Abhi & his secretary/friend:Mod note Pg6

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Mina

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Some lies are real and some lies are fake? 😲

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Mina

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: ..Anu
They both share an amazing bond.

Pragya was feeling cold & Abhi offered his jacket, nice gesture Abhi!!

He ordered a coffee for her & made her drink with his own hands .

Why can't every boss be like Abhi 😉 .

Girls, please watch out in real life if you have a "very very nice boss." It's nice to see Abhi giving Pragya jacket, making her coffee, chasing after her to save her life etc - because we know he was her husband. We know there's more there than it seems.

But if your REAL LIFE boss starts to call you indispensible, starts to encourage you to spend more time around him/her than around others, starts to touch you and give you things, starts to ignore your wish to put distance between work and home, starts to chase after you if you try to put boundaries - PLEASE BE CAREFUL. This is not ok behaviour for a boss.

A friend, a memory loss husband, a fictional character is one thing.

A boss...is something else.

Watch out everyone ❤️

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nitarata

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: -mina-
Girls, please watch out in real life if you have a "very very nice boss." It's nice to see Abhi giving Pragya jacket, making her coffee, chasing after her to save her life etc - because we know he was her husband. We know there's more there than it seems.
But if your REAL LIFE boss starts to call you indispensible, starts to encourage you to spend more time around him/her than around others, starts to touch you and give you things, starts to ignore your wish to put distance between work and home, starts to chase after you if you try to put boundaries - PLEASE BE CAREFUL. This is not ok behaviour for a boss.

A friend, a memory loss husband, a fictional character is one thing.

A boss...is something else.

Watch out everyone ❤️

Why are you reading wrong intentions into this?😕

Edited by -Tia- - 8 years ago

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Mina

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: -Tia-
Why are you reading wrong intentions into this?😕

I am sorry, I don't understand what you mean?

My intention is to warn everyone, as some might not have the life experience to know that these behaviours are warning signs of a predator in real life. That's not the case for Abhi - because Abhi is Pragya's husband and the show is written in a way where the audience is supposed to appreciate that, whether he knows it or not. Abhi is also her friend and they are in a complicated situation. Abhi is also a fictional character. All of this makes it ok and maybe even admirable for Abhi to treat Pragya with so much care. But it's not ok for a boss - it's really truly not ok for a boss to cross personal boundaries to such a consistent extent, and I hope to help all members protect themselves with that knowledge.

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nitarata

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Why this difference of defining only the boss and not secretary if it's indeed looked wrong? Isn't she taking ultra care of him to get his attention and taking all his favors..? Returning to work despite him saying no contract issues?😕

Why not warn of secretary behavior too, who developed a close friendship with the boss?😕Isn't that gold digging behavior?😕

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nitarata

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Anyways my point is when we all know why Pragya and Abhi are doing so, and what kind of hearts they have... I don't find a reason to compare it to something obnoxious by extrapolating it. That does not even make sense to me. Even as boss-employee cum friends the two share a mutual respectful friendship (which is more so because of their past)..and it's neither Pragya treating him like a sugar daddy.. nor him trying to take advantage. There was something very sweet about the care today that some of us might have loved. Not once I have seen predator intentions in any of Abhi's behavior to Pragya. Nor Pragya is shown to feel that way.

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Megha

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: -Sri-
I need a boss like Abhi.I actually felt so jealous on Nikku having such a wonderful hearted man as her boss.
Even my boss is there such a kadoos even his wife won't like him 😡

😆😆 You cracked me up...

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TeluguAmmayi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

Thank You girls For your concern and I agree with you both.

Don't be a secreatry like Pragya and Do not entertain a boss like Abhi unless you both like each other.