Originally posted by: AA1122
I too think to each his own.. but I believe Change is anyway inevitable in different phases of our lives.. but changing our core principles will never last.. things like dresses or haristyle is anyway superficial, so I dont see it as a big deal.
Also, people scrutinize these things in the initial days/years of the relationship, later it hardly matters.. so if you do it to ensure an important relationship is based on solid foundation, I dont see any harm doing it..
From my personal experience, my inlaws are slightly conservative too.. for e.g, they wanted me to wear bangles bindi and all that :) And I wasnt used to it! And my husband didnt have an opinion on this matter.. so I decided that I would do it for them until they learn to look past it.. now after so many years, they dont notice neither do I worry about it.. considering all the trouble we went thru to convince them for our relationship, I thought it wasnt a big deal to give in for a while, and it wasnt something I had a strong opinion on..
In Erica's case too, I feel the dressing maybe the public view since they never know where their pics are clicked and posted.. but if you look at other things, she is still doing whatever she loves doing, so I dont think its a big deal..
On a lighter note, maybe she doesnt want to show off her midriff since she has a special tattoo there, who knows 😉