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When I started watching this show was for Ashu I thought wow this girl is very lucky to have a hubby like him and I told my husband why can't every guy be like him,but after today's epi I find him no different from others...where is that Ashu who said anything for you Nidhi tum hara nella lull Jo bhi kaho gi me banu ga...why the sudden change,come on man waking up early is not a big issue ...

Super duper aaradhan...

Originally posted by: Armu4eva

Super duper aaradhan...

i totally get ur dilema 👍🏼

its kinda like the alarm clock started to ring n our 'sundar sapna' of ashni love.. broke.. n we got a lil jolt.. into reality...

while there were many precursors to this track.. like nidhis words to ashu n db saying dat nidhis true task starts now.. once she is back from hm... but still ... dil to hamesha mange more..

i really hope cvs dun intend to turn the show into complete saas-bahu..dat did b realy sad.. n i dun wanna see nidhi as a house wife

Yes Tanu. The tea scene yesterday is a perfect example. That is a really nice way of showing how Ashni handle their little differences. Again, if the roles were reversed even yesterday, the situation could have become tense. It was Nidhi's maturity and willingness to compromise that saved their day. This is what Ashu needs to understand and learn from Nidhi. She may be the younger partner but when it comes to relationship Ashu is the novice. He is the weak link, the immature one. And he is the one who has to catch up and if he displays that willingness to change Nidhi will contribute 110% to his efforts. The recent HM is a glaring example where she helped ease Ashu so much that he opened to her so completely.

I mentioned this the other day and I repeat. When it comes to this relationship Nidhi will have to assume many roles. She has to be wife, lover, friend, confidante, teacher and to a certain extent even mother to Ashu, atleast till Ashu becomes completely confident about this relationship. When he starts understanding the nuances and complications of the workings of a relationship, he will be able to lead.

Coming to Nidhi's work, I do agree she needs to work. Its an insult to her itelligence and doctoring capabilities that the CVs have reduced her to a house wife. But having said that, with this current track I can see where the CVs are coming from. It is one thing if Nidhi was always working but to introduce that professional relationship at this moment will not be a smart move. These two need to get a strong foothold on their marriage, and adding a new professional angle will only lead to more turmoil and negativity. I think at this point the CVs are forced to hold off on this aspect.

Mallu will be back soon. I had hoped Nidhi would be working by then, but seems like this will remain a dream for now. As far as Mallu, I would not mind her in the show but I hope CVs will hold back in bringing her to Lucknow. For now, hope the CVs just show Mallu-Jagan marriage, so we get a background into her life too. They can reintroduce her in Ashni life gradually. Just my POV!

Originally posted by: saya312

omg, maybe that's the reason for this mu..not enough action😉..god, i've to leave gutterland fast, I'm supposed to be working😆

Thanks for the update Tanu
Saw the episode just now and found it really weird that they decided to show the harsh realities of life so soon. 😕I was expecting a continuance of soft romance but it seems as if I crash landed into melodrama.

Liked the first part of the episode but I was pleasantly surprised that Ashu was not angry with Nidhi for making their private exchange public. Nidhi looking at Ashu with so much love in her eyes in always a pleasure to watch.❤️

Although I am scared about Nidhi's creepy DB butting into AshNi's world, I am not actually surprised to see Ashu angry at Nidhi. I won't even blame him for doing that. Its like this inbuilt thing in guys, I guess. 🤓I have seen both my brother and brother in law do it when they don't get the proper attention they expect from their wives.😆 I think if DB does not interfere, this might actually be a very good occasion for Ashu and Nidhi to learn more about each other.

Ashu needs to learn(more like remember) that Nidhi is not a normal wife, she is way younger and although she might fail him sometimes, its not because that she does not care about him but it is more because she is still not completely mature and he should not be expecting her to be so with in such a shot span of time.

And Nidhi needs to start growing up gradually. I don't even think it was her fault today. Although I totally can't relate to her since I have been doing chores to help my mom since I was in 7th grade and I used to be so surprised at my friends who said they have never cooked or helped with other stuff before. But yes I know girls like her and they don't become responsible in a day. That girl has spent 24 years of age being pampered and her husband is expecting her to become a ideal homemaker within two days of marriage. Thats a lot to ask for.

Precap: Looks good. I really want Ashu to grovel this time since being angry is one thing but ignoring and cutting off some one is another thing. The latter one hurts a lot more.💔

Thanks Tanu for a nice tit tat hubby-wifey squabble epi update! 😳

Yet to see epi - too much work!

cute post tanu..

I do not understand why being a part of a joint family should be shameful. Why does Ranga have to act as if his family is like some 'untouchable community". I felt the reason very stupid ... They just had to bring in some masala and so they showed this. Ranga was behaving pretty stupidly in the hosp when he was telling Anji abt his family. My POV of course..

Originally posted by: aardhan

Wonderful update Tanu. I really liked the first two lines in your update.👍🏼 As

SK needs a pat on his back for this particular scene. 👏 Ofcourse, the introvert that he is he does not say anything. But the cold shoulder and sarcasm he directed towards Nidhi when she came with lunch even got me scared. 😲 A rare glimpse of Dr.Hardstone! For all those who thought SK cannot pull off this side of Ashu they will be eating their words today. 😃 What a display of his acting skills in the span of one epi! 👏

Today Nidhi's childishness and innocence got her into trouble but Ashu's refusal to listen to her was taking it too far.😒 He even refused to hear her out and just dumped a bunch assumptions on her! 😡 Nidhi will have to grow up fast now and she will. She is quick, never repeats her mistakes. 🤔 Remember the hair dye epi, Nidhi did not dare give him another gift till the wedding and now she is careful selecting one. 👍🏼 Ashu misunderstanding Nidhi is not new, but the last time it happened they had just started dating. 🤔 This time its not done Ashu.👎🏼 I understand you wanted everyone to taste Nidhi's chai, you were looking forward to AKC and you were disappointed, but she just had a tiring day yesterday when she cooked up a storm, literally and made you all so happy.😲 So you need to give her some concessions, she is trying her best. And I hope this is what Ashu will realize tomorrow and display a little more patience towards Nidhi. 🥺

I hope CVs will hold off on the DB influence, Ashni can do without it. Finally CB is back to being the supportive father, thank god. 👏 Atleast he is keeping a tight leash on DB and seems to have full faith in his daughter! 👏 I am hoping when DB comes all will be well bw Ashni... please CVs only this can maintain positivity. If DB and later Mallu start throwing her age-gap jaap around, AShni will break up even before they have a chance at marital bliss! 😈

once again an crystal clear analysis...

Originally posted by: Armu4eva

DB should b kept out.. or i tell u ...she will make this a big MU between AshNi ... Ashu will b hurt to see Nidhi call her family .. into all this small hubby-wifey stuff and Nidhi will b upset with Ashu anger..! 😒

i agreed with you tanu ashu will feel really bad he will think that nidhi has called db
but he dosent no the truth ,hope she stop interfering in ashu & nidhi life
becoz real fact is that no one should interfere in hubby wife matter for once they will will fight & other day they will sit & chat & other person becomes bad in that matter

i hope next time nidhi will get up early in the morning for making tea & breakfast


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