she knws it very well also tht she is the 2nd root cause of nandinikaran's seperation because of her nandini didnt come back she knows this 2 well so this means she should keep hating and cursing herself also .

when she got another rude and aloof reply from karan regrading this thing she cried to herself that karan loves nandini and she is not with him thats it why he is so bitter but no one knows my life has become a mess as nandini left karan . now i dont get one thing when she knows all this why simply cant she go to some one who can love her who can give her respect but she wants to hang on a man who is madly in love with his wife only who has left him .i certainly feel tanya's behaviour is abnormal because after every time she is scolded by karan woh ek lamba speech deti hai as to how bechari she is !well if she wasnt in between nandinikaran today nandinikaran would had been happily together and this tanya would have had a better life also . These are the main reason why i dislike this chracter tanya so much . I dont feel any pleasure in writing bad about her but the way and the methods she has used to seperate nandinikaran and then the way she acts as if she ha been wronged makes me dislike her .even the kids of the house knows about nandinikaran's pyaar and tanya's part into all this

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I do feel bad for Nandani at times cuz yah she loves Karan and first she was in coma and missed three years of spending time with her daughter and then after coming back she gets sent to jail, and now shes like totally disappeared.. I really do wonder what Ekta's gonna do with her.. oh and anyone rmr how long Mandira was suppose to be in jail? was it also 7 years cuz i forget .. and well most ppl blame Tanya for ruinin Karan/Nandani's life but i really don't blame her .. like yes she was evil at first but she DID start helping Karan and Nandani and she had feelings for Karan we all know that .. and Nandani went to coma and Tanya was asked to marry Karan .. Everyone blames Tanya as if she asked to get marry she was looking after a kid whos mother was in coma and a father who hated her .. why others couldn't take care of her only Ekta knows. But they got married and three years later she got pregnant and Nandani came back she did kinda go away but she couldn't stay away from Bhoomi.. but I totally understand why she couldn't she raised that kid like it was her own she loved and cherished her sooo much .. why would she just walk away from her?? and then Nandani goes to jail and Tanya is brought back in .. I think at that point if Karan if he reallly didn't love her he soulda rejected her .. and now hes stuck in this marriage until Nandani comes back

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