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Posted: 13 years ago
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Desperate conditions (TRP) makes you take desperate decisions...
this is a sad observation...

Once a show, which was running on a beautiful theme, simply went off track when the hero out of his insecurity (instigated by Mallika) fired Nidhi from her job... Whatever may be those later repercussions .. we tried to swallow as a bitter pill and the TRP contributors never liked at all...


The downfall continued like a forest fire , it just didnot limit it self to the story, but spread across every other aspect that made the show very different from others...


and since, the AshNi marriage (including), every other track is so unbelievable...just targeted at the TRP. Now, Ashu is not a character who was matured / composed / loved Nidhi with all the passion in the world... he is a typical spineless male of the regular saas-bahu TV shows...


He gets angry for not making tea on the second day of the marriage it self... whatever he does... it is indigestible & disgusting equally to literate / illiterate / young / old generations...Blind to his wife's feelings... cannot see his wife's point of view ...simply asks her to full fill his own whims and norms... doesnt appreciate her efforts to make a happy married life... (Nidhi has accepted Mallika just because of him... ultimate...🥱)..


Fully enjoyed her becoming a Katrina Kaif for him... but, outwardly makes every other statement... which is far from appreciation...ignores his wife and does the service to his friend instead... (what is filled in your brain mister? even to reach to your friend ..your wife has to wheel you there...
😡 )

This Ashutosh shouted on an elderly lady ( I agree to the point, he does not have good rapport with her... but where are your manners which you showed after Mandira, Dr.Ashutosh ??)


As the way, the show is going on... he will find Rohan's letter... more misunderstandings..
🤢... Nidhi cries several buckets... Mallika advances... BB's presence is of no use...

Hey Bhagwan... this is an ultimate test for patience... ( I dont have any facility to watch the show... almost for the past 4 months .. I am simply living on the updates by Tanu / shikha / aardhan / deepa... just for the love of the show...)...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Mudra-Except the shocking precap statement,there r reasons i can defend Ashu...About making tea-it's nothing so much serious(actually it was logicless-it's HK who made tea-not Ashu's Mom or Sister that Nidhi wd replace).Ya Ashu should huv understood it's unexpected to change for anyone within a day!!!But still it's one-day mistake-let's forget it.May b HK was not there and in this chance,he wished to make the impression among his family of his new Dulhan!!!

About this Mallu part,as Mallu is in sick stage,threatening suicide,becoming alright when only Ashu is there and no one is there of her family to take care-i think Ashu is right to give it a chance if Mallu gets well in his company...Moreover Nidhi's strong and sweet attitude towards Mallu despite her tricks has assured him more or less that Nidhi will not b hurt by his decision...At the same time,Nidhi also can't b blamed for insecurity-now they r married,it's very frustrating to see another woman all time,getting so close and it's not only just a matter of friend,Mallu loved from the 1st day and played all the dirty games to separate them and Nidhi,even if hasn't the full,but has more ideas than Ashu about Mallu's intentions or games...

Now the question,why Ashu didn't marry Mallu if they were so much emotionally attached-didn't Ashu know about Mallu's feelings or Mallu didn't tell it?if at all he wasn't interested then did he clearly say it and tried enough to encourage his best friend(!!!) to move on and be happy?If yes,then why he is feeling guilty??
So the result-KTLK part is now more valid for Ash-Mallu rishtaa than AshNi😆

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Not meaning to defend Ashu but... Seriously...

A new wife ... is stay at home and all he wanted was to make a good impression in front of his family. He did not get "angry" as much as he was irritated. That happens to most of us.

Moreover, when did not scream or fight with Nidhi per say... And when he found out what she had done to redeem her mistake... he was equally loving... I liked how he fed her... it was like he was appealing to a child..

He also explained that you are the bahu of this house and you should take some responsibility...

No harm there... come on... Most of us manage work and home and kids... I don't think the expectation was unreasonable.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: mudraswathi



Hey Bhagwan... this is an ultimate test for patience... ( I dont have any facility to watch the show... almost for the past 4 months .. I am simply living on the updates by Tanu / shikha / aardhan / deepa... just for the love of the show...)...


same with me...😕i am also on updates😭 khon 11pm tak khon uday isko dekhnay kay liye...
thanks Tanu / shikha / aardhan / deepa...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey mudra... I agree with every word of yours dear... KTLK deteriorated with a massive pace... 👏 Amazing amazing post love it to the core!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree with you Mudra , essence of the was lost long time back.
Now I am watching it because I loved this concept.
This TRP game ruined the beautiful story
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Mudra...I echo your sentiments...Though i am a regular KTLK watcher...




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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: mudraswathi



Desperate conditions (TRP) makes you take desperate decisions...
this is a sad observation...

Once a show, which was running on a beautiful theme, simply went off track when the hero out of his insecurity (instigated by Mallika) fired Nidhi from her job... Whatever may be those later repercussions .. we tried to swallow as a bitter pill and the TRP contributors never liked at all...


The downfall continued like a forest fire , it just didnot limit it self to the story, but spread across every other aspect that made the show very different from others...


and since, the AshNi marriage (including), every other track is so unbelievable...just targeted at the TRP. Now, Ashu is not a character who was matured / composed / loved Nidhi with all the passion in the world... he is a typical spineless male of the regular saas-bahu TV shows...


