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BayofSarcasm

@BayofSarcasm

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Posted: 13 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: sun29

the way she walked into thier bedroom while he was sleeping..what if ashu nidhi were doing something resourceful for achange...ohh my devil mind wishes if only she had walked in on that😈..agar pagal nahi hai toh bhi poori pagal ho jaati for sure...😆

Sun that was really funny. 😆

Possibly Mallika would have jumped in and screeched Ashutosh 🤬 karna paap hai and Ashutosh would have immediatly hugged Mallu and said calm down, I will not commit anymore paap.😡😆

He will share a platonic relationship with nidhi, henceforth.

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Sujatha.rao

@Sujatha.rao

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Posted: 13 years ago

#42

Is it sharafat to take advantage of your wife's implicit trust in you and acceptance of your shortcomings? Is it sharafat to wantonly engage in personal/intimate acts with your woman friend in front of the very wife who has already expressly told you that she is disturbed by this woman's tendency to cling to you? I don't know KPji's views on the Mahatma but is he comparing the Mahatma's compelling his wife to clean toilets to Ashutosh attending to Mallika's personal needs unmidnful of Nidhi's presence or her feelings? In both instances, it is a case of my way or the highway.Except there is no highway but only my way! If Ashutosh values his responsibilites over his family and love, then he should place lesser value on his own emotions too. He should have allowed Nidhi to walk out when she wanted...why is it that he imposes his will on her and does not give her the right of choice while he alone does exactly what his values/sharafat demands of him? If he were a truly honourable man, don't you think he should give Nidhi a break and tell her to spend time at her parental home while he tends to his friend's needs. He is like a soldier out to protect the interests of his friend while his wife waits patiently for her war hero husband to return.

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Priya Shyam

@ps664

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Posted: 13 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: mohinee

So true, consummation bhi toh khule jungle mein kiya.😆 They are not an ordinary couple, they are a mature couple penned by a mature writer👏

God only knows if their marriage is consummed or not?

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purplegrapes

@purplegrapes

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Posted: 13 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: mudraswathi

waise bhi unko darwaaza bandh karne ka aadat nahi... Just like railway platform, any body can walk in and walk out any time...

mudra

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Sujatha.rao

@Sujatha.rao

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Posted: 13 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: sun29

@sujatha...nice post...i wanted to add..what abt his responsibility to the woman he married ,what abt the vows he took with her...does he have no sharafat ,usool to her ...just loving her is enough???KP has failed to provide any balance he is soo busy constructing mallika all other characters look shallow and relationships look superficial...this is a love story ...but where is the love story???they confessed out of the blue had few random dates married that is it????love story done with????

He has clearly said that they will hurt those who are their own in their efforts to do good to others...moral of the story being you are better off being in the 'Others' category than 'own' category with people like Ashutosh...how I wish he had married Mallika instead...then Nidhi could have gone insane and she would be reaping all the benefits now, if these can be construed as benefits!

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RoDee

@RoDee

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Posted: 13 years ago

#46

Thanks Tanu for superfast update...

Mohinee 😆 for all posts...

The story of KTLK goes round and round, round and round, round and round
All through the week...

Vamp of the show says Ashu, Ashu, Ashu..(3)
All through the week

Leads of the show say Mallu,Mallu,Mallu(3)
All through the week

Viewers of the show go Whaan 😭, Whaan 😭, Whaan 😭 (3)
All through the week..

Writer of the show says shu, shu, shu (3)
All through the week...

Thanks to my son who watches his favorite nursery rhyme Wheels On The Bus Go Round And Round all the time...

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saya312

@saya312

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Posted: 13 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao

Sujatha Raoposted toKamlesh Pandey

2 seconds ago
Sir, how would you distinguish a relationship based on love and marriage...and one based on friendship...I don't think it is physical intimacy since the world has moved on to the concept of friendships with benefits...looking forward to seeing and understanding the distinctions on KTLK...also, would you personally advocate that a person like Ashtuosh should not marry/ have a family...I mean if his sharafat is going to make him always choose his responsibiltiies over his love, then is such a love worth it? What should be the attitude of a person who falls in love with someone like Ashutosh or marries him? I believe media has tremendous impact on society. By shedding light on some of these points, you could be saving a lot of lives!

Very very good post👏 This has been on my mind for quite some time now. In fact, I know men who are wed to these duties, responsibilities, but with great supportive partners. Unfortunately, the supportive partner over a long period of time, realizes he/she has nothing left to give emotionally. If you don't nurture the relationship with your spouse, it withers away and what is left is only bitterness:(

As for the relationship based on friendship, you can marry your friend and have a good married life. I think a person like Ashu could have done well in that kind of relationship. As for physical intimacy, for a person like Ashu, that would be a perk in marriage, not something he would marry for. But, he chose love. Does he understand his love? it remains to be seen...

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RainbowSun

@RainbowSun

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#48

Thank u very much for the update- stopped watching the show becoz of mallu and ashu-cnat bear any more

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purplegrapes

@purplegrapes

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Posted: 13 years ago

#49

well...after today...you gotta admit "kuch toh log kahenge"

we asked for nidhi to go back to work - maybe this is the only way kp could think of sending her back to work, broken marriage and need to earn and fend for herself.

didnt ashu in one of dialogues say - nidhi can decide who should stay in the house? i think nidhi should throw mallu and ashu out in response to that dialogue. atleast she will have a home and find her way back to work.

ashmal and can stay in baba's old house - at this point who really cares about them, anyways??

thanks for the updates, stopped watching the show, think will stop reading updates also if it carries on in this way. unfortunately i am not mature enough to handle all this😉

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purplegrapes

@purplegrapes

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Posted: 13 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: Binat
well...after today...you gotta admit "kuch toh log kahenge"
we asked for nidhi to go back to work - maybe this is the only way kp could think of sending her back to work, broken marriage and need to earn and fend for herself.

didnt ashu in one of dialogues say - nidhi can decide who should stay in the house? i think nidhi should throw mallu and ashu out in response to that dialogue. atleast she will have a home and find her way back to work.

ashmal and can stay in baba's old house - at this point who really cares about them, anyways??

thanks for the updates, stopped watching the show, think will stop reading updates also if it carries on in this way. unfortunately i am not mature enough to handle all this😉

me too planning to quit.you need to be dumb like ashu to watch this show.