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Sunshinebhumii

@Sunshinebhumii

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Posted: 8 years ago

Show is justifying that divorced women eventually causes disturbances/issues in their parents house regardless of how independent they are.
Neha and Sona's character are pole apart; they had different childhood and upbringing yet,intentionally or unintentionally they managed to create troubles in their respective brothers married life.

No wonder women choose to stay in violent relationships despite being treated equally by their parents. Society has no place for divorced women, not yet!
Hope makers will handle this matter more sensitively! Wish show could be bit more empathetic towards divorced women!

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krish8090

@krish8090

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Posted: 8 years ago

hi, y do u c sonakshis prob as divorced woman.but in this show even ishwari is too concerned abt dev who is also divorced.

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shruti.

@shruti2007

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Posted: 8 years ago

Don't hope so dear.
Cvs forgot their social responsibility while making dis show.many acts hv been justified in dis serial which shouldn't v.they

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lavanya

@dlavanya

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Posted: 8 years ago

They are showing teo extremes where one husband is not considering wife's feelings and on the otherside saurav is not considering his parents feelings or sona's involvement.

Sona did not sit and crib about her life or situation infront of saurav or ronita. I see that again the problem is entirely sauravs. Ronita doesnt know the famiky dynamics of boses but saurav does. Instead of sitting and cribbing or blaming at the dining table , as sonas big brother he should have alteady understood that they were sad as it was sona's anniversary. As her parents even they dreamed about a nice and happy family and life for their daughter and unfortunately it didnt happen so they are sad... saurav is acting like an irresponsible brother and good for nothing son.

Instead of the ott drama, he should have just asked why they are so sad and even ronita is sad becuase of their sadness.. then they would have actually opened up nicely without seeing ronita as that cribbing DIL.

I am sure if at all a situation arises where saurav will take this forward and crib all the time, bijoy will ask him to move out.

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melliflous

@melliflous

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Posted: 8 years ago

Sonakshi is the whole and sole reason for Bose's financial state. All the necessities, luxuries are provided by her. We all know the track record of Saurabh, he couldn't even stay in one job. Despite being older brother he was dependent on Sonakshi for his finance many a times pre-leap. And we all know the famous 5 crore loan he accepted from Dev without informing Sona which is one of the major reasons that caused all the fiasco of separation between a couple who had returned after spending some happy moments of togetherness and never had thought what was their families were upto. Even today, Saurabh works with Sonakshi and we know that Sonakshi runs the business. So, if he( or bose family) goes at any stage against Sonakshi is completely unacceptable because they owe it to her. I agree that the society needs to change their outlook. A woman who is independent and in fact taking care of the family single-handed needs to be respected.

Coming to today's episode, it was completely unfair of Saurabh to drag Sonakshi into his frustration due to his wife's mood. Ironically, no outsider like mami/dadi etc were needed when a brother himself compared his sister and his wife. He was unreasonable to his parents. For, Ronita, don't know how many buckets had she cried had she got treatment that Sonakshi got immediately after marriage.

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timbarucha83

@timbarucha83

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: dlavanya
They are showing teo extremes where one husband is not considering wife's feelings and on the otherside saurav is not considering his parents feelings or sona's involvement.

Sona did not sit and crib about her life or situation infront of saurav or ronita. I see that again the problem is entirely sauravs. Ronita doesnt know the famiky dynamics of boses but saurav does. Instead of sitting and cribbing or blaming at the dining table , as sonas big brother he should have alteady understood that they were sad as it was sona's anniversary. As her parents even they dreamed about a nice and happy family and life for their daughter and unfortunately it didnt happen so they are sad... saurav is acting like an irresponsible brother and good for nothing son.

Instead of the ott drama, he should have just asked why they are so sad and even ronita is sad becuase of their sadness.. then they would have actually opened up nicely without seeing ronita as that cribbing DIL.

I am sure if at all a situation arises where saurav will take this forward and crib all the time, bijoy will ask him to move out.

This was expected the way in the case of theft insident the saurav was ready to move out on that same day .the problem is saurav never acted as a big brother or an elder son and that was done by sona.like ishu never understand what dev want in s1 in the same way bose family never understand that sona was alway under the burdon to make the things better for her family. And to be very honest every new bahu is the like a outsider as the both parties are new it is obvious na.how you will accect a new person as dear as the previous members.it requires time. That what i feel.

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404_NotFound

@404_NotFound

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Posted: 8 years ago

Saurabh was unreasonable today and this is what was expected from a Dev by many people at the time of Neha's divorce.They thought Sona being a new bride is effected by this drama so Neha should reconcile with Ranveer or move out or should not be sad .Though Sona did not crib directly but she did make a big issue infront of Dev when she was not involved and her opnion was ignored by Neha just like how Ronita misinterpreted Bose family.Both Ronita m Sona did the same mistake ,expecting their in laws to share everything from day 1.Its takes time to develop trust and bonding and some patience too

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

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Posted: 8 years ago

You are expecting too much from the CVs who has already trivialized a heart breaking situation like infertility to be sensitive towards divorced women, Bhumi. If you ask me, don't expect too much. You will get disappointed.

Regarding Saurabh standing up for Ronita, frankly the only way he could have showed true support if he had honestly shared Ronita's concern. The concern he shared with Bijoy, he tried to sort it by inviting her parents for visit. Lying about Ronita's concern and then getting in a snit looked immature and stupidity which even Ronita realized.

I frankly don't know why Asha had to hide anything from Ronita when she knows everything anyway. What was the need of her unnecessary secrecy drama? She herself said that Ronita is a family member now.

Edited by Tia.0 - 8 years ago

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krish8090

@krish8090

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Posted: 8 years ago

very true, right representation of wat exactly happened.

sourabh surpassed dev also . may be his feelings for ronita were true but where was his empathy towards parents n wife n sister

Originally posted by: dlavanya
They are showing teo extremes where one husband is not considering wife's feelings and on the otherside saurav is not considering his parents feelings or sona's involvement.

Sona did not sit and crib about her life or situation infront of saurav or ronita. I see that again the problem is entirely sauravs. Ronita doesnt know the famiky dynamics of boses but saurav does. Instead of sitting and cribbing or blaming at the dining table , as sonas big brother he should have alteady understood that they were sad as it was sona's anniversary. As her parents even they dreamed about a nice and happy family and life for their daughter and unfortunately it didnt happen so they are sad... saurav is acting like an irresponsible brother and good for nothing son.

Instead of the ott drama, he should have just asked why they are so sad and even ronita is sad becuase of their sadness.. then they would have actually opened up nicely without seeing ronita as that cribbing DIL.

I am sure if at all a situation arises where saurav will take this forward and crib all the time, bijoy will ask him to move out.

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timbarucha83

@timbarucha83

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: yyy
Saurabh was unreasonable today and this is what was expected from a Dev by many people at the time of Neha's divorce.They thought Sona being a new bride is effected by this drama so Neha should reconcile with Ranveer or move out or should not be sad .Though Sona did not crib directly but she did make a big issue infront of Dev when she was not involved and her opnion was ignored by Neha just like how Ronita misinterpreted Bose family.Both Ronita m Sona did the same mistake ,expecting their in laws to share everything from day 1.Its takes time to develop trust and bonding and some patience too

I case of sona the things were little differnt.sona was already know the dixits she was the friend and in neha's marriage dev allowed her to come in the picture as he was only her gf and family was not aware of there relation. If neha was ok with sona dev will be happy about the sona's involment. Neha has envi on sona and ishu was insecure. I agree instade of looking to impress ishu sona should have constrated on dev but the sitution for neha and ronita are different .

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