Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2: EDT # 2 - Page 150

He wants to leave Tulsi

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Tulsi begs

Mihir jayunga to jayunga

Ab hmare beech kuchh khaas reh ni gya hai.

Mihir breaks his marriage verbally

Mihir ne tod di shaadi.

Noyna luckier than Geetu? In the long run?

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Originally posted by: adeela

i don't agree with you. Karan never wanted to marry tanya while giving birth bhoomi nandini slept into coma ,it was tanya's choice to take care of bhoomi so just because of that baa, ganga and damini pushed karan to get marry with tanya but karan refused to do it . When karan went to meet tulsi in jail she forced him she told him bhoomi needs a mom she is attached to tanya , what will you say to nandini when she recovers from coma , because nandini wanted to abort that child at the risk of her life but karan stopped her and promised her that he will give his name and love to her child then nandini kept that child . So tulsi made him says yes to marriage.

Now as you mentioned tulsi made karan to say yes to marriage ...my question is wasn't karan an adult who could back out from marriage? He could have but he didn't so why should family be blamed solely?

But why did tanya marry him despite of knowing karan loves nandini only and agreed to marry her under family pressure just for bhoomi's sake

So karan married for Bhoomi's sake, he has his reasons so why should only tanya be blamed?

If tanya really wanted the well being of karan-nandini then she can raised bhoomi without marrying karan. During the saath pheras karan stopped in the middle realizing what he was doing he said no i can't do this but bhoomi started crying so he continued with pheras with nandini on his mind and in his memories, and there is a big difference between marrying by choice & marrying for someone else's sake.

Marrying by choice or marrying for someone else's sake doesn't invalidate any marriage. Marriage is marriage at end of day. Tanya married for out of choice whereas Karan married for bhumi both had their own interests so why shud only tanya be blamed?

But why didn't tanya protest it? It's not like karan forced tanya to marry him .

Exactly Karan didn't force Tanya but did Tanya force him for marriage no. So its not right to blame just tanya for everything.

Till 3 years karan didn't have any relationship with tanya until tulsi gave him bhashan to consider tanya as his wife . He started to like tanya ,accepted fell in love with her and gave her surprises but that was just for the time being feeling because if it had been love then karan didn't left his wedding anniversary with the news of nandini waking up, he was unable to control his feelings forgot everything and happily run to meet nandini.

Karan developed feelings for tanya but he was madly in love with Nandini. I am not blaming karan for developing feelings but point is he fell in love with tanya though he took 3 yrs.

Karan got angry on nandini when she was finding a groom for tanya because tanya didn't want to marry anyone else and she always cries infront of karan and made him feel guilty.

My question is why Karan took bhumi all time to meet tanya. You may mention it as he was responsible or guilty but in some episodes he willingly went and met tanya for lunch or he took bhumi to meet her. If Karan wanted though she cried he shud have made it clear that either him or bhumi would maintain distance with him since nandini is now back from coma. He didn't create these boundaries with her. We may say tanya cried or what not but he is an adult , he should have set boundaries which he didn't so we should not blame tanya alone.

When nandini read karan's diary and fainted karan took her to the hospital he clearly told to tulsi front of tanya that he will end all those relations who came between him and nandini. He used to meet tanya since he felt guilty (as I mentioned above tanya would always cry infront of him and leave making him feel bad & guilty) and considered her his responsibility although he told her everytime that he can't give her the rights of being his wife .

I am not arguing about giving wifey rights or not...karan clearly mentioned that he cant have a kid with tanya , he mentioned to tulsi that he would end all relationships which will haram Nandini but my entire question is though he feels responsible or he feels guilty behind nandini's back he should not have met her or he should have taken bhumi to meet her. In one epi he even plans lunch with her. He had lingering feelings for tanya after nandini came out from coma however his love for tanya ended before leap. But my question is not abt why didn't karan set boundaries? why did he continue to meet tanya? if he did then its not right to blame tanya alone ...karan also should be blamed. She cried, but why did he go time and again? if he did even he should be held responsible that is my whole point.

He consummated his marriage with nandini, nandini got pregnant. And when nandini went to jail and tanya come back to shanti niketan karan never remarry tanya (the show never had a scene where karan divorced nandini to remarry tanya) .

