What should Sona do? - Page 2

For now, Sonakshi is on a much-needed break. No mother will want to stay away from her 3 children, one of which is a toddler. Yes logically she should be with Ayush right now, but she is guilty. She made a promise to Ayush which she couldn't fulfill. Obviously she wasn't at fault, but she feels like that. She doesn't know how to face him or solve the problem. So she went to her home, her Baba to think through everything. When she returns now, she will have a game plan to tackle Ishwari and an explanation for Ayush.

She should set boundaries in her relationships. If Ishu and her ladlaa still don't learn, she should leave with her kids.

Originally posted by: AnokhiKaShaurya

For now, Sonakshi is on a much-needed break. No mother will want to stay away from her 3 children, one of which is a toddler. Yes logically she should be with Ayush right now, but she is guilty. She made a promise to Ayush which she couldn't fulfill. Obviously she wasn't at fault, but she feels like that. She doesn't know how to face him or solve the problem. So she went to her home, her Baba to think through everything. When she returns now, she will have a game plan to tackle Ishwari and an explanation for Ayush.

She should set boundaries in her relationships. If Ishu and her ladlaa still don't learn, she should leave with her kids.

This more important. I think we need to discuss how ladies shd handle such case. How can she stop name change in official paper. There is still time, she shd do something.

What I understood with Sona's behaviour is that she was only thinking about Ayush and not about what Ishwari did. She has promised Ayush which she could not keep and hence she was feeling guilty to face her son that is why she chose to stay away for sometime. I am sure once Sona returns to that house, she will definitely have a talk with Ishwari regarding this. As a mother she knows her responsibilities and I have seen Sona as strong individual. Sona is mature too and whatever she has in her heart or mind she says that openly, I don't think she has to threaten Dev for divorce, she can clear herself in front of him with her words.

Talking about divorce, then these problems between Dev and Sona are as a parent first and then as a couple. They are not able to make each other understand and which is quite normal in real life. The lovey dovey love fades in real life when you have responsibilities with you. I am not saying couples become completely boring, but yes their bond do get slightly different. Because after marrying for so many years and after being with each other for so long, both of them start taking each other for granted. And that is why these ignorance happens, it's completely normal. So divorce is not a solution, it will be the last option when they are fighting daily when they are not happy in their life and what not. But it is not like that, they love each other and understand each other.

For me, I think Sona did correct. She is an individual too and sometimes she needs to relax herself too. Once she gets fine she will handle her children, her husband and family. So this is my opinion.!

Originally posted by: AnokhiKaShaurya

For now, Sonakshi is on a much-needed break. No mother will want to stay away from her 3 children, one of which is a toddler. Yes logically she should be with Ayush right now, but she is guilty. She made a promise to Ayush which she couldn't fulfill. Obviously she wasn't at fault, but she feels like that. She doesn't know how to face him or solve the problem. So she went to her home, her Baba to think through everything. When she returns now, she will have a game plan to tackle Ishwari and an explanation for Ayush.

She should set boundaries in her relationships. If Ishu and her ladlaa still don't learn, she should leave with her kids.

I agree. She should come up with an actual plan to tackle this. That would be the logical next step.

But it won't happen. Logic has been thrown out of the window when they launched this season.

So what will happen is a nice little romance scene, with parallels. Ho gaya. She will come back, say sorry to Ayush. Ayush will say, it's okay (because he has bonded with Ish due to emotional manipulation), so Sona will be relieved. Ish will make more halwa and all good.

🤮🤮

I swear, the Elena-stalker track is so much more interesting and something to look forward to, than this same old recycled blackmail drama with zero logic.

I'm actually not happy with how Sonakshi's concerns or issues have been highlighted in the show. Though her reactions are quite "human" but the makers have shown those as selfish when she is questioned by Dev and Ishwari. Her reaction right from knowing that her daughter is not hers to Ayush's name change issue is how a normal human being faces them. They are unsure or angry at such turn of events unlike "God" like humans Dev or Ishwari did.

Even yesterday when she took a break to process things...it is being portrayed as irresponsible behaviour.

In fact out of all the three... I would say it's her character which is not written properly. They should have made her character with someone who has regressive thoughts like the other two main leads.

I had written that it seems Sonakshi is the third wheel between maa beta...but I realise her character sticks like a sore thumb in front of Dev or Ishwari.

Originally posted by: 07RB

I think she has done wrong to leave the home. What should she do now is that go that house and gave a good repky to Ishwari. She should tell her everything how every time dev and sona had to separate because if her. They had left on the roads, have to live away many years because if her pathetic behavior. She is a manipulative mother and the worst mother. Now she is trying to take kids away. If dev cones in support of his, give him a big slap. May be that will get his brain back.

