No place for divorced women. - Page 2

Originally posted by: timbarucha83

This was expected the way in the case of theft insident the saurav was ready to move out on that same day .the problem is saurav never acted as a big brother or an elder son and that was done by sona.like ishu never understand what dev want in s1 in the same way bose family never understand that sona was alway under the burdon to make the things better for her family. And to be very honest every new bahu is the like a outsider as the both parties are new it is obvious na.how you will accect a new person as dear as the previous members.it requires time. That what i feel.

Originally posted by: Tia.0

You are expecting too much from the CVs who has already trivialized a heart breaking situation like infertility to be sensitive towards divorced women, Bhumi. If you ask me, don't expect too much. You will get disappointed.

Regarding Saurabh standing up for Ronita, frankly the only way he could have showed true support if he had honestly shared Ronita's concern. The concern he shared with Bijoy, he tried to sort it by inviting her parents for visit. Lying about Ronita's concern and then getting in a snit looked immature and stupidity which even Ronita realized.

I frankly don't know why Asha had to hide anything from Ronita when she knows everything anyway. What was the need of her unnecessary secrecy drama? She herself said that Ronita is a family member now.

Yeah Sona's situation is circumstancial, she doesn't want to create any problem for her brother unlike Neha. However, this show is trying to draw parallels of both scenarios by implying that Sona staying with her parents after divorce might have some negative impact on newly married couples regardless of who is at fault.

why just a matter of divorced woman. anyone & everyone in the show is giving advice to her to reconcile.. from bache to buddhe without regard to her!!!ppl forget it wasnt her to broke the marriage! p

other sensitive issues like "fertility" "feminist" have been handled with such immaturity.. no hope from makers 😡

Sourav has suddenly taken a turn to the worse...he was always shown to be indecisive,low in confidence abt his professional abilities, difficult to manage household responsibilities but he was always understanding n caring towards Sona.

Originally posted by: Sunshinebhumii

Show is justifying that divorced women eventually causes disturbances/issues in their parents house regardless of how independent they are.
Neha and Sona's character are pole apart; they had different childhood and upbringing yet,intentionally or unintentionally they managed to create troubles in their respective brothers married life.

No wonder women choose to stay in violent relationships despite being treated equally by their parents. Society has no place for divorced women, not yet!
Hope makers will handle this matter more sensitively! Wish show could be bit more empathetic towards divorced women!

The serial is trying its best to portray the reality existing today. Compared to last two decades or even earlier, a divorced woman is scorned and treated with a lot of contempt. Today, the situation in India (cities and metros) have changed dramatically. A divorced person can find another life partner and a woman divorcee has also uplifted herself to becoming financially independent and a stronger individual. I would not like to compare Sonakshi's character here as it's not clear whether Dev-Sonakshi are divorced. There was also just a single mention about Neha settled in US. Was she divorced from Ranvir too is yet to be confirmed, though inferences can definitely be drawn.

A failed marriage is looked upon as a failure of an individual to adjust to circumstances and investing in new relationships. The issues of domestic abuse, infertility, infidelity or dowry etc are only some reasons for failure. But, majority of divorced people have issues of adjustment. Egos and unfulfilled expectations form majority of them. Today the society is accepting them and not belittling them. In that context, the serial has been quite realistic in its portrayal. The acceptance of Sonakshi by her family and Neha by the Dixit clan shows a changing mindset. Of course, if you are expecting divorcees to be glorified in serials, that may be too far-fetched and entirely depends on the script.



-Rekha

Originally posted by: Danseuse

The serial is trying its best to portray the reality existing today. Compared to last two decades or even earlier, a divorced woman is scorned and treated with a lot of contempt. Today, the situation in India (cities and metros) have changed dramatically. A divorced person can find another life partner and a woman divorcee has also uplifted herself to becoming financially independent and a stronger individual. I would not like to compare Sonakshi's character here as it's not clear whether Dev-Sonakshi are divorced. There was also just a single mention about Neha settled in US. Was she divorced from Ranvir too is yet to be confirmed, though inferences can definitely be drawn.

A failed marriage is looked upon as a failure of an individual to adjust to circumstances and investing in new relationships. The issues of domestic abuse, infertility, infidelity or dowry etc are only some reasons for failure. But, majority of divorced people have issues of adjustment. Egos and unfulfilled expectations form majority of them. Today the society is accepting them and not belittling them. In that context, the serial has been quite realistic in its portrayal. The acceptance of Sonakshi by her family and Neha by the Dixit clan shows a changing mindset. Of course, if you are expecting divorcees to be glorified in serials, that may be too far-fetched and entirely depends on the script.



-Rekha

Originally posted by: vibg

why just a matter of divorced woman. anyone & everyone in the show is giving advice to her to reconcile.. from bache to buddhe without regard to her!!!ppl forget it wasnt her to broke the marriage! p

other sensitive issues like "fertility" "feminist" have been handled with such immaturity.. no hope from makers 😡

Definitely CVS want to show two sides of a married man. One side was of dev's and now saurav's but CVS didn't chose appropriate incident to introduce this track. Doesn't saurav know that its sona's wedding anniversary?????? And its not such a big deal or secret. Hence the scene was just irritating and overreaction seeing saurav and even ronita crying and cribbing over nothing. Saurav's dialogue was of a opportunist. But I feel all these thoughts about sona has always been in saurav's mind which is coming out now becoz sona is the sole bread winner in their family.