Want to hear once .. - Page 3

And dev Is still tied to moms pallu, when she is offering to go away for few days!

Say yes that Is a great idea, few months/years...

And she still says ' sonakshi tumhe yon nahi samaj pati" instead of saying tum use samajhne ki koshish karo!"

She is a silent relationship killer, and the Dementor in their "potter " world! Along w English murderer bhabhi...

She is more scary than the psycho behind Elena these days! Watching their every move and then blaming sonakshi!

Jeez if this goes on, won't feel bad if show is axed,

Love ayush and shush along w dev and sonakshi...+only 4 I will really miss.

No matter how much "ROMANCE" they try to bring up between Sonakshi and Dev, I am not able to accept it because Dev doesnt take a stand for Sonakshi. Its not Ishwari that is bothering me . It is Dev's lack of clarity towards his relationship with his wife that makes me saddened. When he has to choose between his mom and his wife. He doesnt think about right or wrong he only sees the relationship and if it is his mother then even if she makes a mistake , the other person has to adjust and act as if nothing has happened.

Its not about who we support or which relationship we choose. Its always about standing up for people who are right and correcting family members who are wrong. And that is what Dev lacks. He cannot accept in front of others or even to himself that his mother is wrong. But if his wife does the same mistake he doesnt mind shouting at her or even disowning her. And this has been always the problem with Dev.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

No matter how much "ROMANCE" they try to bring up between Sonakshi and Dev, I am not able to accept it because Dev doesnt take a stand for Sonakshi. Its not Ishwari that is bothering me . It is Dev's lack of clarity towards his relationship with his wife that makes me saddened. When he has to choose between his mom and his wife. He doesnt think about right or wrong he only sees the relationship and if it is his mother then even if she makes a mistake , the other person has to adjust and act as if nothing has happened.

Its not about who we support or which relationship we choose. Its always about standing up for people who are right and correcting family members who are wrong. And that is what Dev lacks. He cannot accept in front of others or even to himself that his mother is wrong. But if his wife does the same mistake he doesnt mind shouting at her or even disowning her. And this has been always the problem with Dev.

Whatever lollipops they are showing does not make sense any more.

I am afraid, fans might demand permanent divorce this time.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

No matter how much "ROMANCE" they try to bring up between Sonakshi and Dev, I am not able to accept it because Dev doesnt take a stand for Sonakshi. Its not Ishwari that is bothering me . It is Dev's lack of clarity towards his relationship with his wife that makes me saddened. When he has to choose between his mom and his wife. He doesnt think about right or wrong he only sees the relationship and if it is his mother then even if she makes a mistake , the other person has to adjust and act as if nothing has happened.

Its not about who we support or which relationship we choose. Its always about standing up for people who are right and correcting family members who are wrong. And that is what Dev lacks. He cannot accept in front of others or even to himself that his mother is wrong. But if his wife does the same mistake he doesnt mind shouting at her or even disowning her. And this has been always the problem with Dev.

This is how I am seeing it too. He loves her a lot and cares a lot about her. But there is a condition. That condition is his mother. He cannot take a stand for her in front of his mother and he expects her to know this, understand this and accept this.

He is able to accept that she can make mistakes, but unable to confront her with them.

The other big problem is Dev and Ishwari are one unit, one team. Even before in S1, when he found out his mother had turned back Sona and baby Suhana, he was devastated. But always referred to this incident as 'humne uski maa ko ghar mein aane nahi diya'. 'Humne' is the effective word, even though he himself had no idea about it and wouldn't have done that ever. He recognized that Ishwari made a huge mistake, but can't point to it, 'tumne'. He automatically associates himself also with that mistake and refers to 'Humne'. Later, before the fake engagement with Nisha in the heart-to-heart with Ishwari, again he refers to 'humne use hara diya'. Once again, not able to dissociate himself from her.

Problem is when he is in a team with his mother, he can't stand with his wife. So when Sona points out his mother's mistakes, he also takes it as not just Ishwari's mistakes, but his own personal ones as well.

He needs to understand that in a marriage, he needs to be on the same team as his wife, be one unit with Sona. That is not happening. Sona wants them to be one unit, taking decisions together. But for that to happen, the previously tightly wound unit needs to dissociate. Neither Dev not Ishwari seem ready for that.

Originally posted by: kinu17

Yes want to hear once from that ma ka beta moran dev that..*ma u r wrong, u were wrong always.. I am not ur 5 yrs boy anymore I am grown up as a man..now I want to be responsible dad ,and above all a good husband..pls don't poke ur nose in our each matter any more .. *

Can this happen?😮 what do u think guys ..say it ..

I hate Ishwari's meddling and I hate that Dev has put her on a pedestal and can't see that she can be wrong too, but what you have written if Dev said these lines those would be pretty rude too. Ishwari is Dev's mom, he can disagree with his mom without being disrespectful, he can tell her calmly that "You have taught me good, you have raised me good , now it's my turn to be a good father to my kids and do everything you did for me, for them now. And I love Sonakshi so I have to be a good husband too, my kids will get stability seeing their parents happy together. This doesn't mean that I will not be a good and dutiful son but it just means you will rest and we will take care of the household and kids, your only job is to love them and pamper them but not break the rules we set for our kids, parenting and times have changed we are preparing our kids for a different world than what you prepared us for. Being a son, husband and a father are equally important to me. So trust your son and let him manage his responsibilities"