Poison Epi on Tues?

Anu

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: niniborn2rule

yep absolutely

Thanks for clearing that for me. Even though I hate the idea of ashni separation, I think in this instance, nidhi is more than justified, after all Yar, how much of her husbands distrust can a wife take.

Love without trust is too bitter a pill for anyone to swallow.

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: niniborn2rule

yep absolutely

i dont want that to happen ! already ashu is shattered !😭

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Sujatha.rao

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no i think what they to say is that mmallu will again try to cteate distance between ashni...they r mentioning the date of mallika's chaal(they r emphasizing coz its mega chaal and her last for the time being)...they r not indicating towards the consequences...which we all happen to know...

What do mean create distances, you mean the fact that he won't believe nidhi that mallu is trying to poison her, and nidhi will react to that fact(distrust by ashu) and maybe try and leave him after mallu leaves?

yep absolutely

I don't think this will happen...while Nidhi maybe justified in wanting time out, I really doubt if she would leave Ashutosh when he is an emotional wreck...he needs her to put him back together...the reason why the montage remains the same is because this will be Mallika's last trick to keep them apart...they can't show a happy montage till this is done...or so I think!

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Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao

no i think what they to say is that mmallu will again try to cteate distance between ashni...they r mentioning the date of mallika's chaal(they r emphasizing coz its mega chaal and her last for the time being)...they r not indicating towards the consequences...which we all happen to know...

What do mean create distances, you mean the fact that he won't believe nidhi that mallu is trying to poison her, and nidhi will react to that fact(distrust by ashu) and maybe try and leave him after mallu leaves?

yep absolutely

I don't think this will happen...while Nidhi maybe justified in wanting time out, I really doubt if she would leave Ashutosh when he is an emotional wreck...he needs her to put him back together...the reason why the montage remains the same is because this will be Mallika's last trick to keep them apart...they can't show a happy montage till this is done...or so I think!

ya nidhi wont leave that i too think though thus is justified...

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: deepa_jd

i dont want that to happen ! already ashu is shattered !😭

I know deepa, I don't want that either. But we have to look at facts also. To trust your so called friend so much, and not have even an iota of trust for ur wife. Ashu needs to understand the enormity of his actions. He has also insulted Nidhi, in front of Mallika and BB also. Somewhere somehow, there has to be a reckoning.

But u can relax, unless KP ji kuch zyada hi seedhi chaal chale, it won't happen, I don't think he will redeem ashu's character that much, and nidhi ko itni backbone, dena unki, mature thinking ke bahar hoga.

So even though,logically, it should happen like that, it won't.

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Guys.. the SCENE of Mallu coming between AshNi n pulling them apart is being used since three weeks plus... Sony has not updated the scene.. thats it..

Please chill ... har baat pe.. tension kyun lete ho tum log?

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Sujatha.rao

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I look at it this way. Ashutosh, on account of his upbringing, has serious trust issues. This combined with his unfailing trust in Mallika ( i know that is a contradictory to his nature but well, Ashutosh is a bundle of contradictions) led to this problem. His acts were definitely inexcusable - allowing her to leave the house at night, preventing BB from going after her and then, claiming her absence would bring peace. The fact, however, remains that he was acting out of misplaced trust and a misguided sense of righteousness. He did not stop to think of past events, he did not stop to think rationally or logically, he just reacted off the cuff and said and did cruel things! And yet, he is not an innately curel man who needs to be taught that cruelty is a bad thing.

What he needs to be taught is to trust. How do you teach a man to trust you if you leave him, even temporarily? This man has been abandoned all his life. Yet another abandonment, even if temporary, will only compound problems. Considering that punishment is to reform the soul, how will this punishment help when it will only push his soul further into darkness. Whether, Nidhi likes it or not, she has chosen to marry a very complicated man. Life is not going to be easy. She may have to sacrifice her own self-respect at times, in the interest of stabilizing and strengthening the relationship. But the rewards are great. For, despite all his flaws, there is no discounting the fact that he loves her deeply and will always be hers and hers alone. He may have strange ways of showing it but his love is indisputable.

