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Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

Thanks for explaining, this is your pov regarding almost all shows we were discussing the precap of Friday.

Originally posted by: angel_juhi04

Amala is not having any mood swings. Imagine yourself in her place. She thinks Abeer was also the rapist or indirectly involved in that night's unfortunate incident then how can she easily move on from that incident? Don't understand why we don't have patience for unusual female leads? Why we are used to only easily forgiving female leads? Amala is not purposely being rude to any innocent or making plans to torture him. At least she is not planning revenge on person for the mistake they did in innocent at the age of 6 like it's shown in the most loved and most hyped of Star Plus which is only 2 months old. It takes years for a rape victim to live a normal life even with everyone's support. And in Amala's case, she is living everyday with a man who was also indirectly involved if not raped her. Also she has a nasty suster-un-law who never let's her forget that night. This is the reason we never get good and realistic shows because when we get them we complain for one other thing.

Noo, it's not about patience, nor is it about wanting to see Amla forgive Abeer and share normal lovey dicey moments with him! But it's about utilizing ones own logic and opening her eyes and seeing things as they are, using common sense, rather than jumping around with doubts and accusations.

It's true she does not know Abeer nor about what could have happened if he was conscious and sober that night, BUT from his effiorts, supporting her, standing up for her, infant, even aiding her to go meet Mahi at the risk of getting himself killed !! The truth is he did not do anything, and also she should now at least try to understand Abeer, see him from a point of view he is trying so hard for her to. If not of friendship but she can try to open her eyes to work to form an understanding regarding Abeer. Who he is, what are his efforts aiming towards, how he is treating her.

All that was bothering me is her close mindedness rather than seeing things from a broad perspective. She gets influenced by others, trusting the bad ppl, without critically thinking or analyzing things in her own mind. She should be curious to understand him, that does not mean, forgiving him or giving him a chance, but, to see where he is coming from. She is aware of his efforts, but her accusations shows she doesn't think from herself, but too quick to take things as they are. This was however portrayed when she was so ready to trust Annie and even her "brother"without knowing anything about them!

She is from a small town so not as quick to think on her feet, as she is used to living freely and trusting ppl. But my point is, just because she saw Abeer's face that does not mean anything !! When she can clearly see him as a person and judge him,using her common sense to understand what to believe and what not to.

Her playing "dumb" was what was bothering me.. rest is understandable!

Originally posted by: angel_juhi04

Amala is not having any mood swings. Imagine yourself in her place. She thinks Abeer was also the rapist or indirectly involved in that night's unfortunate incident then how can she easily move on from that incident? Don't understand why we don't have patience for unusual female leads? Why we are used to only easily forgiving female leads? Amala is not purposely being rude to any innocent or making plans to torture him. At least she is not planning revenge on person for the mistake they did in innocent at the age of 6 like it's shown in the most loved and most hyped of Star Plus which is only 2 months old. It takes years for a rape victim to live a normal life even with everyone's support. And in Amala's case, she is living everyday with a man who was also indirectly involved if not raped her. Also she has a nasty suster-un-law who never let's her forget that night. This is the reason we never get good and realistic shows because when we get them we complain for one other thing.