Trust or Duty?? Your preference.. - Page 2

I somehow disagree with u nozy... 😳

Su is pleading bec he is not guilty..as far as kk's belief for him...I wd say tht no matter she doesnt believe su in any other logical way bt she should know tht su will never stoop so low in his character...

Even if he had said that he loved nivi its all due to the nivi effect... 😆

We can easily blame su...bt its a pity that we are blaming su for the doings he did...and feel okk that kk is fighting as her duty...

Strange, isnt it?

Lyk dey say it takes years to gain sum1s trust but jus a second to lose it!

Sum of u guys r thinkin of it frm sumits view cos u know he is innocent. i mean cum on, bfore, u al know sumit had plenty of tyms to tel KK de truth bout wat he was doin nd evn KK wantd him to jus tel her de truth but he himself left it too late.

If al of a suddn ur husband startd lyin to u, ovr nd ovr again, kept goin wid ur best frend to places nd said himself to ur face dat he doesn't luv u but sum1 else how can u argue wid dat! no matter how many years u spend wid de person if dey demselves say it to ur face nd evn defend der 'mistresses' wrong doins i.e. mandir scene den wil u also put at stake de little self respect u hv left by sayin no u stil luv me, ny1 wud think ur crazy, cos u know he'll say more harsh things to u which u won't b able to tk!

Al i'm sayin is dat KK in her place is not wrong, but jus human cos i'll tel u guys now in real lyf things r very much different.

i lyk sumith but am frustrated in y he jus dint tel her de truth dat dey r tryin to clear her frm a murder case, if u want a lastin relationship u work togeda nd share things no matter how bad dey mayb, luv doesn't mk a relatonship last, but trust is also a major factor, but den again sumiths only human as wel nd i can't hv expectd him to hv predictd dis to happn. jo hua so hua, now things wil def get betta as sumith nd KK wil hv to face each oda in orda for her to fight his case.

hi

reshu is it important that one says all what they feel from they mouth?????????.

fine kk didnt say that su cant nver stoop so low etc, but at the end of the day she has stood up for the truth all time, now that she is fighting the case, menas that she wnats to get to the truth.

su went over teh top with the nivi effect my dear.

we viewers knwo su si incoincet, thats why we feel sorry fro su more. but when one puts them slef in kk's position, one can defiently imagine the crisis within her right now

pm i agree, the mandir scene did most of the damage for kk.

if kk is at fault for saying duty, su is at fault for making things so much complicated for all.

norzar

very much agree wid u norzar. Although de fact dat evn afta sumith walkd out on her, KK stil considers dey both hv de husband nd wife relationship as most women wud jus turn der bks nd break dat relation, dis shows dat she does stil care for sumith, but she's jus usin de excuse of 'duty', cos al she really wants to do is find out de truth, which i don't blame her for.

KK is jus too confused as to how de lyf she built wid sumith has jus been brokn in a couple of days widout her knowin, de rape case is a gud thing, i mean not cos sumith cud go to jail, but cos odawise Nivi sooner or later wud hv told sumith to divorce KK nd marry her! Atleast dis way Sumith nd KK r on de same side!

Although funny thing wil b dat sumith wil b fightin to win bk his true luv i.e. KK, whereas KK wil b fightin for de truth which rite now she is confused bout but wen she finds out wil only lead her bk to sumith! 😛

sory for double postin!

Originally posted by: Henna042

in dis case i somewhat agree to disagree wiv u eks... kk said 'asli roop' before tiple accused su of molesting nivi... n kk didn't accuse Su of molestation directly or indirectly... she was jus pointing out his so called 'affair' with nivi...

True Henna.. KK said 'asli roop' before Tiple accused Su of molesting Nivi.. But what KK saw was clearly & certainly NOT a love-making scene for her to further believe that Su loves Nivi. The 'asli roop' & 'sachai' for KK, at that time, was clearly Su forcing himself on Nivi, which to any lay man will look like rape/molestation.

*PM* @ Agreed that it takes a lifetime to gain one's trust..and a second to break it. But guess that rule has never really applied in SuKK's relationship..or else, as viewers, we'd never swear by their relationship like we do now.

