Abhi - the biggest victim

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Posted: 9 years ago
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A rockstar a victim? Yes, he is. What is this assault on him from his family and enemies??


This story is so anti-leads. Everything is going wrong for them.

I feel Abhi is in a worse position. The enemies are greedy and want his wealth. His sister joined the enemies. Dadi dearest expects a perfect husband's behavior while she has lied to him and went against him. Dadi threatening to leave with her bahu was so wrong. She needs to be with both of them. She has split him from his wife and is siding with his wife more than her pota? Where is her loyalty to her own pota?

I'm glad he shared his perspective today. All the things that the team did to protect him have actually caused him so much pain and hurt, and backfired totally. He is the victim in this track for me because he was targeted by the enemies and his family. I cannot believe how much he's being beat up everyone in the show and of course the writers! His sister turned against him, his ex-gf has conned him with a false baby, that baby dies and he feels responsible, his wife is playing savior but he doesn't know it, his money was gone, his dadi abandons him for her bahu. Why more do you want to dump on him, CV's?

Any perspectives on his mind and emotions now? Please share! 😊 I hope this doesn't turn into how he deserves all this or any of the history with Pragya. Please resist that if you can!! Abhi is more than how he is with Pragya. Just trying to understand him as a person. 😊Thank you!





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Posted: 9 years ago
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I will get back later! I haven't watched yet but I know I will have a lot to say.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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You make mistakes and you suffer.
Abhi made mistakes too and he suffered a lot but today he is suffering for the mistake he did not make.

Whom will I blame for it?

His wife, dadi, best friend, sister or so called family?

It cut my heart to know Abhi wanted to die after his mother's death.
May be he would have been in this state of today if he had a mother.

Like how Sarla Maa stood for pragya and does anything for her.
His mother would have done something to reduce his pain.

She wouldn't have done these dramas, she must have thrown Tanu out.
Poor Abhi, he isn't that lucky 😭

These were the thoughts in my mind yesterday after watching the episode.

Not that Pragya, dadi or Purab doesn't love him but I feel if he had his mom he wouldn't have gone through this much.

Only one thing I can say - he is strong enough to tolerate pain doesn't mean he deserves it and they give him that 😡

I want to see Abhi free from his guilt, pain and smile genuinely without any worries.
Edited by -HappyLove - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Alright I am back in here.
I watched the episode. Abhi only had one scene. But it was damn powerful. So telling.

We have heard of that saying- One is a lonely number. That's Abhi's issue.

Abhi is different from all others in the show. He is an achiever. He makes loads more money than others. He has so much talent that he is loved by thousands. He is the one and only rockstar. That puts him in a position where he has no companion. Of course he enjoys all the adulation alone, but he is lonely there too.

Hence everyone has an agenda for him where they want something out of him.

We saw that he grieved for 2 days at the loss of his baby. Literally he had no one to hold his hand, give him a hug and wipe his tears.

Although everyone wants a piece of Abhi, how ironic it is that he is so alone that no one is there for him at his worst times?

Pragya has lied to him so much that he does not want to bare his heart to her. She knows it and she stays away. And at his low moment, she leaves him to his condition and walks off.

Tannu, Aaliyah, Nikhil- it's not expected out of them to help him. But he only gets accusation from Tannu with another selfish motive.. not a shoulder to cry, even fake.

Daadi- her issue was just that her "bahu", Pragya was not there. She didn't care that her baby (as in Abhi) was mourning the loss of his baby.

All the other Mehras who eat his earning and enjoy his luxuries of course arent' there for him.

Aaliyah- his baby sister.. God I want to cry when I think of how awful she is to him.

Purab, I liked that he at least had the understanding to know his situation and took some right actions, but he wasn't able to give him a shoulder to cry either.

Aroras- Yes, they are sad that Pragya returned home. But they let him cry too! They do not remember that even when Pragya had just betrayed Abhi, he chose to gave the money he got to the Aroras than using it for himself, while he was penniless.

Again, I think all this is because Abhi is a celebrity, he is different from the rest. He has something that others do not identify with. He is alone in that place. Lonely. One is a lonely number.

PS: My heart went out to a 12 year old boy who wanted to die under railway tracks at the death of his mother.

Edited by -Tia- - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Oh one more thing- he remains the victim while all his loved ones know he doesn't need to be! That's rhe worst thing about it. It's not even like he is caught in a mess no one has answers for.
Edited by -Tia- - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yeah, it's always lonely at the top. But everyone wants to be at the top. Actually, if you step back and look at the story, it's pretty true. When you come a celebrity, your life gets messy. It creates a lot of enemies. People want your money. Or they want to control you. Or they want your blind trust. Or they are your biggest critics. His family is totally dependent on him, but dadi feels so insecure that she keeps using her love to trap him. Sometimes I wonder she's taking advantage of him like Tanu is!!😲


I feel to like or understand Abhi it helps to get past his emotional nature. He feels a lot for others and gets hurt a lot too. Emotions rule him and he doesn't restrain himself because that has worked for him so far. In fact that's why he's an artist. Feeling and expressing feelings are his strengths.

Pragya is the only one who loves him for him. They are best suited for each other. Dadi - the one both of them love and respect - has kept them apart. Abhi can get emotionally frail when family problems come up. Both could have been there for each other because this track was tough for both.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agree with you prani ,he is the one who has suffered the most in this whole track. I'm so happy that he got a chance to burst out his emotions on Daadi, poor man is totally heartbroken with no one being on his side.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Rishu, you bring up a good point about Abhi not having a mother. She would not have handled it like dadi. A mother would not have hidden truth from him or ask Pragya to become mugambo at all. He's has been through a lot of emotional trauma. He's deprived of a lot things in his life but has gone out of his way to be nice to his family.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Tia-

Oh one more thing- he remains the victim while all his loved ones know he doesn't need to be! That's rhe worst thing about it. It's not even like he is caught in a mess no one has answers for.



His own family is taking advantage of him because they know he'll go anything for them. Tanu used him for her career and ditched him for a contract.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chashmishanu

Agree with you prani ,he is the one who has suffered the most in this whole track. I'm so happy that he got a chance to burst out his emotions on Daadi, poor man is totally heartbroken with no one being on his side.



I'm glad he put her in her place, Anu. He has never disrespected his dadi. Actually he did way too much for dadi and Aliya. But elders also need to behave in a way to be worthy of respect. I'm glad Abhi rejected dadi's emotional blackmail. This is what happens if you push someone too much!! They'll push back!!

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