What is the difference between Daadi and Aliyah?! - Page 3

Originally posted by: Cerealgirl

Aliya is destroying her brother and dadi is trying to correct her - to me that's the difference between them. It's kind of weird to watch, but it needs to be done.

Mehras are a screwed up family. Both Abhi and Aliya have a lot of emotional issues!

Aliya should have been arrested for what she did at Bb's wedding. BB had every right to file a case. Purab himself didn't want to file a case because of Abhi. At that point dadi and Pragya thought with love and care she can be changed and supported Aliya.

See with this, to us viewers they've never shown scenes with daadi and aliyah bonding or pragya trying to mend her relationship with aliyah, so love and care towards aliyah is never shown. Therefore i cant say they have tried and that is what is weird. Aliyah is already going overboard but if you going to play with her, she's going to come back like a hawk so its not helping anyone. But i meant in terms of relation wise daadi has never been shown being affectionate towards aliyah so yeh...

Originally posted by: Mystery1

See with this, to us viewers they've never shown scenes with daadi and aliyah bonding or pragya trying to mend her relationship with aliyah, so love and care towards aliyah is never shown. Therefore i cant say they have tried and that is what is weird. Aliyah is already going overboard but if you going to play with her, she's going to come back like a hawk so its not helping anyone. But i meant in terms of relation wise daadi has never been shown being affectionate towards aliyah so yeh...

That Purab running away and then later her suicide attempt were extreme situations. Yes Daadi and Pragya reacted positively/humanely to Aaliyah those times (PraDa are good people of course). However, other than that, their attitude to Aaliyah is fairly negative. Not that Aaliyah deserves any of their love and affection for she has been so nasty especially to Pragya but what I am trying to say is if PraDa are plotting against a member of the family here and a person whom Abhi holds to his heart (PraDa battle is to help Abhi).. they rather not take these twisted ways but a positive one which will benefit mend Aaliyah. What I now see is a terrible path Aaliyah might take to shoot down (she may literally try it too) Pragya.

Originally posted by: Cerealgirl

Hey Nadia, yes, it'd be realistic if they showed they tried something positive with Aliya. AbhiGya themselves don't get any bonding time, so what to say about others? 😉 😆

To me, way back, dadi was supportive of Aliya when Purab walked out of their wedding. I remember Pragya asking Abhi to deal with Aliya with love - this was when he fixed BB wedding with Purab. Pragya took care of her when she tried to commit suicide. I don't think any of that had an effect on Aliya!

Hey prani, abhigya have enough time bonding just that they are too busy annoying and teasing each other 😆, they do not use their time efficiently by communicating properly. As for the examples you have given, I still feel they never shown enough to say they tried. If pragya did all this on her own its all good. But daadi doing it too in a twisted way, if anything aliyah would get against daadi if she finds out, she ain't going to spare no one so that would make her more twisted and evil. So in relation perspective its unbelievable to watch daadi planning in a twisted way against her grand daughter esp they dont even know how far aliyah would go, so all the best to them 😉 😆...

Ofcourse Daadi is better than Aalu and all, but I do agree.

I get what you are getting at but I think at some point you have to understand that you can't play the game your way. You sometimes to have to adopt the other person's tactics.

To be honest, I don't have a problem with what Dadi and Pragya are doing. With that said I would've personally gone a different route. When Pragya found out all of this stuff, she should have gone to Abhi and told him the truth. Whether or not Abhi decided to believe in her was up to Abhi. Also if someone claims to love you so much and they can't even trust you, I don't know how far that relationship will go. This whole process and the plot that has unfolded just goes to show to me that Pragya has no faith in Abhi. She knows that regardless of what she says Abhi will not trust her and I don't know what to say about that kind of love.

With that said, if they decided to go this route I don't think there is anything wrong with plotting against Aaliya. As a grandmother, yes it is her responsibility to guide her children, but Dadi has given Aaliya multiple chances. I think it's important for Abhi to realize that Aaliya is not worthy of being trusted and that she is the one person in his life he needs to keep at a distance and always be skeptical of. We don't know what Aaliya will do after this, but at least everything will be out in the open, not in secrecy. It always hurts more when someone you trust back stabs you. When you know that the other person is only good at deceiving you, you know what to expect. It doesn't come as a surprise.

Aaliya has roamed around free for way too long. She needs to get punished. One of the reasons why she is so confident and always willing to make the next mistake is because she never dealt with the consequences for her actions. She's always gotten away with whatever she did whether that be trying kill Bulbul or trying to kidnap Bulbul but get Pragya kidnapped instead.

Riya

Originally posted by: princessonline

I get what you are getting at but I think at some point you have to understand that you can't play the game your way. You sometimes to have to adopt the other person's tactics.

To be honest, I don't have a problem with what Dadi and Pragya are doing. With that said I would've personally gone a different route. When Pragya found out all of this stuff, she should have gone to Abhi and told him the truth. Whether or not Abhi decided to believe in her was up to Abhi.

@ bold...i would agree if they knew how vicious she is, and with the kind of plans they are setting up for her atm, doesn't look like they do...in regards to pragya telling everything to abhi, she was going to do this wasn't she and then her own accident came in the way and coincidentally daadi found her in the hospital, when she told daadi, daadi emotionally blackmailed her and agreed with this plan. I believe pragya would have told abhi everything if daadi didn't come in the picture...