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Sharita

@Meynika

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

I've stopped watching when Purab ran off with BulBul.

Abhi not believing the truth, Pragya being all "my mummy, my mummy".

And Sarla... you've said it all! 👏

Mannn... these people are so stupid I tell ya! 😆

P.S. what really "cracked me up", was the letter Purab wrote for Abhi found by Tannu, seriously in this digital time, Abhi has no email address? sms could've done the same, LMAO kitna stupid hai yeh drama ;p 😆

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Anam...

@Anam...

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+ 6

Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Sarla is one character I think the forum unanimously dislikes. The actor playing it tends to go OTT and that doesn't help.

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Isha

@tereliyex

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+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#13

Sarla is crazy!

Im super upset at 1) She forced Pragya into an arranged marriage despite Pragya protesting that Abhi and her were too different.

2)She forced a happily independent working woman(Pragya) to become trash and degrade herself for her "pati parmeshwar" (Abhi)

3)She makes Pragya feel as if "there is no life without Abhi"

4)She wants Abhi to forgive Bulbul. WHO IS ABHI TO FORGIVE BULBUL?! Bulbul is her own daughter and Abhi is a person that only cares for Aaliya and Daadi. Why would she possibly go beg Abhi for forgiveness? Abhi is no God nor is he anyone important to Bulbul. But yes ofcourse if Sarla wants, Bulbul will do it.

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Alishba4

@Alishba4

Beginner

Posted: 10 years ago

#14

I am just fed up of Sarla😡

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JazzyM

@JazzyM

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Posted: 10 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: -Martinski-
As far as Sarla character goes - I absolutely agree! She raised them alone and all then why is she falling week now?
She of all people should get that marriage is not everything bout life! After 3 trauma's regarding pragya's broken marriage she should have encouraged pragya to take a break be independent BUT NOOO even after she said no to marrying abhi she fainted and all that crap!

Her attitude towards BB :(

But also just to put it out there , pragya BB are equally at fault for constantly being naive about their mum! She handles everything na so tell her the truth pragya needs to stop trying to idolize her marriage unless abhi loves her and treats her better and she loves him

BB needs to clear everything whether someone believes or not

Would not want her character to die or anything but yeah

Agree. this is where I'm flabbergasted too...Sarla raised 2 daughter alone and they turned up well. Why is not shown as being a strong female character...the blackmail thingy is really making me nauseous.

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aashritha

@aash2302

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Posted: 10 years ago

#16

I agree to what you say...Sarla is acting not like a mother at all..but what can we say the society is like that only...and EK rather than changing mind sets she is trying to encourage such behviour in our society

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DON't-ASK-IT

@Sara_DONT_ASK

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#17

It's a bit too harsh to completely fail her as a mother! 😛

Seeing she's a single mother with no man of the house, surviving in this cruel world can be very difficult in certain situations.

I don't agree that she sucks as a mother. Maybe just that her emotional levels are slightly too high for our liking as youngsters.

Lets give her some benefit of not-knowing-the-reality. According to what she knows, her reaction is quite valid. But being a mother she can't stay angry with Bulbul for long.

And i always say, 'Woh Maa hi kya jo emotional na ho' 😆😆 It's all about understanding them and their emotions as a 'mother' at the end of the day 😃

Edited by SaaraDON - 10 years ago

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nitarata

@nitarata

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Posted: 10 years ago

#18

Sarla raised two daughters without a man, but I think that itself is her problem. She must have faced a lot of hurdles unlike women who had husbands, and that's why she is so bent on wanting happy marriages for her daughters.

Both daughters share equal blame too here for not letting their mother know of their issues. Pragya is washing off every wrong thing that Abhi does to please her mother while BB never confided anything about Purab with her. Goes to say Sarla has no idea what's going on in their daughter's lives as they keep on pretending.

And Sarla miffed with BB- it's because at its face value, what BB did is not fair. Running away with a groom, that too the groom of her sister's sister in law (Sarla has no idea of PuLiyaBB issues). Any husband would be mad with his wife if his sister's groom ran away with his wife's sister (moreso if the wife knew it all)! So, again, BB never told Sarla she was not to be blamed entirely for this fiasco since she had no idea of Aaliyah being in Purab's life when he started dating her and that Purab set the wedding arrangements to marry her while she did not agree to it.

One thing we have to give these girls is that if there is only one parent you have, you become extra attached to that parent and can't fathom losing him or her. Because that's all what you have.

Edited by -Tia- - 10 years ago

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JazzyM

@JazzyM

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: Laila2009

in the beginning Pragya was actually fun to watch; but her reasons for staying married are wrong. She is actually unfair to Abhi by forcing him to stay with her when she does not love him and he does not love her. If I was in a marriage and knew the guy loved someone else - even if it is Tannu - i would leave and let him be. I cannot understand why she does not feel ashamed or embarrassed.

And that rubbish about her relationships with Abhi having more status - might be in the eyes of society but it is all show...what is the point in being someone's wife when they are more interested in another woman?

@bold : it's better being single than being in this situation...

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JazzyM

@JazzyM

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: SaaraDON

Originally posted by: -Tia-

One thing we have to give these girls is that if there is only one parent you have, you become extra attached to that parent and can't fathom losing him or her. Because that's all what you have.

Both of you make very valid points...I have seen many single lady parents, some with young children, some with grown up children, many come from abusive relationships, the woman tend to be very self dependent, they love their children a lot to an extend of being over protective but never seen any single parent being week or think they have failed because the male partner is not available. In fact, this has made them more self dependent.

I'm really mad with Pragya for what she is doing to herself, her mother, her family in general, Abhi and mostly to Daddi. By being silent, she is also being deceitful. At present, my take is, she is no better than Abhi... Sorry people, I'm not trying to bash Pragya but for how long is this kind of attitude is going to persist??? I'm not asking for woman power but at least have self respect like any other woman...

Being attached to a single parent is very common among children brought up by these parents, vice versa too but when the single parent finds out what the children had to endure by hiding the truth, the parent feels they have failed in the upbringing...in the longer run, this would cause the parent the worst kind of failure feeling...this is my take... based on my experience working with Women's Group ...

Edited by JazzyM - 10 years ago

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