Ranganath and the Solankis!

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parmarA

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao

Alka...under the circumstances, and being a doctor, I can guarantee you that Ranga will aceept to live with the Solankis...because of Kapil's illness...ANji herself may request him to accept this at least for a temporary period...

i am not talking about temparary settlement,bec yesterday anji insist to stay there and he agreed,he is understanding guy,but solanki from their marriage and at time of their HM,disscussed ghar jamai,several times with shyama,and shayama opposed too,on nidhi's birthday after drunk he wanted to raise that point but shayama,'Woh diss,hum subah karenge,"so i am talking about permanant settlement.

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fanktlk

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao
a son is allowed to live with his parents and fulfil his duties by them...but if a daughter does the same, it becomes a problem...sad to hear that!

Sad... my parents lived with me to help me take care of my son.. I was married to a different city.. After my mom's death, my dad continues to live with us... My husband reminds my dad.. he has no choice of living anywhere else.. I am not an only child and yet...

A daughter is a daughter all her life. so why should anyone have an objection.. look at it the other way... Will Solankis consider coming and living with Anji because they miss her too much... This way everyone gets his wish.. Ranga continues to live in his house.. and technically not a ghar jamai.. while Kapil solanki gets to live with his daughter... No harm I say!!

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Sujatha.rao

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: fanktlk

Sad... my parents lived with me to help me take care of my son.. I was married to a different city.. After my mom's death, my dad continues to live with us... My husband reminds my dad.. he has no choice of living anywhere else.. I am not an only child and yet...

A daughter is a daughter all her life. so why should anyone have an objection.. look at it the other way... Will Solankis consider coming and living with Anji because they miss her too much... This way everyone gets his wish.. Ranga continues to live in his house.. and technically not a ghar jamai.. while Kapil solanki gets to live with his daughter... No harm I say!!

Divya, I am an only child...and I told my husband that my parents would remain my lifelong responsibility and we should consider marriage only if this was acceptable to him...in the first few years of marriage, we lived with my parents...my in-laws lived in the same city...but we still did ,...because I had my babies right after marriage and my in-laws were in no position to take care of them...so they could not object...

Then when we moved to another city, my parents came along with us...my father passed on three years ago ...my mother still lives with us...and interestingly enough, she shares an even better relationship with my husband than she shares with me...he is her confidant!

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aru29

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Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: fanktlk

Sad... my parents lived with me to help me take care of my son.. I was married to a different city.. After my mom's death, my dad continues to live with us... My husband reminds my dad.. he has no choice of living anywhere else.. I am not an only child and yet...

A daughter is a daughter all her life. so why should anyone have an objection.. look at it the other way... Will Solankis consider coming and living with Anji because they miss her too much... This way everyone gets his wish.. Ranga continues to live in his house.. and technically not a ghar jamai.. while Kapil solanki gets to live with his daughter... No harm I say!!

thats very nice to hear😛 even am not an only child but will always gladly have my parents as my lifelong responsibility and priority ...

yes there's no harm in the arrangement either ways, acc. to me...either the parents can come and live or the daughter and her husband can move in...

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aru29

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Posted: 12 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao

Divya, I am an only child...and I told my husband that my parents would remain my lifelong responsibility and we should consider marriage only if this was acceptable to him...in the first few years of marriage, we lived with my parents...my in-laws lived in the same city...but we still did ,...because I had my babies right after marriage and my in-laws were in no position to take care of them...so they could not object...

Then when we moved to another city, my parents came along with us...my father passed on three years ago ...my mother still lives with us...and interestingly enough, she shares an even better relationship with my husband than she shares with me...he is her confidant!

@bold-thats really very sweet😊

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parmarA

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Posted: 12 years ago

#26

parents are living with daughter and son in law in their home don't called ghar jamai but if daughter and son in law live with daughter's parents are called ghar jamai situation.both are diff things.ghar jamai is a rash word[in my pov] why Db is not living with Mathur's though nidhi and ashutosh both are working?

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fanktlk

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Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao

Divya, I am an only child...and I told my husband that my parents would remain my lifelong responsibility and we should consider marriage only if this was acceptable to him...in the first few years of marriage, we lived with my parents...my in-laws lived in the same city...but we still did ,...because I had my babies right after marriage and my in-laws were in no position to take care of them...so they could not object...

Then when we moved to another city, my parents came along with us...my father passed on three years ago ...my mother still lives with us...and interestingly enough, she shares an even better relationship with my husband than she shares with me...he is her confidant!

Beautiful...

My hubby and my dad share that kind of relation.. my dad can get very stubborn sometimes.. so my hubby needs to talk to him.. my dad makes tea and my hubby prefers that over mine... they watch their matches together... enjoy an occasional drink together... so i feel more like the daughter-in-law than the daughter in the house..

My mil didn't/couldn't/didn't want to ... take care of my son in a strange town.. so she didn't object then... with my brother getting married soon there are murmurs in the family that my father should move in with my brother...

My sis-in-law and my husband take the most offense and give it right back... (their side of the family of course..) ... so I have never had to deal with any of such comments personally...

My husband says... " Papa i grant you 2 weeks to visit your son... beyond that don't dare to think of more..."..

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Sujatha.rao

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Posted: 12 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: alkaparmart
parents are living with daughter and son in law in their home don't called ghar jamai but if daughter and son in law live with daughter's parents are called ghar jamai situation.both are diff things.ghar jamai is a rash word[in my pov] why Db is not living with Mathur's though nidhi and ashutosh both are working?

Alka...yeh sab samak ke banaye hue shabdein hain...humein apne liye jeena chahyiye...isn't that what this show is all about...and mere apne pati meri parents ke ghar mei saath saal rahe...bina koi hichkichahat ke...and he was never ashamed of that...because he loves my parents like his own!

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Sujatha.rao

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Posted: 12 years ago

#29

@Divya

So good to hear that...maybe women like us can work towards changing mindsets that parents are only the son's responsibility!

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parmarA

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Posted: 12 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao

Alka...yeh sab samak ke banaye hue shabdein hain...humein apne liye jeena chahyiye...isn't that what this show is all about...and mere apne pati meri parents ke ghar mei saath saal rahe...bina koi hichkichahat ke...and he was never ashamed of that...because he loves my parents like his own!

but still they believe in their old beliefs.i am not against ghar jamai,but only raising issues here about ranganath's pov.