Though they didn't show Tanya remarrying karan I believe Nandini asked them to marry. They might have not shown Karan divorcing nandini in same way we can also assume Tanya and Karan's remarriage as per nandini's words.

Karan told tanya that he can't give her nandini's spot in his heart nor place in his life . Tanya agreed. Karan neve lied her ,never gave her false promises. All these 20 years karan was faithful and loyal to nandini waiting for her to return. So who forced tanya to stick a man who doesn't love her and spent years in sn as a nanny ? Karan didn't. Tanya is responsible alone for her plight no point in blaming karan.

Tanya's miseries were caused by her own delusion which I am not denying. She was with Karan when she knew he was in love with some one else but In same way why cant we question Karan - why did he stick to Tanya? He was faithful to nandini, loved her, wanted to get back to her. He neither forced tanya to stay with him nor did he deny staying with tanya. He was with her under same roof. Tanya could have left him but she didn't in same way Karan could have decided to stay alone but he didn't. So why shud we just blame tanya is my question. Who forced Karan to stay with Tanya? No one. It was his decision.

I hate whenever tanya she says to karan i have taken care of your children what does mean? She accepted bhoomi as her daughter no one forced her and manthan is her own son. Karan makes his feelings clear for her then why is she still hanging on to him . She is a cry baby and she has no self respect.

I agree that she lacked self respect and she was crying all time but my entire point is whatever she might be but blame should not be alone on her. Karan was with her with all these shortcomings. He could have just decided to be alone then I would not have blamed him but he did...so in my POV both karan and tanya should be blamed.

Yes nandini suffered a lot .Nandini didn't get maried to ansh out of her free will, she did because of ansh's manuplalation of nandini's dada, nandini confronted karan and told him she loves him so much she can't marry ansh but karan lies he loves tanya, only for the sake of tulsi he sacrificed his love nandini, nandini felt really hurt, tulsi also told nandini that she wants to see her as ansh's wife then nandini agreed to marry ansh .Ansh showed his true colours on their wedding night that he pretended to be a nice but a psycho, he didn't love nandini only wanted her for himself. Nandini wanted a divorce from him on the second day of marriage she talked abt it with her mother but she doesn't support her. Ansh started blackmailing nandini by using his grandfather's name because his heart was weak , he tortured her a lot . Karan is the only one who felt nandini is not happy at all , he tried to ask nandini but she didn't tell him anything . At once nandini heard karan & tanya's conversation karan rejected tanya's proposal and told her he still loves nandini just for tulsi's sake he sacrificed his love nandini for ansh . Then nandini tells him the truth abt her marriage with ansh .karan is shocked and guilty he tries to help nandini Tulsi believed ansh she doesn't believe karan and suspects him of having an affair with nandini ,kicked out karan from sn.

Again free will or not , some one else manipulated or not the narrative is Karan sacrificed his love for Tulsi. He could have chose to speak to Tulsi but he didn't. So why should we hold others responsible for the mistake he did?. Nandini expressed her love to him before marriage but he came under pressure - one her family didn't wanted to get her married to her and second is because of Tulsi. However he could have had conversation with Tulsi or his family or leave everyone he could have had a discussion with Nandini abt same but it was his decision to fake his love for tanya. So he should be held responsible for his mistakes.

Tulsi realized her mistake when she discovers the raped nandini and faces the reality of her evil son. Nandini being raped , carrying ansh's child ,slept into coma for 3 years , karan married tanya, nandini went to jail for 14 years , nandini disappeared for six years (when she was released out of jail she came back to sn but when she saw the love between tanya & bhoomi she backed out just for tanya's sake ,knowing that karan loves only her nandini ) ,still karan-nandini love each other deeply . Ansh & tanya were hurdles in karan-nandini's path but at last karan-nandini overcome the hurdles and reunited .

I am not denying KN loved each other and I even explained in my other posts that Tanya was responsible for her own miseries. But my entire point is Tanya alone should not be blamed for all mishaps in KN love even Karan had his own set of mistakes in this entire story for which he should be held responsible.

Originally posted by: BangBang_Shilpa

Mihir ne tod di shaadi.

Now he can freely marry Noyna

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