KTLK- 2nd Ver. Chap 9 Final Chap page 55

Suvika.

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Originally posted by: aru29
Sujatha ji, it was a great chapter,liked the way u portrayed that no matter how forgiving u are , how much u try to forget something's just don't change overnight, trust takes time to be built again...👏
Thanks for keeping the promise and for the PM😛

oye, abhi time kya hua?? you were supposed to read at 9.30 😡

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: turags

oye, abhi time kya hua?? you were supposed to read at 9.30 😡

Sry😔Replied in PM naa , had to leave for urgent work at 8,I did read it at 9:30 but couldn't comment from moby...

Naraaz mat ho😭

Smile karo😛

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Suvika.

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oye, abhi time kya hua?? you were supposed to read at 9.30 😡

Sry😔Replied in PM naa , had to leave for urgent work at 8,I did read it at 9:30 but couldn't comment from moby...

Naraaz mat ho😭

Smile karo😛

chalo ok maaf kiya..aur smile bhi...

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Posted: 12 years ago

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@sujatha di... I'm getting wat u mean to say... Par pata nahi kyu jo bhi ho raha h, mujhe dimag mein bohot khujli ho ri h... M really getting irritated... Jaise- taise they get into the flow, koi na koi aa tapakta h... N again nidhi goes into her shell... Starts crying n all... N to top over it iss suraj k timings ka b jawab nahi...although he doesnt means to, yet mujjhe ye banda chance pe dance maarta hi nazar aata h...
I really agree wid u... AshNi need to openly communicate... Both in ur ff n the show... Baat tabhi banegi... I know mai b nidhi k jagah hoti toh mere b dimag mei ye doubt aata k ashu wants me back coz m expecting... But after wat ashu said to mallika in their house infront of her n baba, dat mallu dosnt matter to him n all, I being in nids place, although being doubtful wud loved to clear my uncertainities wid him after dat doc went away,instead of reacting the way she did... Wats the point crying over things dat cannot b altered... I hate to cry my greifs out to let a 3rd person know wats wrong betwn me n him... A bit matured decision wud have made ashu too at ease... Wo bechara b darr k saaye mein jeeta rehta h k kab kaun aake nidhi se kya kehde, aur wo phir se rooth jaaye... Aapne nidhi ki jis insecurity ko unke morning scene me portray kiya h, wo sirf uski nahi ashu ki b h... N communication is the best solution...

Sorry, these days, I kind of keep debating wid u, wid sum or the other kind of issue... U must b thinking wat kind of pester I am... :D

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Originally posted by: Aazeen02
@sujatha di... I'm getting wat u mean to say... Par pata nahi kyu jo bhi ho raha h, mujhe dimag mein bohot khujli ho ri h... M really getting irritated... Jaise- taise they get into the flow, koi na koi aa tapakta h... N again nidhi goes into her shell... Starts crying n all... N to top over it iss suraj k timings ka b jawab nahi...although he doesnt means to, yet mujjhe ye banda chance pe dance maarta hi nazar aata h...
I really agree wid u... AshNi need to openly communicate... Both in ur ff n the show... Baat tabhi banegi... I know mai b nidhi k jagah hoti toh mere b dimag mei ye doubt aata k ashu wants me back coz m expecting... But after wat ashu said to mallika in their house infront of her n baba, dat mallu dosnt matter to him n all, I being in nids place, although being doubtful wud loved to clear my uncertainities wid him after dat doc went away,instead of reacting the way she did... Wats the point crying over things dat cannot b altered... I hate to cry my greifs out to let a 3rd person know wats wrong betwn me n him... A bit matured decision wud have made ashu too at ease... Wo bechara b darr k saaye mein jeeta rehta h k kab kaun aake nidhi se kya kehde, aur wo phir se rooth jaaye... Aapne nidhi ki jis insecurity ko unke morning scene me portray kiya h, wo sirf uski nahi ashu ki b h... N communication is the best solution...

