is mallika only problem of ashni?

Alka she has taken Shyamas advice n asked for 2 years ..

Agar Ashni ki problem Mallika nahin unki humanity hai. Then toh I think, they need to go to the gomti and do humanity ka Visarjan, also.

Alka, I agree with you...the problem here is not Mallika...there is a mismatch of life priorities at the moment...if Nidhi had sat and discussed her concerns with Ashutosh and both had decided on a mutually agreeable time frame, this problem would not have occurred...what has now happened is that Nidhi has arbitrarily decided on the time frame and AShutosh, being the man he is, has agreed with her without even expressing his reservations...he has his own insecurities to blame at least partly for his angst...

But, with regard to Mallika, I think she is going to prove a positive catalyst this time...I am not saying she is going to counsel them...but somewhere in the process of witnessing her pain and the mess that her life is in, hopefully both Ashutosh and Nidhi will understand that what they share is priceless and is to be treasured at all costs...they will understand each other better...appreciate each other concerns better and hopefully find ways to ensure that neither's concerns are compromised beyond a point...and more importantly, not run to a third person the next time they have a problem...!

they have other problems as well i think.. but its alrite ... no two persons are d same

Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao

Alka, I agree with you...the problem here is not Mallika...there is a mismatch of life priorities at the moment...if Nidhi had sat and discussed her concerns with Ashutosh and both had decided on a mutually agreeable time frame, this problem would not have occurred...what has now happened is that Nidhi has arbitrarily decided on the time frame and AShutosh, being the man he is, has agreed with her without even expressing his reservations...he has his own insecurities to blame at least partly for his angst...

But, with regard to Mallika, I think she is going to prove a positive catalyst this time...I am not saying she is going to counsel them...but somewhere in the process of witnessing her pain and the mess that her life is in, hopefully both Ashutosh and Nidhi will understand that what they share is priceless and is to be treasured at all costs...they will understand each other better...appreciate each other concerns better and hopefully find ways to ensure that neither's concerns are compromised beyond a point...and more importantly, not run to a third person the next time they have a problem...!

is this a real love and maturity that a third persons can create problems and a third person solve the problems between them always.they confessed their love indirectly,after hair dye incident armaan and rohan sort out their problem.after con verma's thought that he will not agree with this type of age gap relation,when ashu called nidhi she did not disscussed that issue clearly.how can husband/wife couldn't disscuss on any important issues?only stop the topic without disscussting is not a real solution of the problem.and about mallika what she done in past was not mistake but a dam dam serious crime,and in my opinion she even not eligible for reentry in ashni's life[as a positive too]

Originally posted by: alkaparmart

is this a real love and maturity that a third persons can create problems and a third person solve the problems between them always.they confessed their love indirectly,after hair dye incident armaan and rohan sort out their problem.after con verma's thought that he will not agree with this type of age gap relation,when ashu called nidhi she did not disscussed that issue clearly.how can husband/wife couldn't disscuss on any important issues?only stop the topic without disscussting is not a real solution of the problem.and about mallika what she done in past was not mistake but a dam dam serious crime,and in my opinion she even not eligible for reentry in ashni's life[as a positive too]

Well, at the end of the day, it is his story...and Mallika had to come back sooner or later to tie up all the loose ends...am glad that he is attempting to redeem her instead of making her play tricks all over again...and if she can actually make a positive and meaningful contribution to their lives, then am all for it..

On the lack of communication between AShu and Nidhi, agree with you totally...but if the communication was perfect, there would be no problems..so where is the drama then...and, I think all couples have teething issues...the first few months of marriage are stormiest while a couple is still learning to adjust with the priorities of each other!