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Posted: 13 years ago
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same here...
want them together...
they are good for each other...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rtms

The two things dat will make mona fall for vineet will be the way he loves his wife even aft her death n the way he is going to be there for her children.Bulbul will be the one who is going to love Vineet the most at the end.lets see hw vineet is going to help her come out of the depression.

Even if mona goes back to pradeep, things won't work for them.may be through such a track,let evy one realise{mona,pradeep,parents,children n of course v the viewers because many want mona to go back 4 the sake of children}wt it is to be in an estranged relation.this track is likely to happen in the show.let them explore the diff angle of a problem.
I don't want cv's to spoil the beautiful relationship of mona-vineet.their relationship won't be easy at all.if bulbul is vineet's problem then vineet's dad is mona's problem.so this two have to face many problems if they want to be together.and all this challenges n many will make mona-vineet's relationship enduring,beautiful n heart touching.this will be an interesting track.it has got all the potential.cv's pls give us the pleasure of watching mona-vineet's journey.They both deserve eachother.
cv's u can hv another beautiful track for pradeep-anushka.let them learn their lessons n be happy together at the end.pls don't spoil mona-vineet's jodi.v want Moneet.



👏 Spot on! Exactly what I wish to see.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: moonlitnight

i wont get too optimistic yet.

its ekta show. she never gives the audience the logical ending.

most probably what will happen

vineet will fall for mona. mona will start liking him too. pradeep will realize his mistake and leave anushka. bulbul will stay reluctanct. on the day vineet proposes, or divorce finalizes, mona will make the decision to go back to pradeep due to bulbul, or the old feeling or pradeep's mom's brainwashig or something

what i dont get is, bulbul should be mature enough to understand what is going on . isnt she in 5th grade or higher?



@bold: How mature can 9 years old child be 😕

She goes to school to learn how to read, write, do maths, play tennis etc. She knows and is aware that her parents separated. That Bulbul knows all these things doesn't mean that she also understands and at the same time can deal with the complex emotions that come along with these facts. Many adults in time of crisis don't know how to deal with their emotions! KHTV has displayed many situations how adults behave when they emotionally are at the receiving end!

In front of Bulbul's eyes her foundation (her parents) has fallen apart. As I understand it the hurdle isn't so much about Mona and Pradeep sharing their lives with someone else. It is about Bulbul who is at a very sensitive age and her emotions! In my opinion this girl needs to be understood first! After this it's fair to expect from Bulbul to understand and be understanding.

1. She needs to be assured that her parents will always be there for her and her sibblings. Currently her environment (father living with someone else, not seeing her mother as much as she used to, working mom, mom who has friends, moving out from her old house, new school) is changing rapidly. Mona and Pradeep are lashing out at each other which Bulbul sees/hears and if she doesn't then she feels the tension. Not to forget that Bulbul probably reached or is reaching a stage in life where she undergoes a lot of changes (hormones, interests, freedom, privacy)
2. Like the school counsellor said her parents divorce is not her concern. Currently these innocent children are being used in their parents marriage/ divorce crisis! e.g Suhasi telling the children to annoy the crap out of Anushka. It takes a toll on them! They are being threatend with burning agarbattis, intimidated by hired caretakers! Not their grandmother! 😡 Rajveer out of fear pees in his pants is something she see not her parents She is the sister fulfilling the main role of a parent: protection!
3. Her parents should confirm that they are and will always be her parents! Mona is her mother and Pradeep is her father! Another lifepartner in her parents life will not change that fact! In the current situation poor Bulbul freaks out whenever she hears that Anushka is "nayi mummy".
4. Acting like everything is normal and ignoring the topic divorce is the worst thing to do. Talking in this situation means healing. The tears in Bulbul's eyes while the school counsellor asked about her situation at home said a lot. The kid is in a lot of pain! It also says a lot how Mona interprets her Bulbul's tears. She understands it as humiliating which I think is more her feeling then Bulbul's!
5. Like parents children also want their parents to be happy. They don't like to see their mothers in tears and their father angry/ shouting. In the past we have seen Bulbul wipe her mother's tears. She has also seen her father's disrespectful behaviour towards her mother. At the moment Bulbul finds it extremely difficult to see her parents with someone else, but she, like no one else, knows how the past was, how the current situation is and after some time how the future will look like. But for that the people close to her should stop manipulating her and give her the needed time and space so that she can accept her situation/ reality.
Edited by aishray - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: aishray

yes,some one must talk to Bulbul.its the best way.mona tried to talk to her but she didn't want to talk to her mother.Bulbul needs a friend.i think n expect Vineet to do this.for wt else mona revealed to vineet abt bulbul on the other day?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rtms



The moment Mona left the being friends scenario and became a mother (reassurance) Bulbul immediately opened up. She told why she doesn't have friends, why she doesn't play tennis and why she didn't tell her about teachers wanting to meet her.

I think initially she needs someone from outside (professional and neutral) and not her mother's friend who she sees at a treat (someone who might take her mother away from her). I see the school counsellor helping Bulbul out. Maybe sessions with and without her parents. Hereafter Vineet can help her in accepting that her mother also has the right to move ahead in life and have her share of happiness.

Revealing about Bulbul was more meant for herself. Boss aur employee se aage bhi bharna hai 😉

Edited by aishray - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree i hate pradeep to a core. And i would hate if ekta went and made mona character like karishmaa in biwi num 1. The giy cheated on u left u and ur kids and u gonna take him back at the end? What self respecting woman would do that? Its disgusting. Id rather have her move on wid someone better!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sorry , but i should have worded the sentence better.

I am not expecting Bulbul to readily accept that Vineet or something.
Neither I am expecting her to understand everything as an adult will.
What I am saying is she should atleast understand that is something wrong.

My friend's parents got divorced in grade 4. while she didn't accept the fact that her mom will remarry till grade 10, she didn't have the illusion that her parents will get back together, or push them together. She was accepting of the fact that something is wrong. But the fact that they are her parents won't change. I want bulbul to accept the situation something along that line.

Please don't get me wrong. I don't expect bulbul to understand the betrayal or infidelity. That is, of course, too mature for her age.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: namitagloryz

Yes, I too would love Mona and Vineet to be a couple. Today Mona tells Vineet all about Bulbul's insecurites etc. Who knows Vineet will go out of his way to do things with Mona and the children and they all become very close to him. Without knowing he becomes like a father figure to the kids. As for Pradeep I really don't want him back in Mona's life, please.

i agree.
i personally never liked pradeep as mona's husband. he just cant take how mona is capable of taking care of herself and kids. second i do like mona with vineet but i think this is not going to happen. here are my reasons: mona is shown as a mother who can do anything for her kids. eventually she will realize that it is hard for kids specially bulbul to accept anyone else in their father's place. so just for kids she will forgive pradeep (but will not forget). second she will show that its not necessary that every man and woman relationship will end in marriage. there is other bond of respect also between them. i also have a feeling that she will ask vineet to marry taani. as vineet's mother asked her to find a nice girl for him. this is just my thought . what do you think guys?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@moonlitnight

Agreed! I think that bulbul knows that something is wrong, but people around her prevent her to actually accept that fact e.g. Suhasi and to some extend Mona.

I kind of understood what you were saying in your previous post and my apologies if I gave you the feeling I was lecturing you 😳 That wasn't my intention.

Edited by aishray - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: aishray

@moonlitnight


I kind of understood what you were saying and my apologies if I gave you the feeling I was lecturing you 😳

not at all
it was just in my head and i poured it down, dont be sorryEmbarrassed

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