Sorry, these days, I kind of keep debating wid u, wid sum or the other kind of issue... U must b thinking wat kind of pester I am... :D

first of all don't hesitate to debate with me..thats the whole point of writing an FF...to analyse and debate the characters and their actions.

and Aazeen you have to understand one thing...Ashu said in front of everyone that Mallika doesn't matter...but Nidhi's question is "would he have said the same thing IF she was not pregnant." and yes, someone keeps bringing up the topic again and again...and they will. whatever happened didn't happen on one day or one single time. it was the way Ashu bonded with Mallika and the kid all through her pregnancy and after the delivery. and he did bond with them. right? were they the only people in KGH that no one saw Ashu taking care of Mallika? no na. everyone saw. Ranganath or Laxmi bai would not tell out or dig out the past. but someone who is totally unrelated WILL bring it...kuch toh LOG zaroor kahenge...and just because Nidhi doesn't know doesn't mean it didn't happen. moving on and leaving the past behind is never easy. and you can't keep covering up a wound and expect it to heal by itself. every wound needs medication and air. thats what the doctors say, right, when its starting to heal? the tighter the bandage, the longer it takes to heal. and you are talking about maturity in a situation where Nidhi just got the biggest blow of her life. do you seriously expect her to act in a "mature" fashion? and what is a mature handling? you tell me. cover it up and smile? or completely dust it off as a non issue? or smile now and bring it up again later? its not as if ashu has refused her an ice cream in front of others. then may be she can smile and ask him about it later.

there is no question that this is going to be the biggest hurdle for Ashu to cross...deal with her pain and his jealousy both together. AshNI are not living in a shell Aazeen that no one else sees them. there are bound to be interactions with various people and she is bound to make new friends. are you saying that if she is down and sad only Ashu should care to wipe away her tears and try to make her smile? and Suraj's feelings are his own. he never told them to her so far and never even let her know. and even when he is trying to make her smile, he never crossed his boundary. never misbehaved or took liberties. and he did it coz he was concerned about her health.

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First and foremost thanks for a beautiful chapter... Am glad you took the ice cream bit forward .. It was priceless.

I loved when Ashu noticed Nidhi's hand searching him and her panic expression... No doubt she is most vulnerable at this time and the insecurities have not been addressed..

I have another question..

Ashu didn't know Nidhi was pregnant when he went to get her.. Mallika didn't inform him.. So would Nidhi have come if she weren't pregnant... maybe Ashu can ask that of her? Nidhi's insecurities are so valid and the concern and more than words it is situation or actions where Ashu is tested that will finally convince Nidhi...

But am so glad you are inching towards having a decent conversation...

There was a time in the early years... my hubby and me would argue a lot... so one day I said to him.. there is a problem we need to talk.. and he said.. there is nothing wrong with us.. most couples go through this... there is nothing to talk...

Why is talking about insecurities the most difficult task between a couple??

Maybe there is some other issue with Jagan and Mallu comes back asking for help and Ashu refuses... he has to ... saying go ask your brother but stay away... Maybe Jagan is equally frustrated with Mallu talking about Ashu all the time... But only if Nidhi senses it first hand

I don't want to steer the story away from what you have in mind... but overall awesome as always...

Like JDJ we need a takyakalam... "This is it!!" 😃

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Originally posted by: fanktlk
First and foremost thanks for a beautiful chapter... Am glad you took the ice cream bit forward .. It was priceless.

☺️ practical experiment kiya but couldn't type all that..😉

I loved when Ashu noticed Nidhi's hand searching him and her panic expression... No doubt she is most vulnerable at this time and the insecurities have not been addressed..

I have another question..

Ashu didn't know Nidhi was pregnant when he went to get her.. Mallika didn't inform him.. So would Nidhi have come if she weren't pregnant... maybe Ashu can ask that of her?

he has asked her in my previous chap where i wrote the "jaana zaroori hain" scene...he comes right out and asks her "would you have come back to me if you were not pregnant" and she answers.

Nidhi's insecurities are so valid and the concern and more than words it is situation or actions where Ashu is tested that will finally convince Nidhi...

But am so glad you are inching towards having a decent conversation...

thank you for understanding that. 🤗

There was a time in the early years... my hubby and me would argue a lot... so one day I said to him.. there is a problem we need to talk.. and he said.. there is nothing wrong with us.. most couples go through this... there is nothing to talk...

Why is talking about insecurities the most difficult task between a couple??

"ego" in one word. some times we think "may be the other person would think me silly and ridiculous" and sometimes its like "i am just being silly and insecure." and sometimes its more like a denial "i am not insecure. just irritated." the last case mostly happens with men.

