Passion , intimacy , commitment , trust , love and Devakshi - Page 2

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

I think they esp Dev lost the intimate feeling , hugging with passion every thing towards Sona , he is busy in his world .

Sona wanted and was hoping him to hug her and comfort her , Maa was blaming her she is hurt , it is most painful fir Sona , but Dev ran to Maa only to get negative remarks about Sona

I am getting disappointed by him

He too was brought by a widowed , obsessed mom he wouldn’t have witnessed how a loving husband showing care , affection to wife .

He is not aware of a happily married need to show affection, communication , passion etc . He is product of his growing up yrs that is his Maa “ processing about motherhood “

I hope he won’t join with the Maa telling Sona is not a good mom since she couldn’t recognize the baby is not hers .

Don’t know !

Marriage with person from broken and traumatized families always head towards lot of trouble , my be writers are trying to tell that

Yes, house atmosphere really influence person.

My ears hurt every time I hear the analogy, but relationships thrive only when nurtured.

Love, respect, trust, intimacy - all are v important but spending time together and communicating with intention to hear and share, is the actual soil which keeps relationships withstand test of time.

When u taste success and have family responsibilities, u end up in the rat race invariably… and that’s the start of sacrificing time spent together.
When you are passing ships, when do u pause to really communicate? Breakfast, dinner or driving time only? Perhaps at night too when u r pausing between yawns but not really listening…

And what do u talk about? Only enough so as not to burden the other person, to keep each other informed or when something is critical. The mushy talks might still happen, but probably not that frequently.

So, when u can’t voice your emotions, your fears, your desires… u do end up having different expectations and priorities and that makes the relation vulnerable and people grow apart.

I do believe Devakshi are caught in this cycle…

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Couple relationship is built on passion, intimacy , commitment , trust and love .

Usually within first few years passion will fade

Intimacy is like salt in food it should be there

In Devakshi that is missing

Love , trust and commitment are there

Intimacy is important not just physical it should a connection .

If they have these elements in relationship no one can break them apart .

I think Devaskhi missing Passion & intimacy still it is working , but if not intimate marriages will end up in divorce even after 20 or 30 yrs it can happen.

So wait and watch how Devakshi going to find each other through this troubles

Agree with you. Emotional connection between them is missing. It happens when couples don't spend time together. Yes passion will not be there after some years of married life. But intimacy is important. Intimacy means holding hands, hugging each other, having some small sweet talks ..... all these are important after years of marriage.

Couples need to be there for each other and face all the problems together. That is the sign of a healthy marriage. I just couldn't digest Dev standing silently when Ishwari was blaming Sona. He did not even try to comfort Sona after they came back to their room.

I hope they show more of their relationship dynamics than this Ayushman story.

Originally posted by: nuttycleo

My ears hurt every time I hear the analogy, but relationships thrive only when nurtured.

Love, respect, trust, intimacy - all are v important but spending time together and communicating with intention to hear and share, is the actual soil which keeps relationships withstand test of time.

When u taste success and have family responsibilities, u end up in the rat race invariably… and that’s the start of sacrificing time spent together.
When you are passing ships, when do u pause to really communicate? Breakfast, dinner or driving time only? Perhaps at night too when u r pausing between yawns but not really listening…

And what do u talk about? Only enough so as not to burden the other person, to keep each other informed or when something is critical. The mushy talks might still happen, but probably not that frequently.

So, when u can’t voice your emotions, your fears, your desires… u do end up having different expectations and priorities and that makes the relation vulnerable and people grow apart.

I do believe Devakshi are caught in this cycle…

Communication and talking to each other also a part of love & passion ... now it look like they are not even talking enough .

Being together means not physically but also emotionally together ...not guessing film name correct it is more to that , it is missing in Devakdhi l

People grow apart , drift from each other

Originally posted by: anuprem

Agree with you. Emotional connection between them is missing. It happens when couples don't spend time together. Yes passion will not be there after some years of married life. But intimacy is important. Intimacy means holding hands, hugging each other, having some small sweet talks ..... all these are important after years of marriage.

Couples need to be there for each other and face all the problems together. That is the sign of a healthy marriage. I just couldn't digest Dev standing silently when Ishwari was blaming Sona. He did not even try to comfort Sona after they came back to their room.

I hope they show more of their relationship dynamics than this Ayushman story.

Emotional connection will be more ruined now with Ayush’s entry ... Dev brought him home but look still in shock ... now today’s pre cap shows Eshwari’s true colour

Sona is also acting weired if Ayush is her son means she must at least hug him once , don’t know how the story will go ahead