We give KK the benefit of doubt here.. KK is not wrong, and fine, she is confused and in a dilemma. She cannot decide what she saw/heard/believes is the truth or false..and is only standing up for the 'truth' right now. Then why do we think that Su is wrong in not telling KK anything back then? Ofcourse, he had the choice to tell KK..but, like we all saw, he too was confused and under tremendous pressure, on top of which, lack of time..to save KK. He too was only searching for the truth! At that point of time, what he did seemed right to him..obviously not knowing the consequences.

I'm not trying to say that KK should not be confused & in a dilemma...and she should blindly trust Su. Its completely understandable what she is going through..and even Su understands that.

Yes, KK is fighting for the truth and wants to know the truth..all that is great and she will come out a winner here. KK may not trust Sumit after all that he did.. Let us forget that they're husband-wife..they may not love each other.. My point is, having known Sumit for so many years..knowing the kind of person he is..atleast have some faith in him that he will never stoop so low...a man who has had the utmost respect for women, would never stoop so low! For me, most of the damage, on KK's part, was done by her conscience fight, after which, right now, her position is like, I 'have' to do it..not coz I 'want' to do it. Its her duty..a compulsion.. Coz he betrayed my trust, I may not 'want' to save my husband, but I 'have' to coz I'm the wife.

To me..as a viewer..KK's dilemma comes across more like she is thinking only about herself. Her conscience telling her "Sumit ne tumhe dhoka diya".. "Tum wahi karo jo patni dharm hai" And KK herself thinking, "main tumhara woh roop kaise bhool jaaoon..main chahkar bhi tumhara vishwas nahin kar sakti" Its all 'me me me..my pain my dilemma'.. nothing about Su 😭 😭 I only wish she had thought, somewhere deep down, that there must be something more to it than meets the eye. Everything that Su did was all about KK KK and only KK..and every step of the way, knowing that he is hurting KK. But Su too went ahead, with the hope that his KK will have even an iota of trust in him. Today, he feels like he has lost everything.

Right now..I feel like I stand where Sharman & Dhruv are. Like they cannot ignore their mother's pain and everything she is going through.. but they have faith in their father. They know he cannot be like he's being projected as. Like Sharman & Dhruv tell Su "Maa aapse thodi si naaraaz ho sakti hai.. woh apne aap ka saath chhod sakti hai lekin aapka saath kabhi nahin chhod sakti.." As viewers, we know everything will eventually work out for SuKK..but I just wished there was some trust..and not just a sense of duty.. Trust, even if it was just 1%.. just for the sake of their 25+ years togetherness

hi

doenst kk have the right to think about herself? once and for all, cant she think about her own slef?

su too is thinking about himself also then, bec he siad he doesnt wnat the life, which doenst contain kk's vishawaas. why isnt he thinking about the others attached to him. he loves kk, so he wants her love and vishwaas only. isnt that selfish??? baaki sab ko phul gaya. forget about his mom and kids

kk's dileama has reached the peak now, only after the case unfold's she will be able to see teh truth

reg su not telling kk, fine he didnt, even kk has hid stuff from su in the past, so su shouldnt be singled out. lekin when ever kk has hid from su, she has paid for the consequences. be it loosing her child during chanda's time or the hell phase she went through during proofing herself as kk. so now su is going through the smae phase. its a payback time thinggy. kk used to go through it and now su.

in the current situation she is in, they isnt anything wrong in fulfilling her duty only. kyunki jab she doesnt know the truth and is confused, she isnt going tio think straight.

she didint even expect su too say that he loves nivi, but he siad it na. she didnt even expect su to disconnect aashka call, but he did na.

her brain is telling her su is wrong, but her heart si saying otherwise. its a fight between both her heart and brain. right nwo her brain is havi on her heart, thats why she used the word farz. jab dil ki sunagi, she will get back to her trust.

somewhere deep down she does trust him, just bec she used the word farz, doesnt mean she has no trust on su.

its not important that the words we always use, match our feelings

norzar

So Nozy.. from whatever you're saying, the bottomline is that all relationships should play the 'tit for tat' game.. means 'I've suffered so now its your turn to suffer' Oh well 🤔 maybe I'm the only one to think that 'love' is selfless & unconditional..especially the kind of love we've seen SuKK share over the years, that has only gone from strength to strength 😊

Sure.. KK has all right to think about herself. I guess Su is stupid to have only thought about KK all along, and never about his kids & family. 😭 So well, now KK is thinking of her 'duty' to save Su..after all he is the father of her kids. Great! 👍🏼 Soon her dil will say that Su was right in his own way.. 😊