CV's logic - My life's reality

Hi,

First of all, I'm here to share my own incident..

Within a few days, I found many post about Abhi's memory loss, no one in Abhi's family was not taking care about it and just keeping him dark about His past..

The CV's are trying to show some actuality about the problem of memory loss..

Actually I'm Married.. and it's almost going to be 11 months..

My husband met with an accident after 3 months of our marriage life..

You guys couldn't believe he lost his memory completely of almost 8years.. he couldn't recognize anyone of his life in that past 8 years with him..

For me, the worst part is he forgot me.. we loved each other from our school days and got married happily...

When he met with accident, I was pregnant about 45 days..

A lose in life that he forgot me, he didn't remember me.. the shock took away my present happiness.. it's a miscarriage..

The doctor advised us not to make him remind anything which he doesn't remember..

Never let him to over think about anything which he doesn't know it or doesn't remember..

There are certain situation faced from my side, that I was away from him almost 20 days..

After that Doctor helped me and I met him.. but Doctor introduced me as his wife..

My husband couldn't remember, so he started to think and immediately in front of me he got his mind stroke..!!

I just ran out of the room, I couldn't share how I felt at that moment..

Thankfully the Doctors treated him soon, so he was normal again.. but He didn't gain back his memory..!

But Doctor advised me to be with him.. as the person who spent the time with him at the time of accident..

My husband didn't accept me as his wife, but almost after this 8 months, he was kinda close to me as a friend..

He was still under treatment, whenever he gets any glimpse, he shares it with me..

You couldn't believe, my husband still talks to me like how Abhi and Pragya talk in this Memory Loss track..!!

My husband openly said that he doesn't remember me, but he feels complete with me..

Yesterday episode made me to cry, as I can see myself in the episode.. when Abhi said "Tum meri support system.. Tum Meri factory ki woh machine hum.. jiske Bina meri factory Mei kaam hi nahi chalta..!!"

In our KKB, the way pragya and daadi keep on telling that they can't share the truth to Abhi, because if they say it then there will be lots of questions raises.. which will make Abhi to over think and leads to mind stroke or anything serious to his life..

Actually it's the fact.. Seeing the person whom you didn't remember doesn't affect your health as a memory loss patient.. but making them to think about the incident which they doesn't remember affects their life for sure..!! Which I realised lively..!!

I just shared my life incident here, just to tell that CV's are kinda logic about not telling the truth to Abhi about his past.. As medically, it surely lead a severe memory stroke or serious like Coma or paralyze..!!

P.S: Sorry if I hurt anyone.. this show KKB was having quite coincidence in my life..

My name Abhigya, my husband name was Shabir and the most unexpected coincidence was this Memory Loss track.. so only shared my views.. Really sorry if I've said anything wrong..

Sorry dear I couldn't get you, what does you mean..?

thank you for sharing.. i know how ML patients behaves personally.. i have seen my uncle in this condition.. my uncle had diff story.. he remembered only my cousin sis, i mean his daughter after that accident, and only her face.. no relation.. know how she is connected to him, but after accident he recognized her and called her name.. but when my aunty came, his question was "who r you?" and she was about to say that i m your wife, doc just stopped her. later doc said," he remember only her may be because when accident happened she was with him in his car and that's why recognized her." he used to inquire about her, where is she..? i want to meet that child.. please bring her. he used to play with her and my aunty introduced herself as child's mother. after one month they allowed us to take him home. strange but his daughter used to call him papa, he never felt weird, but my aunty convinced her daughter not to mention anything about her. she was 10 year old and she thought it is game and she was playing with him. we brought him home.. he didn't recognize me too LOL

but injury in his head didn't help him to recover.. doc tried so much.. but he used to get stress attacks..somebody informed him that, he is married and my aunty is his wife.. so repeatedly he was asking same question.. but somehow we convinced him. after that we never allowed him to meet strangers. he is still recovering. my cousin sis is grown up now. pursuing her degree. and she still go to meet him. and his condition is not predictable. he remember something for some duration and again blank.. just like ghajni.. we didn't know about this condition. we thought he is recovring.. so my bro took him to market.. and they were buying somrthing.. suddenly he asked my bro "who r you?" my bro was shocked and he thought he is joking and unfortunately my bro had uncle's wallet in his hand. he started beating my bro.. he thought my bro is thief.. then after sometime he got stress attack.. then doc said that his condition is getting worse.. and he is remembering for some duration.. after that complete blank.

my uncle still is not aware of my aunty and the girl coming to meet him is his daughter.. my family member advised her to take divorce and marry someone else. but she never agreed.. and she is staying with her parents.

dnt know.. why my aunty and sis got this punishment..😭 he is alive but they live like strangers.

Only thing from our end is we can pray for recovery..😊

Because your uncle was eventually forgetting things which happened in few minutes before..

He need proper treatment dear..

Hope he recovers soon..

You've made a very good point that CV's way of showing Abhi's memory loss is realistic. The difference is in this show is, they're not telling Abhi he's married. I want Abhi to know he's married. Don't have to make him remember anything. But then again, if he doesn't accept Pragya as his wife, that's sad too. So either way, I feel it's sad for Pragya.

These doctors also said patients need a lot of treatment and therapy and usually they don't just make the patient wait till he/she gets back the memory. So looks like Abhi is being neglected in the story right now. So as usual, CV's logic is questionable. Hope your husband gets good medical care. Take care.

I didn't share how my husband was getting treated..

Yes we are introducing his friends and relatives, whom he forgot..

Sometimes he just said them "hello" and talk normally.. sometimes will start to over think..

Simultaneously medical treatment was going in a proper progression..

Here according to story, they are dragging.. just you made a valid point here..👏