Totall mess - Page 2

Originally posted by: Cerealgirl

Maggie, I'm sorry things are messy now. It's ok, they'll change.🤗. If I were you, I'll try to fix things with my husband first. Listen to what he has to say and don't let his anger come between you both. Let him know he's important to you. I'm sure your friends will work things out by themselves. It's ok, don't worry.😊

Thanks, ya right now my hubby is more important but I still don't understand we're was I wrong, do you find I advice my friend wrongly

i m sure husband love u so much that he will surely forgive u i really think husband dnt like ur interference so i would advise u to talk to ur husband nicely politelysay ur matter to him i m sure he will understand u guys have 14 yrs of marriage that a huge love affair and relatiship growing
😊

You should talk it out with him and give some time I guess. Sry if I'm too late in commenting

Originally posted by: Maggie11

Thanks, ya right now my hubby is more important but I still don't understand we're was I wrong, do you find I advice my friend wrongly

I agree totally!!

Im curious if your husband is good friends with your friend's husband? Is he upset because you gave unsolicited advice or did your friend ask for it?

I recommend asking your husband to tell you why he is angry with you and that you will hear him out w/o getting angry/upset. Once he says it, think about it.

Try to explain why you gave your friend that advice.

Hope it all works out dear!

Maggie, I don't think you need to worry you were wrong at all. You only tried to solve the problem for them. But it could be possible that your husband is misunderstanding something. Talk it out calmly with him.

Originally posted by: -Tia-

Maggie, I don't think you need to worry you were wrong at all. You only tried to solve the problem for them. But it could be possible that your husband is misunderstanding something. Talk it out calmly with him.

Thanks
Things did workout, He just wanted to make me feel, that when same thing happened to me, I figured it out myself without involving any other, same way he told that my would have figured it out on her own if I would have not interfere, but I made him understand that she was the one who came to me n ask for help, which I did, it was up to her, I didn't said to ignore him completely, it was totally her decision
Then my hubby understood n he also said sorry to me, n to cheer me up, he spend next whole day with me 😳

Originally posted by: deefan

Im curious if your husband is good friends with your friend's husband? Is he upset because you gave unsolicited advice or did your friend ask for it?

I recommend asking your husband to tell you why he is angry with you and that you will hear him out w/o getting angry/upset. Once he says it, think about it.

Try to explain why you gave your friend that advice.

Hope it all works out dear!

Hi
No he is not that good friend of him but yes, he completely hated advice I gave to my friend
But he was not angry, he just wanted me to teach lesson n told me that when same thing happened to me, I figured out myself n didn't ask from others,
I am so blessed with such life partner, he is always by my side, whatever he does, it's alway for my betterment 😊

Originally posted by: anishapoudel

i m sure husband love u so much that he will surely forgive u i really think husband dnt like ur interference so i would advise u to talk to ur husband nicely politelysay ur matter to him i m sure he will understand u guys have 14 yrs of marriage that a huge love affair and relatiship growing
😊

Ya he loves me to moon n back, he spend next whole day with me 😳
He was doing it perposly, to teach me lesson
😆

I am glad it has sorted out Maggie!!