behaviours and solutions

i am a nandini-karan's fan but i was thinking over the behaviours , going by karan's behaviour it seems he can die for nandini he loves her more then himself but tanya is just a good friend!

karan's behaviour with nandini and then tanya is way different ! ok i agree that nandini is his love but he is treating tanya as an obligation or a duty !karan's behavior with tanya is NEVER of a man who loved her even for what she has done for them , but only respects her and cares for her as she is a great friend to him maybe he also thinks she is a great women ,but nandini for karan means his enire life !

karan happily broke his relation with tanya as he got nandini back , he told her that he cares for and she has a place in his heart also her but nandini is his life . for nandini he didnot think again b4 kicking tanya out and even now his is treating her as a great friend a support

i am not blaming any one here but seriously tanya should get out of nandini-karan's life because she will never get any thing more than this. she is getting a great friendship support by both nandini-karan but if she wants more she will only get hurt as even before karan broke her heart by breaking all the relation with her .

i really hope tanya finds some one who can love her give her respect in the society . because in this situation i cannot thing any 1 is or should be blamed because nandini was is and will be karan's life and tanya knows this well also so karan cannot be blamed as his nandini means life for him ,nandini is a victim a girl who suffered the worst in her so young age cannot be blamed, tanya is majboor because she loved karan since starting, it seems like mihir- tulsi and meera's case or mandira (when she was positive).i wish ekta gets tanya a great guy WITH WHOME she can live her life also happily and does not turn her negative.

this saying suits here we should not marry who we love but should marry who loves us.

yes, they r all victims of circumstances, but still there r some things they can do,

in fact tanya knew from the beginning that karan loves nandini more than his life, and he even refused to marry tanya even after nandini went in to a coma.

now that nandini is back to karan, he is sort of happy. but since he is a very nice human being he feels guilty for not doing justice to tanya. this can b seen clearly in some instances, ie
1. when nandini fainted after karan told her there was some1 in his life. at that moment , karan ddint even give a second look to tanya who was standing there, when he took nandini to the doc and when the doc was telling him about nandini's condition.
2. at the court, when he was bothered only about nandini and not about his life.

now tanys shud understand that she is and always will b an outsider in this relation, she cannot b called karan's "wife" how muchever she makes herself understand.

her char was different from the normal ones, till she married karan. even after that she cudve proved herself uneque.

if she ddint marry karan,
if she didnt have a physical rel with karan
at least
if she had left karan and nandini alone

we all wudve respected her, but no, she wants to follow nandini to the jail too. and she wants nandini to b sent to her maika so that she wud get to spend the last days of karan's life with him, alone .. and still some people think that she is doing some great sacrifice.

it is high time that ekta makes tanya realise , that there is life beyond a married man who loves his wife like crazy. hope tanya finds a true soul mate soon.

LOLZ achu i to tally disliked tanya one more esterday again ! she wants to send n to maika my god what a women 😆

Originally posted by: achuv

yes, they r all victims of circumstances, but still there r some things they can do,

in fact tanya knew from the beginning that karan loves nandini more than his life, and he even refused to marry tanya even after nandini went in to a coma.

now that nandini is back to karan, he is sort of happy. but since he is a very nice human being he feels guilty for not doing justice to tanya. this can b seen clearly in some instances, ie
1. when nandini fainted after karan told her there was some1 in his life. at that moment , karan ddint even give a second look to tanya who was standing there, when he took nandini to the doc and when the doc was telling him about nandini's condition.
2. at the court, when he was bothered only about nandini and not about his life.

now tanys shud understand that she is and always will b an outsider in this relation, she cannot b called karan's "wife" how muchever she makes herself understand.

her char was different from the normal ones, till she married karan. even after that she cudve proved herself uneque.

if she ddint marry karan,
if she didnt have a physical rel with karan
at least
if she had left karan and nandini alone

we all wudve respected her, but no, she wants to follow nandini to the jail too. and she wants nandini to b sent to her maika so that she wud get to spend the last days of karan's life with him, alone .. and still some people think that she is doing some great sacrifice.

it is high time that ekta makes tanya realise , that there is life beyond a married man who loves his wife like crazy. hope tanya finds a true soul mate soon.

i totally agree with you.i hate tanya soooooooo much.nandini karan rock.

cools,there have been so many discussions on this but i kind of agree with ur views. u have put it quite aptly,tanya wont really get more out of this as karan and nand are meant for eachother but hope she finds someone nice to settle down with.