Maybe there is some other issue with Jagan and Mallu comes back asking for help and Ashu refuses... he has to ... saying go ask your brother but stay away... Maybe Jagan is equally frustrated with Mallu talking about Ashu all the time... But only if Nidhi senses it first hand

thats actually a good idea. Anu can probably take it in that direction.

I don't want to steer the story away from what you have in mind... but overall awesome as always...

thank you for not minding the short length of the chap..😃

Like JDJ we need a takyakalam... "This is it!!" 😃

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Originally posted by: turags

were they the only people in KGH that no one saw Ashu taking care of Mallika? no na. everyone saw. Ranganath or Laxmi bai would not tell out or dig out the past. but someone who is totally unrelated WILL bring it...kuch toh LOG zaroor kahenge...

I am glad you brought this up Sujatha.. as the reason most of were disgusted with the current track and asked the question n number of times... Why didn't Ashu marry Mallu?? Because we thought they had crossed the limits that seem acceptable among friends...

We today hug our friends... today's generation may kiss their friends.. but caressing, combing someone's hair is not something that is easily acceptable.. We wouldn't accept our hubbies behave such with their friends of the opposite sex...

Ashu lived a bubble till now... didn't bother with what the world said or how he projected his friendship to the world.. and that is a part of any married life.. a wife is affected by what the world thinks of her husband.. So many may mistake Mallu to be his wife, many may think he had an extra marital affair while someone else may think that Tinku was Ashu's son...

So all this needs to be addressed... All this would be a part of securing Nidhi...

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Originally posted by: turags

he has asked her in my previous chap where i wrote the "jaana zaroori hain" scene...he comes right out and asks her "would you have come back to me if you were not pregnant" and she answers.

hmmm wonder how i missed that... I will go do my homework.. read the previous chapters again and come back... 😃

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first of all don't hesitate to debate with me..thats the whole point of writing an FF...to analyse and debate the characters and their actions.

and Aazeen you have to understand one thing...Ashu said in front of everyone that Mallika doesn't matter...but Nidhi's question is "would he have said the same thing IF she was not pregnant." and yes, someone keeps bringing up the topic again and again...and they will. whatever happened didn't happen on one day or one single time. it was the way Ashu bonded with Mallika and the kid all through her pregnancy and after the delivery. and he did bond with them. right? were they the only people in KGH that no one saw Ashu taking care of Mallika? no na. everyone saw. Ranganath or Laxmi bai would not tell out or dig out the past. but someone who is totally unrelated WILL bring it...kuch toh LOG zaroor kahenge...and just because Nidhi doesn't know doesn't mean it didn't happen. moving on and leaving the past behind is never easy. and you can't keep covering up a wound and expect it to heal by itself. every wound needs medication and air. thats what the doctors say, right, when its starting to heal? the tighter the bandage, the longer it takes to heal. and you are talking about maturity in a situation where Nidhi just got the biggest blow of her life. do you seriously expect her to act in a "mature" fashion? and what is a mature handling? you tell me. cover it up and smile? or completely dust it off as a non issue? or smile now and bring it up again later? its not as if ashu has refused her an ice cream in front of others. then may be she can smile and ask him about it later.

there is no question that this is going to be the biggest hurdle for Ashu to cross...deal with her pain and his jealousy both together. AshNI are not living in a shell Aazeen that no one else sees them. there are bound to be interactions with various people and she is bound to make new friends. are you saying that if she is down and sad only Ashu should care to wipe away her tears and try to make her smile? and Suraj's feelings are his own. he never told them to her so far and never even let her know. and even when he is trying to make her smile, he never crossed his boundary. never misbehaved or took liberties. and he did it coz he was concerned about her health.

Agree to all the points Sujatha ji as I had mentioned earlier in the PM also , the past with its insecurities don't go away overnight...the past Will come to haunt at the unlikeliest of moments , people especially who those don't know as that well, Will comment and ask things which might be uncomfortable to us and it's not even their fault, because they don't know our story,our hardships...over a period of time wounds heal and the scars also go away , and one does learn to deal with these things, but wen the wounds are still fresh , these things are just like the rubbing of salt on a wound which nobody does intentionally to hurt u but still u hav got to deal with it...and theres no other way except communication and time to rebuild the trust that was ruthlessly broken once , to get over these things ...

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