Then finally threaten to divorce dev and take kids away. This is easy, sona is financially independent, kids need their mother, in court she can easily explain what all ishwari have done. She can get custody of kids that way.

Tell dev to leave his mom and come live in a separate house if he does not want to live away. If he does not that means he is spineless husband and father who is chosing wrong and his pathetic mother over them.

I was also unhappy when Sonakshi left for Bose house. I would have appreciated more if Sona had decided to go back to Ishwari Niwas, and supported Ayush and confronted Ishwari. But honestly, since Ishwari displays signs of covert narcissism, she will never admit she is wrong. Instead, Ishwari will manipulate Sona like she manipulates Dev, and consequently, Sona will also forget how to stand up for her own kids. Dev already has. Dev being unable to stand up for his son is all result of Ishwari's gaslighting (yes, it's a legit term).

Among other things, I would like to point out something positive about the last episode. When Sona learned about Ayush's naamkaran ceremony, she asked Dev if he knew about it beforehand or not. Dev said he didn't know before, and Sonakshi believed him. She didn't blame him for the ceremony, before leaving for her Baba's house. Whereas, when Sonakshi and her family became homeless, she had blamed Dev for her misfortune. Then they got separated for 7 years. Maybe DevAkshi can come out stronger if they communicate more, keep belief, and stand up for themselves and their kids.

P.S. I have watched all episodes of the previous seasons, and used to participate in this forum sometime during S1 :)

P.S. Everytime Ayush calls Ishwari as aunty, I remember the episode when Dev called Asha as aunty (after his marriage) because Ishwari felt bad. Karma, I would say!

Originally posted by: Newbiewriter30

I agree. She should come up with an actual plan to tackle this. That would be the logical next step.

But it won't happen. Logic has been thrown out of the window when they launched this season.

So what will happen is a nice little romance scene, with parallels. Ho gaya. She will come back, say sorry to Ayush. Ayush will say, it's okay (because he has bonded with Ish due to emotional manipulation), so Sona will be relieved. Ish will make more halwa and all good.

🤮🤮

I swear, the Elena-stalker track is so much more interesting and something to look forward to, than this same old recycled blackmail drama with zero logic.

This time? Maybe. Everything might get stable between Ish-Ayu for a small period of time as well. But everything will bite back sooner or later. Except the child swap thing, every emotion we saw in this season was real. So maybe things get okay for a small period of time, but there won't be a happily ever after with this.

TBH, Sonakshi's only flaw is her love for Dev which makes her come back to him again and again.

Originally posted by: 07RB

As much as i found sona calling dev Sona in front of Ishu maata hilarious😂😂. I don’t think dev is doing anything to get called bu such names.

One thing i realize is that ishworry devi changing name ceremony does not make any difference. Because it is only done ritually not legally. So why the hell dev tells him on the papers it would be ved Ayushmann but we will call him Ayush only. Why would he go and make legal papers in ved name??

Thats Dev!! He will never say no to his mother. I understand kids should be polite and love their parents but shouldnt be like Dev. In a way its Dev who has spoiled his mother so much.

Originally posted by: Hari73

Yes definitely. But she shd not allow dev change ayush name in school. She can give joot moot ka damki in privately, that she will leave him if things don't go according to her. And then dev is good at lying. He can tell his mother, admission already done n name cannot b changed there n she can call him whatever she wants at home. But sona can continue calling him in his real name.

But I want sona to show some angry at esh too. She cannot show she is fine with things. Thoda tho hungama chahiya. I don't know how she will show her angry. May b by thod pod or silent treatment or taunting her. But I want some reaction from sona so that children aware sona is not happy with esh. So that children hv some trust in mother that she will protect them. If they let go things likes this, don't you think children will hv insecurity.

Agreed , Sonakshi needs to react. I liked the way she made her point clear to Dev. But I doubt if Dev can ever understand her. Sonakshi is trying to win a war against habits that was developed over a period of time🤣Thanks to his mom!!. Even after all that she said , he still is trying to cover up for his mother .

I also liked Ishwari's fear , when Sonakshi had not returned. She was scared. She had seen what will happen to Dev when Sonakshi is not with him.

Sonakshi might come back but I doubt if she would be the same giving in girl he married. Because now she is a mother of three and her priorities will change and she will become a lot more stronger for her kids

Lets hope for the best. But have to admit I liked todays episode. And I liked Bijoy today. The way he thought it was best for his daughter to decide . That is the trust and confidence he has in his kids. He is confident about the way he and his wife has brought up his kids.