Originally posted by: mangrooves

cools,there have been so many discussions on this but i kind of agree with ur views. u have put it quite aptly,tanya wont really get more out of this as karan and nand are meant for eachother but hope she finds someone nice to settle down with.

I hope this will happend soon😛 @least we can see somthing change in dh story😉

very well said achuv. but you also missed out something very important in yesterday's episode. in dec 5th's episode, if you notice properly, tanya was making a promise to take care of her and his child, not his and nandani's child. look and properly hear tanya's dialogues, there is a double meaning to all of her dialogues. karan thinks that tanya is promising him to tc of his and nandani's child, but she is only thinking about tc of her child. if you notice in all of her dialogues, there is a resentment building up against nandani and nk's child.

i wouldn't even call tanya majboor because she did all of this knowing that K loves only N and married him despite all of this. yet she still looks for ways to keep N out of the way, by trying to look good while talking about it. but she isn't good. she is selfish. or else why would she keep on crying to karan about her loneliness and trying to show in front of tulsi of how much she loves karan? while nandani is alone and is crying about her loneliness, to herself only. she wants tanya around as she sees tanya as her best friend.

and another difference b/n tanya and nandani is that. tanya immediately jumped the gun instead of thinking, its like she is ready to do and show anyone of how much she loves karan. while nandani is more calm about it. notice how she didn't even believe tanya's words until tulsi told her mihir accepted it himself. and even then, she was refusing to believe it.

i wouldn't call tanya majboor or sacrificing. she is only at fault for what she's doing.

humaira

Originally posted by: achuv

yes, they r all victims of circumstances, but still there r some things they can do,

in fact tanya knew from the beginning that karan loves nandini more than his life, and he even refused to marry tanya even after nandini went in to a coma.

now that nandini is back to karan, he is sort of happy. but since he is a very nice human being he feels guilty for not doing justice to tanya. this can b seen clearly in some instances, ie
1. when nandini fainted after karan told her there was some1 in his life. at that moment , karan ddint even give a second look to tanya who was standing there, when he took nandini to the doc and when the doc was telling him about nandini's condition.
2. at the court, when he was bothered only about nandini and not about his life.

now tanys shud understand that she is and always will b an outsider in this relation, she cannot b called karan's "wife" how muchever she makes herself understand.

her char was different from the normal ones, till she married karan. even after that she cudve proved herself uneque.

if she ddint marry karan,
if she didnt have a physical rel with karan
at least
if she had left karan and nandini alone

we all wudve respected her, but no, she wants to follow nandini to the jail too. and she wants nandini to b sent to her maika so that she wud get to spend the last days of karan's life with him, alone .. and still some people think that she is doing some great sacrifice.

it is high time that ekta makes tanya realise , that there is life beyond a married man who loves his wife like crazy. hope tanya finds a true soul mate soon.

See here Tanya is only 1 to b blamed coz at first case, she's the one who tried to separate Karan and Nandini when Ansh was alive, again next when her best friend Nandini was in coma she readily agreed to marry Karan....will u ever marry ur best friend's husband? this is just too sick....and now she's still telling Bhoomi to call her Ma...when Bhoomi's mom is Nandini originally....people thinks her as a "mahaan" person but i guess ppl are not looking deeply into Tanya's real face...and again she left Shantiniketan and went to some other place ...so why on earth did she come back? She always tries to come in between Karan and Nandini from day 1 when she entered Kyunki...and viewers are forgetting that.....and yesterday it was really sick of her to go to jail wth Nandini ...why can't she leave Karan-Nandini and let the cute couple be in peace...n if even Tanya marries some1 else still she'll continue loving Karan...so its better if she dies...but i really don't want her to turn negative coz it wud bcum more bad..best is if she dies.

Medha