He gets angry for not making tea on the second day of the marriage it self... whatever he does... it is indigestible & disgusting equally to literate / illiterate / young / old generations...Blind to his wife's feelings... cannot see his wife's point of view ...simply asks her to full fill his own whims and norms... doesnt appreciate her efforts to make a happy married life... (Nidhi has accepted Mallika just because of him... ultimate...🥱)..



{{{Mudra dear, in this paragraph you forgot to include the most important thing...mature/immature}}}

Fully enjoyed her becoming a Katrina Kaif for him... but, outwardly makes every other statement... which is far from appreciation...ignores his wife and does the service to his friend instead... (what is filled in your brain mister? even to reach to your friend ..your wife has to wheel you there...
😡 )

This Ashutosh shouted on an elderly lady ( I agree to the point, he does not have good rapport with her... but where are your manners which you showed after Mandira, Dr.Ashutosh ??)


As the way, the show is going on... he will find Rohan's letter... more misunderstandings..
🤢... Nidhi cries several buckets... Mallika advances... BB's presence is of no use...

Hey Bhagwan... this is an ultimate test for patience... ( I dont have any facility to watch the show... almost for the past 4 months .. I am simply living on the updates by Tanu / shikha / aardhan / deepa... just for the love of the show...)...




{{{Dont worry Mudra at least you are getting only your visual sense tortured; but we are getting our audio and video senses tortured. Very accurate observation without even looking at the epic. You are just great. I wish you had the devine vision like Sanjaya from the Bhagawat Geeta. From the palace of the old and blind king Dhrutarashtra he could see everything that was happening on the battlefield of Kurukshetra where the war between the Paandavaas and the Kauravaas was being fought.}}}}
Edited by kpbhakta - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SwastikAshNi

@Mudra-Except the shocking precap statement,there r reasons i can defend Ashu...About making tea-it's nothing so much serious(actually it was logicless-it's HK who made tea-not Ashu's Mom or Sister that Nidhi wd replace).Ya Ashu should huv understood it's unexpected to change for anyone within a day!!!But still it's one-day mistake-let's forget it.May b HK was not there and in this chance,he wished to make the impression among his family of his new Dulhan!!!

About this Mallu part,as Mallu is in sick stage,threatening suicide,becoming alright when only Ashu is there and no one is there of her family to take care-i think Ashu is right to give it a chance if Mallu gets well in his company...Moreover Nidhi's strong and sweet attitude towards Mallu despite her tricks has assured him more or less that Nidhi will not b hurt by his decision...At the same time,Nidhi also can't b blamed for insecurity-now they r married,it's very frustrating to see another woman all time,getting so close and it's not only just a matter of friend,Mallu loved from the 1st day and played all the dirty games to separate them and Nidhi,even if hasn't the full,but has more ideas than Ashu about Mallu's intentions or games...

Now the question,why Ashu didn't marry Mallu if they were so much emotionally attached-didn't Ashu know about Mallu's feelings or Mallu didn't tell it?if at all he wasn't interested then did he clearly say it and tried enough to encourage his best friend(!!!) to move on and be happy?If yes,then why he is feeling guilty??
So the result-KTLK part is now more valid for Ash-Mallu rishtaa than AshNi😆




@Swastik...Suhasini once says to Malli that " 12 saal tak you did something( I dont remember exctly what she said but the essence was you hardly did anything) aur Nidhine baaji maar di .Ashuke bedroom ke parde badle uske kitchen tak chali gayi ( something of that effect epic 34 from time 12.38 to 13.17). So that means Malli was not successful in making Ashu Love her. In one of the epic Ashu tells her that "mai aapko kabse yeh kehete aaya hun ke main tumhe friendshipse jyada aur usase come kuchh nahi de sakataa. If I marry you I will be able to give you only Tanhaaai. Moreover I wont be a good friend, a good husband and a good person." ( epic 4 from time 17.00 - 19.05,epic 2 from time 15.50 - 17.15, epic 65 from time 00.02 - 00.30 ) He is being shown feeling guilty because of the fact that he couldnt stop her from marrying Jagan ( but then she was only going to stop marrying Jagan if Ashu would have agreed to marry her. (it still dosnt make sense cos he had clearly told her that he cant marry her. So feeling guilty because of not stopping her is completely ruled out) . OK he can be guilty because he took the House that she gifted him and didnt keep his promise of giving her whatever she wants, in return to the happiness that he got by getting that House back.

Ashu also said to her once that "mere hath me hota to tumhare siva mai kisise pyar nahi karta. Per mera pyaar mere haath me nahi tha " (epic 77 from time 7.45 - 13.25) That means Ashu never loved her and because of that he didnt want to marry her. Ashu was not ready to marry Malli just because she loved him; he wanted himself loving her as well. (both loving each other)
This was the case with him and Nidhi so he married her.(very straight forward logic and strategy)

If he would have loved, had romance with Nidhi without any interruptions Nidhi would have been happy. But KP & Co didnt let that happen. So Nidhi is a victim of the emotional attyaachaar by KP & CO.

Again some thoughts that came to mind after reading your post thats all. The wound is still very Geheri.
Edited by kpbhakta - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by mudraswathi



Hey Bhagwan... this is an ultimate test for patience... ( I dont have any facility to watch the show... almost for the past 4 months .. I am simply living on the updates by Tanu / shikha / aardhan / deepa... just for the love of the show...)...
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@ritu3kumar....same with me...😕i am also on updates😭 khon 11pm tak khon uday isko dekhnay kay liye...
thanks Tanu / shikha / aardhan / deepa...

I too am only on written updates now...

Tanu / shikha / aardhan / deepa...Please accept my thanx also...



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