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there is a huge diffrence in these words these are not same words
As we know , not only spelling but meanings are quite diffrent
protective over protective possesive obsessed doninating caring
these words have diffrent meaning
Care is more thn attention , means serious attention to avoid any harm or helping in curing that harm
the way he aid her when she cut her finger shows care
protection means to ensure that he/she is not hurt in anyway (emotionlly / mentally) by ANYONE(INCLUDING YOU)
saving from goons
its more thn care just like gardians do
protective means caring in extra size
while care means extra attention
while over protective means wishing to protect someone excessively
when someone becomes over protective , everything changes bcz they throw themself in front of them in every situation
don't let them do anything alone , like a wall between their sorrow and them
always ensuring that they are safe , like you want to drive their life
but it sends negetive impact as in future they will not able to handle harsh situation
snatching their ability
just like following her everywhere
possesive mean being jealous insanly ,.you think they belongs to you only not anyone else
ego , insecurities overpowers you
the way he handled when jatin or Ritwik came
obsessive means constant thought of a particular thing or person
you think you own them
like stalkers fits in this catagory
addiction is mere word in front of this , you cant even share them with their parents or anyone (this counts in disease)
MAYA counts in obsessive lover
protective - worried about the other person being hurt , their feelings hurt
possesive - worried about yourself and your feeling being hurt
obsession - owner ship and refusal of sharing
AND
there is thin line between this and dominating
you want to go out at this odd hour let me come with you
protective
you want to go out (even its day time)let me come with you
over protective
(just like he asked her in the morning and want to accompany her )
you can't go out without telling me anytime and with whom , where , why
and let me come with you
shows possesiveness
in possesiveness you need to prove your love but obsession scares you
BUT
dominating means controlling the other person be it emotionally or physically
his behaviour confuse you ,sometime nice but on the other hand they want you to behave the way they want
YOU CANT STEP OUT OF HOUSE
this is one type of emotionally abuse
so plz dear writers , you can make dev possesive , obsessive but dominating his wife is not good at all
If this was a real situation , it counts as crime
apart from this
its not healthy in any way
you are showing as if he has some serious mental disorder
pyar k naye rang kya daar ?
Like really ??
we felt like watching Beyhadh or sobhagyawati bhawa
till yesterday we felt bad for dev tat sona negleting him
but today what we saw is not acceptable at all
even if you love someone you cant in fact you should not allow someone to control you
now all i can hope is sona should not keep quite
there is no love in controlling someone
sorey for long post
no offence this is just my POV
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