To me, when Ashutosh sees Nidhi teetering at the edge of the precipice, the suffering and pain that he will undergo will be way beyond anything that a temporary separation will inflict on him. Agreed, Nidhi is paying the price for his folly but then, isn't that the worst? When your loved one pays the price for your folly? They might forgive you for your crime but it will take a long, long time before you can forgive yourself! In those few moments, Ashutosh would have paid a huge price for his folly, even if he does not know the truth right then. He would have to watch his wife's life at risk and not be sure if he can save her in time. He would have died a thousand deaths before he managed to save her from hers.

There is such a thing as killing with kindness. I would expect Nidhi to adopt that approach. Her kindness and love is what will make him repent, reform, redeem himself and make up to her for his huge lapses. Never again in his life will Ashutosh doubt his wife's integrity nor will he take their relationship for granted!

I would think Nidhi a lesser woman if she left Ashutosh now!

P.S- I know he is eighteen years older and keeps calling her a kid, but the truth is he is the kid here in matters that count!

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Posted: 13 years ago

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TFS. That great news. Waiting for the slap, my hands are itching and plan to watch it several times.😆

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Posted: 13 years ago

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poison epi is on Tue or wednesday.. only thing is i care is finally she be out of MM ..🥳

Tfs Kaks..

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Anu

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao
I look at it this way. Ashutosh, on account of his upbringing, has serious trust issues. This combined with his unfailing trust in Mallika ( i know that is a contradictory to his nature but well, Ashutosh is a bundle of contradictions) led to this problem. His acts were definitely inexcusable - allowing her to leave the house at night, preventing BB from going after her and then, claiming her absence would bring peace. The fact, however, remains that he was acting out of misplaced trust and a misguided sense of righteousness. He did not stop to think of past events, he did not stop to think rationally or logically, he just reacted off the cuff and said and did cruel things! And yet, he is not an innately curel man who needs to be taught that cruelty is a bad thing.

What he needs to be taught is to trust. How do you teach a man to trust you if you leave him, even temporarily? This man has been abandoned all his life. Yet another abandonment, even if temporary, will only compound problems. Considering that punishment is to reform the soul, how will this punishment help when it will only push his soul further into darkness. Whether, Nidhi likes it or not, she has chosen to marry a very complicated man. Life is not going to be easy. She may have to sacrifice her own self-respect at times, in the interest of stabilizing and strengthening the relationship. But the rewards are great. For, despite all his flaws, there is no discounting the fact that he loves her deeply and will always be hers and hers alone. He may have strange ways of showing it but his love is indisputable.

To me, when Ashutosh sees Nidhi teetering at the edge of the precipice, the suffering and pain that he will undergo will be way beyond anything that a temporary separation will inflict on him. Agreed, Nidhi is paying the price for his folly but then, isn't that the worst? When your loved one pays the price for your folly? They might forgive you for your crime but it will take a long, long time before you can forgive yourself! In those few moments, Ashutosh would have paid a huge price for his folly, even if he does not know the truth right then. He would have to watch his wife's life at risk and not be sure if he can save her in time. He would have died a thousand deaths before he managed to save her from hers.

There is such a thing as killing with kindness. I would expect Nidhi to adopt that approach. Her kindness and love is what will make him repent, reform, redeem himself and make up to her for his huge lapses. Never again in his life will Ashutosh doubt his wife's integrity again nor will he take their relationship for granted!

I would think Nidhi a lesser woman if she left Ashutosh now!

P.S- I know he is eighteen years older and keeps calling her a kid, but the truth is he is the kid here in matters that count!

Sujatha, I agree with u, If it happens like that. But yours is a logical thinking, based on reality and feelings. Unfortunately the writer of our show does not think like that.

But in this instance let's try and give him the benefit of doubt and lets see what happens tomorrow. Either we will be super happy with ashu or super mad, I don't think that there is room for grey shades any more, in the current situation.

And of course Nidhi shoul not Leave Ashu, merely take a break from him, and Anji's wedding is the perfect opportunity at the perfect time. He needs time to reflect on and remember the events since mallikas return to their life.

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